It’s already more than month that I tried BBC, it’s completely amazing. I even can’t compare it to sex with my husband not only for size. I think most of black man looks much more sexier than white men and for me it’s big advantage. Now I’m sexually addicted to my bull, sometimes we have sex twice in a day. At first hubby enjoyed from all that, but now I feel sorry for him. He become jealous because we didn’t invite him anymore to watch us. I don’t want to destroy our marriage. Please give me advice what to do? Am I doing things right? or I should change anything to avoid problems?
ModernMarriage
Couple
Hubs needs to understand that you will be having sex with your bull regardless if he is there or not. Hubs also needs to understand that you will have sex with your bull with or without warning.
Something you can try is on a day/night that your husband is home, you should walk around in your underwear. You can kiss him or whatever, but don't let him touch. Now, you should also have your bull come over. And the very second your bull walks in the house you need to make sure hubs is in the room when you great your bull. And upon greeting your bull, you drop to your knees and start sucking his cock.
This will show hubs that you give it all to your bull and that it is a privilege for hubs to be there when he is there, but it is not mandatory that he is there all the time.
Once your bull has cum in your mouth, then take him to the bedroom and let him have his way with you.
Something you can try is on a day/night that your husband is home, you should walk around in your underwear. You can kiss him or whatever, but don't let him touch. Now, you should also have your bull come over. And the very second your bull walks in the house you need to make sure hubs is in the room when you great your bull. And upon greeting your bull, you drop to your knees and start sucking his cock.
This will show hubs that you give it all to your bull and that it is a privilege for hubs to be there when he is there, but it is not mandatory that he is there all the time.
Once your bull has cum in your mouth, then take him to the bedroom and let him have his way with you.
Really he should still be involved, it’s not all about you it’s about all of you and what all of you eat out of it, and if he’s not getting anything out of it he will resent you for it
I'm not a hotwife, I'm a guy, so take my thoughts for whatever they are worth.
You're not really a hotwife. You've turned your husband into a cuckold. My idea of a hotwife is one who does this WITH the husband, usually the husband finds the guys, and the "hotwife" is sometimes obedient to the husband. This is different, you are doing whatever you want, without your husband being there, or even being aware.
Is this supposed to spice up your marriage, or replace it? Think carefully about that. If you're doing something without your husband knowing, and it upsets him, and you know it upsets him, should you continue?
I'm not in a relationship like this yet, but to me, in order for this type of thing to work, there have to be ground rules agreed to by both parties.
Only you can decide how to continue. Doing what you're doing could end your marriage.
You're not really a hotwife. You've turned your husband into a cuckold. My idea of a hotwife is one who does this WITH the husband, usually the husband finds the guys, and the "hotwife" is sometimes obedient to the husband. This is different, you are doing whatever you want, without your husband being there, or even being aware.
Is this supposed to spice up your marriage, or replace it? Think carefully about that. If you're doing something without your husband knowing, and it upsets him, and you know it upsets him, should you continue?
I'm not in a relationship like this yet, but to me, in order for this type of thing to work, there have to be ground rules agreed to by both parties.
Only you can decide how to continue. Doing what you're doing could end your marriage.
There are so many ways to include your husband sexually. Why not jack off your husband while the black guy is fucking you. Kiss your husband while you are fuckin the black guy You can always have him hold your legs up while your getting fucked or leave him voice messages on his cell phone of you cumming on black dick so he has something to masturbate too.
Exactly she just needs to include her husband sexually. She doesn't have to fuck him but she can still make him cum hard other ways. Once he is involved he will be more then appreciative.
Every person is a world unto itself. The interaction of two creates a special synergy, and when it comes to three it is even more difficult to give an advice, because there is no universal formula. At first, your situation seems to be quite usual. A man excited by the idea of "sharing" his wife, but then discovers that he has opened the Pandora's box and he cannot deal with the situation because reality has little to do with his fantasies.
The problem is, if your husband is not a truly omega male, for him could be really hard to accept that other man is better than him in sex. Maybe he expected the bull just to be a "complement" for your sex life and now he considers the black stud as a rival that has overcome him. This situation can easily affect his self-esteem. Most of the advices in this thread have assumed your husband is an "authentic" cuckold, someone who enjoys with humiliation, but he can also be a person that has unsuccessfully tried with a kink.
If you really love him, you should behave to give the impression that your relationship with your bull is just sex. You should make your hubby feel special in some way. Maybe a solution is mocking of your bull, or whatever you can imagine.
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I'm not sure how the definitions of cuckold & hotwife have gotten so mis-construed ... but, one assumption in the misuse of these words or 'titles' is that they seem to be considered a voluntary action and/or agreement between couples, and that simply is not necessarily SO. The constant in all this is ONE ... that the woman is MARRIED, obviously ... or maybe not so obvious by some of the comments using GF & BF, etc ... and TWO, that 'permission' or 'acknowledgement' in the wife's acts of taking on additional sexual partners is a requirement by the husband to be branded with these titles. No permission is required, and often isn't.
Ok, sorry for that interruption ... "we now return you to your regularly scheduled program."
A married man becomes a cuckold the instant his married wife begins having sex with other men ... PERIOD!
A married wife becomes a HOT WIFE when she starts having sex with other men ... PERIOD!
The fact that the husband knows and/or agrees to his wife's having lovers or additional sexual partners ONLY indicates a degree of courtesy between the two but totally irrelevant to the titles of cuckold or hotwife.A married wife becomes a HOT WIFE when she starts having sex with other men ... PERIOD!
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hawkdoc2006
Male
I think titles are irrelevant to the question posed by Anna. What matters here is coming up with a solution that works for she and her husband.
Anna, the fact that you feel badly for you husband means you care about his feelings. The best thing you can do, it talk with him about his feelings regarding your recent sexual experiences.
Find out what he likes, and what he dislikes about your playing. At the same time, share your likes and dislikes.
You may find he enjoys things more than you think. My wife has been cuckolding me for years, but occasionally, she starts to feel quilty for doing so, even though we have talked about how I love it many times. We have to constantly communicate with each other to ensure we are both getting what we need from our chosen lifestyle. If something is bothering one of us, we adjust our behavior. We do this because we love each other.
If you communicate with your hubby, you can find a solution that will allow you to enjoy your BBC as much as you want, but will also ensure he gets what he needs too.
Anna, the fact that you feel badly for you husband means you care about his feelings. The best thing you can do, it talk with him about his feelings regarding your recent sexual experiences.
Find out what he likes, and what he dislikes about your playing. At the same time, share your likes and dislikes.
You may find he enjoys things more than you think. My wife has been cuckolding me for years, but occasionally, she starts to feel quilty for doing so, even though we have talked about how I love it many times. We have to constantly communicate with each other to ensure we are both getting what we need from our chosen lifestyle. If something is bothering one of us, we adjust our behavior. We do this because we love each other.
If you communicate with your hubby, you can find a solution that will allow you to enjoy your BBC as much as you want, but will also ensure he gets what he needs too.
This comment is such bullshit. "Give the impression......." What happened to honesty? Obviously to you, it's not necessary for the wife to be honest. The possibility that she is willing to manipulate or trick her husband is further proof she had no reason to be married to him.
I think when the truth creates bad feelings in other person and threats a relationship, it is better not to be honest. Little lies are the oil of social gear. Anyone who claims that he is completely honest with all his peers has no empathy or is a liar. However, what I actually meant was Anna should make her husband feel loved and special. It is funny to read how manipulative can be women in a forum where so many guys pretend to “push” their wives into a sex lifestyle, using all kind of tricks, just to fulfill their own fantasies.
cuckmeplz453
Male
That's soooo hot
cuckmeplz453
Male
Hopefully that's my sexy gf very soon!
That's what I call clever words, Hawk. I believe that there will always be some jealousy. The cuckold angst will never disappear completely.
But as hotwife said, cuckold angst does not ******* us.
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Deleted125623
Guest
Once again people trying to give advice when they canot even tell the difference between 'Cockolding', Voyeurism, and Polygamous Relationships, Fetish & Perversions. People, you seriously need to revaluate the meaning of relationships and stop lumping everything under 'Cuckold'.
Would you do us and everyone else a huge favor and explain it a bit more please.
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