you will see it if she is asking more for the toys and want to use it more often and also if she more often wants to use the biggest oneNo rush at all to get her the real bbc.
I just want her to CRAVE the girth and length. I also love turning her on, making her wet. Now, if those images and gif’s do that… I will carry on
Hesitant girlfriend…
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I sent her these gifs guys. As she was on the way back from work.
She came home, we chatted for like 20 minutes about our day. Then she, said “What are these then?” With a smirk on her face.
I said “I’ll leave you alone to look at them”
and she couldn’t stop smiling.
I left her upstairs.
She sends me a pic of her naked.
I said “you like then?”
She sends another pic of her naked.
She’s in the shower now
Fabswingers get on and chat to some black guys locally
I knew to white wh ores that tried black men, they went back to white men, said they couldn't find big enough black cocks, said they found bigger cocks with white men, FactSo are some white guys though. Do you know what my advice is..Hop on fabswingers check out some profiles and then come back to me . Sure there's some guys who are girthy and there's some black guys average. Might be a good idea to make a joint account with your wife and have a sneak peek
Stop pushing her, Keep the toys available to her without your presence... She'll go after them herself
Like how dirty, black cock dirty, like a slut, what did she say
I’ve been very interested in this whole thread as the OP is extremely responsive and asks for advice, it’s definitely been an interesting experience so far, I also think it’s extremely natural most men here will get off over it, as most as either going through, or have gone through, the same things. It’s a real world case study after all.
There was a poster here who raised some valid points about ensuring she knows she’s the queen and addressing her worries, this is a fact, also that it’s mostly our fantasy which is also true, it can be a selfish fantasy to have which is why you need to make sure there’s always something in it for her, whether that be extra care and attention or simply just moments where it’s you two enjoying time together without any sex dynamic involved at all.
Aside from that just be mindful of these things but continue to have fun, I know it’s been a fun journey for me so far.
Here’s one for the journey!
There was a poster here who raised some valid points about ensuring she knows she’s the queen and addressing her worries, this is a fact, also that it’s mostly our fantasy which is also true, it can be a selfish fantasy to have which is why you need to make sure there’s always something in it for her, whether that be extra care and attention or simply just moments where it’s you two enjoying time together without any sex dynamic involved at all.
Aside from that just be mindful of these things but continue to have fun, I know it’s been a fun journey for me so far.
Here’s one for the journey!
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Read your whole thread. Been in your situation, she will come around, YOU CANT PUSH!! It has to happen on HER timeline!! Keep going with what you have been doing and watching IR porn while you play. My girl told me “no how, no way will I ever sleep with a black guy” and “ get that ******* out of your head, it’s only a fantasy” so I let it go and pretty much gave up on the black part of my fantasy and about 3 weeks later after leaving her alone about it she came around and told me she thought a black football 
player was hot and I casually said “ I thought you didn’t like black guys?” And she said “I’ve thought more about it and I may be open to it” long story short, I was pushing a bit too hard and when I left it alone for a while she came around. I really thought it would never ever happen after our conversation that one day..
player was hot and I casually said “ I thought you didn’t like black guys?” And she said “I’ve thought more about it and I may be open to it” long story short, I was pushing a bit too hard and when I left it alone for a while she came around. I really thought it would never ever happen after our conversation that one day..
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I said that too, back off for awhile, let her be in the driver's seat, has to be her fantasy too, not just yoursRead the whole thread. Been in your situation, she will come around, YOU CANT PUSH!! It has to happen on HER timeline!! Keep going with what you have been doing and watching IR porn while you play. My girl told me “no how, no way will I ever ******* with a black guy” and “ get that ******* out of your head, it’s only a fantasy” so I let it go and pretty much gave up on the black part of my fantasy and about 3 weeks later after leaving her alone about it she came around and told me she thought a black football
at work now just thought I’d give you all another update.
I have layed off it now and she is now on her periodd (frustrating) …
Before the play yesterday, as we took our clothes off and went to get on the bed. She said with a smirk on her face, “So, when’s your friend coming?” and I didn’t know what to say so I just laughed and kissed her. Then I started to lick her pussyy. She put the blindfold on, I carried on licking her out, I thought to myself “don’t mention anything, lay off it” and I slided my dick inside her, fuckedd her for a couple of minutes and she was soaking.
Then she was saying things like “what were you thinking about earlier then when you sent me them images”
“Is that what you want is it?”
I said “Do you want to feel the stretch do you?” And she said “YES” and I said “how bad” and she said “I want it now”
So I got the toys out…
She‘s not been like that before progress!!
just thought I’d give you all another update.I have layed off it now and she is now on her periodd (frustrating) …
Before the play yesterday, as we took our clothes off and went to get on the bed. She said with a smirk on her face, “So, when’s your friend coming?” and I didn’t know what to say so I just laughed and kissed her. Then I started to lick her pussyy. She put the blindfold on, I carried on licking her out, I thought to myself “don’t mention anything, lay off it” and I slided my dick inside her, fuckedd her for a couple of minutes and she was soaking.
Then she was saying things like “what were you thinking about earlier then when you sent me them images”
“Is that what you want is it?”
I said “Do you want to feel the stretch do you?” And she said “YES” and I said “how bad” and she said “I want it now”
So I got the toys out…
She‘s not been like that before
progress!!Getting there, backing off for a short break to see her response, so far favorable. Good lay back for awhile, let her think, and fantasizeat work now
I have layed off it now and she is now on her periodd (frustrating) …
Before the play yesterday, as we took our clothes off and went to get on the bed. She said with a smirk on her face, “So, when’s your friend coming?” and I didn’t know what to say so I just laughed and kissed her. Then I started to lick her pussyy. She put the blindfold on, I carried on licking her out, I thought to myself “don’t mention anything, lay off it” and I slided my dick inside her, fuckedd her for a couple of minutes and she was soaking.
Then she was saying things like “what were you thinking about earlier then when you sent me them images”
“Is that what you want is it?”
I said “Do you want to feel the stretch do you?” And she said “YES” and I said “how bad” and she said “I want it now”
So I got the toys out…
She‘s not been like that before
mceight950
Male
if i would be you now is time to turn the table, you dont mention anything or send gfi and let her ask for it, make her crave it and that she must be good to have it, you must show that your not looking for it then you will see when she is the one really needing it.......poor first black guy that is going to be the first to come to your bed, he gonna have so much pressure matching the guys from blacked lol, she will be off for sure cause you kept unimaginable expectations, reality is much different
I agree with a lot of the advice here
With my gf I pushed it a lot and pushed and pushed
Sometimes she would seem turned on, other times annoyed / not interested
Then I backed off and it was her that was constantly bringing up bbc completely out of the blue
She even “accidentally” left a blacked video tab open on our shared computer
With my gf I pushed it a lot and pushed and pushed
Sometimes she would seem turned on, other times annoyed / not interested
Then I backed off and it was her that was constantly bringing up bbc completely out of the blue
She even “accidentally” left a blacked video tab open on our shared computer
Just another quick update.
She’s on her periodd. Annoyingly. Anyway…
She definitely don’t message me as much as she used to before this fantasy was brought up.
She told me that one of her customers yesterday said to her “I’ll come down here to just to see your face” flirting. She told me she rolled her eyes. I said “ain’t he quite old? Or…?” And she said “he’s younger than us and he was mixed race” and I said “oh right, fit?” And she didn’t say no she said “ohh, I didn’t look at him in that way” and I said “but was he fit though” and she said “well, I didn’t look at him in that way babe” and I said “that ain’t a no though is it” and she said “well, he was alryyyt, before I got with you he would have been totally my type to a T” and wee just laughed it off basically. Nothing more said.
She’s on her periodd. Annoyingly. Anyway…
She definitely don’t message me as much as she used to before this fantasy was brought up.
She told me that one of her customers yesterday said to her “I’ll come down here to just to see your face” flirting. She told me she rolled her eyes. I said “ain’t he quite old? Or…?” And she said “he’s younger than us and he was mixed race” and I said “oh right, fit?” And she didn’t say no
she said “ohh, I didn’t look at him in that way” and I said “but was he fit though” and she said “well, I didn’t look at him in that way babe” and I said “that ain’t a no though is it” and she said “well, he was alryyyt, before I got with you he would have been totally my type to a T” and wee just laughed it off basically. Nothing more said.Hmmm, interesting. Just be cool, I still say if the right black guy, at the right time chats and flirts with her, and gets her phone number, I think he will pull her, and meet her out somewhere. If that happens, she'll get blackedJust another quick update.
She’s on her periodd. Annoyingly. Anyway…
She definitely don’t message me as much as she used to before this fantasy was brought up.
She told me that one of her customers yesterday said to her “I’ll come down here to just to see your face” flirting. She told me she rolled her eyes. I said “ain’t he quite old? Or…?” And she said “he’s younger than us and he was mixed race” and I said “oh right, fit?” And she didn’t say no
Whitebottoms
Couple
So invested in this. I’ve had the desire to introduce bbc to my wife but haven’t had the courage to do it. This has definitely given me some motivation! I think I’ll have to make a thread when I inevitably introduce her to what she’s missing
Go for it
private eye
Male
Curious she doesn’t text as much. Are you stating she’s distant? Perhaps she feels smothered a bit, you would have a better feel for this dynamic than any of us or perhaps it’s as simple as her period creating a bit of change. Or maybe she’s starting to give the thought of being with a black guy serious thought as you want. The point is you won’t know unless you talk with her about what you both want moving forward. Oh, I would continue with the fun and games you both are enjoying but I would also make sure she understands you love her and you want this journey to be a completely shared experience.
Have you given additional thought to introducing IR porn to her? I would suggest again you go there as a couple. Just as you are fucking her with the toys. Do everything together, talk about each other’s desires together, your wants together and what you don’t want.
Her telling you about another guy flirting with her tells me she is definitely thinking about sex with others. Your efforts to condition her to big thick, long black dick by using the toys, along with you giving her the green light to act on her desires sound like she’s ready for the next step. Just be careful as it may backfire on you. As exciting as it sounds and the more you want her to act on her own and fuck black guys it may end up omitting you from the equation. Again, have fun after all it’s exciting and exhilarating just make sure you are both in it and enjoy it as a couple. She sounds like one you wouldn’t want to lose.
Keep us posted and good luck.
Have you given additional thought to introducing IR porn to her? I would suggest again you go there as a couple. Just as you are fucking her with the toys. Do everything together, talk about each other’s desires together, your wants together and what you don’t want.
Her telling you about another guy flirting with her tells me she is definitely thinking about sex with others. Your efforts to condition her to big thick, long black dick by using the toys, along with you giving her the green light to act on her desires sound like she’s ready for the next step. Just be careful as it may backfire on you. As exciting as it sounds and the more you want her to act on her own and fuck black guys it may end up omitting you from the equation. Again, have fun after all it’s exciting and exhilarating just make sure you are both in it and enjoy it as a couple. She sounds like one you wouldn’t want to lose.
Keep us posted and good luck.
