Same here, I'll take her in a heartbeat
Hesitant girlfriend…
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solegeezer
Male
mate this is an epic thread, i love it and its exactly what i want for my girl. thanks for all the updatesNo rush at all to get her the real bbc.
I just want her to CRAVE the girth and length. I also love turning her on, making her wet. Now, if those images and gif’s do that… I will carry on
Watch IR porn. Get her to leave her knickers on and after 10 mins look how wet her panties get
This seems to be the progression - great job breaking it down, demalejpo
1. Your fantasy
2. Her decision
3. Her fascination and control; your fascination and servitude
4. Her “what the fuck just happened there” (dude that gives her the best fucking of her life)
5. Her addiction
6. Your pussy free
7. Your attempt to do anything to stay involved in her sex life
8. Your becoming a servant to black cock as well
Damalejpo - I know part of the pussy free was your impotence
I’m at step 5 and part way to 6!
No doubt man….it seems to be the default progression. Very interesting
Yes, it certainly was.That said, I would not have resisted in any case. As a confirmed and compliant cuckold I no longer have any standing in matters vaginal. I am a cocksucker now and there’s no undoing that. And I have come to crave it.
Why would you want to be pussy free ?
Personally that's not for me I just want to watch her get ruined. Best part would be getting in that pussy afterwards knowing what's she's just had.
reclaim sex and whilst we are fucking she can tell me how good it wasHaven’t provide an update in a while.
We had the chat again and she said “I have told you before that it will never turn into a reality and I really enjoy it all as it is”
I said “we’ll carry on as we are then because I love it too! The fantasy of you meeting a bbc will have to stay as a fantasy then… we’ll carry on as we are”
She wore a sexy dress to work yesterday. She said “I’m not sure whether or not this dress is appropriate for work” I said “how come, you look sexy as fuck in it” and she said “I feel like everyone has eyes for my ass in this, it jiggles from side to side in it” and I said “oh no, the hotter the dress the better”
I got all the toys out again on the side before our evening started and she didn’t complain or say anything.
In our play last night, I kept it between me and her for a long while. She was loving it and so horny! So wet! She was even loving the dirty talk which isn’t her thing.
I’d say things like “Did it get you sorta wet, feeling like everyone’s got eyes on your ass at work in that tight dress?” And she said “yeah”
I said “Is it worth getting you sexier dresses for work” and she said “yeah”
She’s a car saleswoman by the way. Now, they don’t go on test drives with customers no more, (since covid) they used to.
I said “If that mixed race lad from the other day asked you to go out on a test-drive with him for half an hour, would you go out with him?” And she said “maybe, if you were there” and then I said “oh ok, me driving and you two in the back. Im driving us to ours and you’re riding him” and she moaned heavily.
I then said… her response to this shocked me as I thought she was going to say “you are takin this too far” from previous experience with her. I was fucking her on her side and said “Do you wonder what it would feel like with a big blackk man fucking you like this instead” and she said “yehhhh” and I then said “does it make you curious” and she said “yehhhhh”
Also, her pussy was so open and loose. We slided her dildo inside her which went in with ease. No lube required this time. Her moans are jus completely different, her body started to shake aswell, and her body tenses up at times. She absolutely loves it. I stood above her and she took control of the dildo and started to poundd herself with it. She pushed it in all the way and “ohhhhhhh” again from her. She was loving it! She had even cummed once and still proceeded to carry on with it.
PROGRESS!!!
We had the chat again and she said “I have told you before that it will never turn into a reality and I really enjoy it all as it is”
I said “we’ll carry on as we are then because I love it too! The fantasy of you meeting a bbc will have to stay as a fantasy then… we’ll carry on as we are”
She wore a sexy dress to work yesterday. She said “I’m not sure whether or not this dress is appropriate for work” I said “how come, you look sexy as fuck in it” and she said “I feel like everyone has eyes for my ass in this, it jiggles from side to side in it” and I said “oh no, the hotter the dress the better”
I got all the toys out again on the side before our evening started and she didn’t complain or say anything.
In our play last night, I kept it between me and her for a long while. She was loving it and so horny! So wet! She was even loving the dirty talk which isn’t her thing.
I’d say things like “Did it get you sorta wet, feeling like everyone’s got eyes on your ass at work in that tight dress?” And she said “yeah”
I said “Is it worth getting you sexier dresses for work” and she said “yeah”
She’s a car saleswoman by the way. Now, they don’t go on test drives with customers no more, (since covid) they used to.
I said “If that mixed race lad from the other day asked you to go out on a test-drive with him for half an hour, would you go out with him?” And she said “maybe, if you were there” and then I said “oh ok, me driving and you two in the back. Im driving us to ours and you’re riding him” and she moaned heavily.
I then said… her response to this shocked me as I thought she was going to say “you are takin this too far” from previous experience with her. I was fucking her on her side and said “Do you wonder what it would feel like with a big blackk man fucking you like this instead” and she said “yehhhh” and I then said “does it make you curious” and she said “yehhhhh”
Also, her pussy was so open and loose. We slided her dildo inside her which went in with ease. No lube required this time. Her moans are jus completely different, her body started to shake aswell, and her body tenses up at times. She absolutely loves it. I stood above her and she took control of the dildo and started to poundd herself with it. She pushed it in all the way and “ohhhhhhh” again from her. She was loving it! She had even cummed once and still proceeded to carry on with it.
PROGRESS!!!
Progress?
Mate, I think you are only hearing what you want to hear. She communicated with you pretty directly, and then you assume that what she was willing to do in bed was an indication that her words weren’t true. You think you are going to wear her down. Again, like I said before, that’s manipulation. That’s not how you want this to happen.
This is starting to cone across as incredibly selfish on your part.
There is a lot more that should have been said in that earlier conversation. I don’t know… I’m about to throw my hands up at the situation.
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mceight950
Male
why dont you start slower and next time you dirty talk, tell her that you would love to bring a black male but that her pussy is too precious and that he could only have the right to get sucked.....take away some pressure for her, maybe they could just kiss and she give him head as a start if she is insecure about a stranger penetrating her, find a way to make her say yes about something little for a start, find a video porn where a girl just gives head to a bbc that laids back on the bed, and maybe she will be okay with that.....but we alm knkw the trick is that when it will happen she will be asking to feel him inside
Totally agree with this man here !
Honestly mate lay off it now becoming abit forceful in my opinion. Just leave it and don't speak of it anymore and let her bring it up. At the moment she has told you clear as day she don't to make it a reality now. So that means stop putting it on her. It took me ages for my wife to even consider it a reality and we still ain't made it a reality although she loves the role play and she says she wants to make it a reality in the future so we both just leave it as that I'm not there sending her gifs constantly or anything. She brings it up to me now. She asks to watch IR porn with me. She says when she gets out the shower for example this is how soft my pussy is gonna be for James 'that's what we call him in our role play' I love all that and I let her do it at her pace and when she's ready
Also me and my wife been roll playing this over two years and we are much further progressed than you are. So just goes to show takes time . I tested the waters with my wife she gave me the indications back so we eventually got to the point we are now. Slowly as he'll we did it and she said to me the reason she likes it more because I introduced everything slowly. Your on here saying hope she's gone back with a black guy when she was out lol as if that's gonna happen man be realistic. Bottom line is we are 2 years deep and still ain't made it a reality and probably can't see it happening for good few years time . Maybe might be sooner but il let her in charge of when it happens
I still say she gets pulled by the right black man, in the right situation at the right time. If you could help set that up would be the winning ticket. I would keep her myself, but it's your fantasy. My fantasy would fucking her brains out every night, I have enough cock for her
private eye
Male
I disagree with the posters. I think you are handling this just fine. Don’t be bullied. Advice is fine but everyone’s journey is different. She will tell you when the pace is too much. Again, enjoy the ride. You won’t know her boundaries until you push forward. She’s obviously thinking of black dick and fucking black guys during your role play. Your task, if you want it, is to ensure you guys are doing it together. Pushing her out the door to play singular may leave you on the outside looking in. Be careful what you wish for but have fun.
I said the same things, he may cut himself out of some fun sex with this girl, his choice, he started all this, with her, might too late to turn back
i think you are doing great, she dresses sexier, she is more aware for her sexuality and looks and it makes her horney. Also she seemed to opend up more in gerneral talking more about sex and fantasies and her pussy is getting used to the bigger size and is starting craving it and she got big dick in her mind.
It just takes time, she already changed a lot and she will get more fantasies, i think watching IR Porn together would be a good next step. Also maybe get her more talking, not only yes and no questions, ask her what she wants bbc doing to her and why she starts craving bbc and what are her fantasies, why bbc makes her pussy wet, this makes her more thinking about it and she might get more fantasies.
But i agree with the other guys that you should do all together if you do something, not that she runs away with another man, also be sure if it gets real that it is a true bbc and not an avarage or even smaller than your dick, not all black guys are bbc.
But also have to say i would keep her for my own, maybe the fantasy is just enought, but only you know it.
It just takes time, she already changed a lot and she will get more fantasies, i think watching IR Porn together would be a good next step. Also maybe get her more talking, not only yes and no questions, ask her what she wants bbc doing to her and why she starts craving bbc and what are her fantasies, why bbc makes her pussy wet, this makes her more thinking about it and she might get more fantasies.
But i agree with the other guys that you should do all together if you do something, not that she runs away with another man, also be sure if it gets real that it is a true bbc and not an avarage or even smaller than your dick, not all black guys are bbc.
But also have to say i would keep her for my own, maybe the fantasy is just enought, but only you know it.
I think if she’s asked to slow it down or keep it as fantasy that’s fine, at least you still get to enjoy this experience with a person you love and adore, I’ve also noticed that while I’m with my girl she loves the dirty talk, I know it turns her on, she moans when we watch IR porn and she watches it slide in.
But after, who knows, I’ve caught her looking at the videos whilst I’m in the bathroom when she pretends to not be that interested.
Keep doing your thing, but as I said before, If she pushes back, don’t apply anything more until the dust settles!
Would be good to get some picture updates!
But after, who knows, I’ve caught her looking at the videos whilst I’m in the bathroom when she pretends to not be that interested.
Keep doing your thing, but as I said before, If she pushes back, don’t apply anything more until the dust settles!
Would be good to get some picture updates!
Have her BBC porn as she's taking the BBC dildo, some dirty fantasy talk could come from that too, leading to more thoughts and fantasies about BBC. I still say, she meets the right black guy, hell pull her and get her blacked
Watched BBC porn whilst I fuckedd her on her side. She cummed twice on the dildo after this
big orgasmss too. More dirtyy talking aswell. Progress again 
