Hesitant girlfriend…
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I’m not understanding you.I don’t understand, I think you are a losing sight of the goal here. You already have her using large toys. It’s unlikely she is ever going to find a guy with a dick as big as the toys you’re considering buying. The roadblock you are trying to overcome is not bigger toys, it’s the introduction of another person. You always tend to get distracted from the point
I appreciate the help but everything I am doing is obviously working because we keep progressing every time. So, I’m going to carry on as we are.
She repeatedly tells you it’s never going to happen. So our idea of progress is very different.
My point is, you are trying to introduce her to larger and larger toys as if that is going to make a difference. She is already using pretty large toys as it is. If you go to far with it, you could have the opposite impact. many women don’t like the idea but their pussy is taking something so big. It’s really obvious when they could see how large the toy is. If it’s somebody’s actual penis, it’s a lot easier. It’s a psychological and self judgment issue.
But more importantly, this part of the obstacle you are done with. You have accomplished the goal when it comes to getting her to use bigger toys and like the feeling of being full. Move on to the areas that are still in conflict.
I don’t know, I just wish I was there for the conversations that you’ve had with her. It doesn’t seem like the communication is where it needs to be. But that’s just me from the cheap seats.
mceight950
Male
you are kind of right, if the goal would be just to have bedroom fantasies around dildos and porn then buying bigger toys etc is all good, but if the goal is to cuckold then the reality is that its not about about the 10 inch dick but more about the scenario, cause you could find a very attractive black male who wants to join you and your girl but what if he is barely above average? then the whole fantasy about the huge dick will be a very big disappointment....i mentioned to you the jeff stryker dildo, its a very hot thing to play with my girl but i do inderstand that no human has a dick like this and she knows it to lets be real......so you should focus more on the idea of cuckold more and more in your words instead of only huge monster dicks.....watch real interracial cuckold amateur porn, real ones but you will see that the dicks are much smaller than shane diesel cause its the reality
mceight950
Male
you should try going on the website rentmen, high end male *******, filter the search for blacks and you will fine many bbc, and just scroll them profiles with her just to watch not in the goal of ordering, but later when you have sex with her and you are into role play you can say something like you will one day bring one home for fun and let her say yes.....and then one day after a while she will accept him if you have suprised her and she is in a horny day
You will only be disappointed when you find a real black guy and he ain't as big as them dildos. That Shane one alot of women would in reality find that uncomfortable to take. Girth over length anyway is important. I don't care if my wife fucked a bull with a 7 inch cock aslong as his thick enough to stretch her out
We opened an account on fabswingers to try and push things along and move out of the bedroom fantasy. It's not a quick process and she is very choosy about who she finds attractive.
We found one guy and the three of us were chatting on a WhatsApp group together.
We found one guy and the three of us were chatting on a WhatsApp group together.
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True. Reality is BBC is about as rare as BWC and the average BC length is only marginally greater than the average WC. So be prepared to spend a lot of time hunting for a BBC.
I’m thinking of doing this. She was very receptive to threesome dirty talk last night which hasn’t happened before.
I think I might give it some time though. I know I’ve progressed quickly with her but I feel like introducing someone into our sex life is too soon.
Hmmm… I’ve gone onto FabSwingers and seen a lot of BBC and I have seen a lot of BBC on here.
Yeah thats the next step
madcuck
Couple
I hope she keeps the black one and you share a picture of her using it
Whitebottoms
Couple
If she picks the white one then maybe she isn’t into bbc
mceight950
Male
even if she picks the white one, even if she is into any race of hung males, it dosent matter cause she will be open to a hung bbc
Not necessarily, the Jeff Stryker is slightly thicker, so it might be that she prefers the girth if she picks the Jeff Stryker one.
I know she will love bbc. I haven’t mentioned this in the thread which I should have done really to put you all in a better picture.
I got into a relationship with her last year in November. I grafted her for over a year, known her probably 3 years in total. Before me, her type was black lads. She didn’t even like white lads. We were good mates for all those 3 years, turned into best mates. She never liked me in that way, she liked me as a friend but because I grafted her, and I was hitting the gym hard, the sunbeds, had my teeth whitened… in the end after lots of grafting and a big improvement in myself, she fell for me.
I think, this fantasy of mine is ideal for her. I shown her someone on social media yesterday whilst we were chilling on the sofa watching tv, a black gym-goer influencer. He uploaded a 10 second video of him just in a towel wrapped around hm, he opens the towel slightly to show his muscular quads. She literally looked like she was creaming on the spot, she smiled in a very horny way and looked at me 4 or 5 times but said not one word. I said “he’s a beast isn’t he, body’s ridiculous” and she said “ooooh god yeh”.
The issue was never about whether or not she would be into black guys. The issue is whether she considers her being with another man cheating according to her morals and ethics. Or whether having two men in her life sexually is even something she wants. It’s about whether or not she wants to open her self up to a nontraditional relationship, which most women don’t.
I continue to hammer home that I fear that you are worried about the wrong obstacles. And honestly what’s strange about it is, these are the easier obstacles to overcome. Wide-open communication, constant reassurance, support of her fantasies, all of that will lead to opening that door. You’re so personally obsessed with her taking gigantic cocks, and BBC that you are dropping the ball.
A cuckold relationship is not about fulfilling your fantasies. It is about you drawing out the darker fantasies in her and fulfilling them for her. Keep that in mind at all times and you will be OK.
That is actually very insightful and true. I was watching a femal psychologist talk about this exact issue. It made me look at myself and watch I actually want and how my behaviour is not fully transparent with my gf.
Most women aren't open to being shared. We can easily get caught up in our own fantasy particularly when we are turned on.
The bit about open conversation with my gf, is something I find difficult. I find it easier to message her about it when we're apart. Bizarre as it sounds, I feel a bit uncomfortable fully speaking openly with her day to day about it and all a bit embarrassing but I find cuckolding my gf with a hung black guy the most arousing prospect.
mceight950
Male
yes thats kind of normal that if you show to a girl a video of a real hot male of any races she will answer that he is very hot, but to bring him home to fuck her is totally different....i dont think you need to sell her more the idea that a hot man is hot......same as a hung man for fill her up....its more of a question of cuckold
Aswell, I find it easier to message as opposed to speaking face to face. Although, we have spoke about it face-to-face. So… we have had clear conversation about it all. My girlfriend is so nice and easy, very open about it because that is just her as a person which I love. Now, she’s realising it more and more. I think she is getting turned on by it all very much. I still think it would be a ‘no’ at the moment from her if I was to point blank ask her for a threesome though which is absolutely fine as we’ve not been doing this for long. Only started this with her around about the same time I started this thread.
I bought up threesomes in dirty talk a while I go, shortly before I started this thread and she was completely against it. Turned her off. We had a conversation, face-to-face about it. Texted aswell.
She understood the fantasy behind it but she said she would never do it because she has morals blablabla.
After using the dildo, numerous times and sending gifs, videos and images. It was only up until yesterday, she was receptive about a threesome but I didn’t push it. I was amazed by her responses and just absorbed it all in
thinking to myself “progress”.She also joked about a friend coming round the other day aswell.
So, I think things are working.
Like, I ain’t just using toys and sending her pics, videos and gifs. We do talk about it, every now and again. I have even given her clear opportunity to scrap the fantasy and she says “no” , because “she is starting to like it more and more, and is opening up to the idea”. She’s not once gone in a mood about it either. She did at the VERY START, saying “I just want you” but I think that’s because she didn’t realise how much “size matters”
So… I think it’s all working well.
