Hesitant girlfriend…

[mceight950]

when you said earlier that before you she only liked black males, did she had sexual experience with black male before you? also wondering if before you ever started this topic with her, was she into big dicks etc or she just did not tought about it very much?

 

[jxjx]

She has had sexual experiences with mixed race lads. She said I’m the biggest she’s had though.

She’s never thought about BBC before. Whenever she watched porn, it was vanilla porn, like basic porn.

 

[liamlion10]

I messaged my gf today, asking if shes still up for some cuckold play and encouraging her to take control of our fabswingers account and to start messaging guys and work towards finding a bull.

It's trying to break the cycle of me chatting with guys and then showing her face pics and her saying no as she doesn't find the particular guy attractive.

Hopefully this way she will find a connection with a guy she fancies and maybe we can make progress in terms of finding a bull.

 

[Abbybadwife]

I messaged my gf today, asking if shes still up for some cuckold play and encouraging her to take control of our fabswingers account and to start messaging guys and work towards finding a bull.

It's trying to break the cycle of me chatting with guys and then showing her face pics and her saying no as she doesn't find the particular guy attractive.

Hopefully this way she will find a connection with a guy she fancies and maybe we can make progress in terms of finding a bull.

Your txt seems pushy

 

[jxjx]

I messaged my gf today, asking if shes still up for some cuckold play and encouraging her to take control of our fabswingers account and to start messaging guys and work towards finding a bull.

It's trying to break the cycle of me chatting with guys and then showing her face pics and her saying no as she doesn't find the particular guy attractive.

Hopefully this way she will find a connection with a guy she fancies and maybe we can make progress in terms of finding a bull.

I think that’s really good mate. Nice! I’m looking forward to hopefully taking this step with her very soon. Private message me with her response to all that.

 

[liamlion10]

Your txt seems pushy

Thanks for your feedback. Honestly, when I posted that screenshot here and having reread my messages I thought exactly the same. Duly noted and must do better in future

 

[iowakinkycpl]

Mine wasn't so hesitant, more direct.

But none the less we started with a toy, she had a bbc dildo in her before my own cock, once she had me in her it was a condom and just the head. A weekend later she met with a bull we had both spoken to, had him bare and balls deep too.

Once she gets the real thing she might get addicted to either the cock or the lifestyle. It really excites my gf playing in front of me or sending pics while she plays.

 

[openwaters2244]

So, she’s already had bbc before? Yeah, that’s a little detail that was left out.

 

[mygirlsapawg]

We need more pics!

 

[jxjx]

So, she’s already had bbc before? Yeah, that’s a little detail that was left out.

Not BBC. He was smaller than me. I’m jus under 6inches.

 

[maria&michael]

Thanks for your feedback. Honestly, when I posted that screenshot here and having reread my messages I thought exactly the same. Duly noted and must do better in future

Good plan I also think, based on my experience from when we started 6 years ago, that you could consider to do more of the work in terms of finding the right candidates for her to evaluate. She might feel even more reluctant when browsing for them - whereas you probably feel more excited. She would have a pessimistic starting point, you the optimistic
Probably also worth to dose the pressure on her - maybe for a period of time only talk about it when you are intimate together?
Best of luck

 

[liamlion10]

Good plan I also think, based on my experience from when we started 6 years ago, that you could consider to do more of the work in terms of finding the right candidates for her to evaluate. She might feel even more reluctant when browsing for them - whereas you probably feel more excited. She would have a pessimistic starting point, you the optimistic
Probably also worth to dose the pressure on her - maybe for a period of time only talk about it when you are intimate together?
Best of luck

Great advice. Thank you

 

[CaitRey]

How’s going?

 

[liamlion10]

Good plan I also think, based on my experience from when we started 6 years ago, that you could consider to do more of the work in terms of finding the right candidates for her to evaluate. She might feel even more reluctant when browsing for them - whereas you probably feel more excited. She would have a pessimistic starting point, you the optimistic
Probably also worth to dose the pressure on her - maybe for a period of time only talk about it when you are intimate together?
Best of luck

I actually feel a bit shy speaking to her about it and a bit embarrassed so I'm not too heavy with it all.

She responded to a few guys on fabswingers a couple of days ago but has checked in on it for a few days.

I think I need to build her confidence and remind her how sexy she is. She loves the compliments. And yes, mentioning it when we are intimate is a very good idea

 

[Couple8284NL]

Hi guys,

Me and my girlfriend have such a hot sex life! Our sex is great. We have been together for 6 months approx.

I have this fantasy. I get thoughts of her being these girls that get blacked basically. So, I started planting seeds. “It turns me on how filthy you are” “do you like my big, fat dick” “you’re my slut and I love it” … I then mentioned buying her a dildo, and blindfolding her. I asked “how many inches?” And she said “very fucking big” … I asked “how many inches would you like” and she straight away said “9 inches”

By the way, she has only had sex with 3 men including myself and my dicks the biggest she’s had.

She can take my dick more than well, and can take 4 fingers, squirting everywhere. Loves it!! So, I think she would love a monster cock. She’s definitely made for big dick.

Anyway, I bought a Shane Diesel dildo and a dildo that is same length but slightly less in girth. Both realistic dildo’s. My dick is 5 inches in girth, may be a tiny bit less and 6.5 inches in length so these dildos are a different league to my cock.

I ordered these dildo’s without telling her. I blindfolded her the other day, used them both on her and she took them really well. More than well. No issue at all. She literally couldn’t stop squirting, her legs were shaking. Even when I weren’t touching her, she was squirting. She admitted it was the most she’s ever been turned on.

I told her about my fantasy. She is in complete denial that this hotwife fantasy would ever happen. She has moral’s and feels like it’s cheating. I’ve explained it all and she didn’t shut it down completely, she just said that “she’ll digest the information”.

She has been making jokes about it since and she grabbed for the dildo on our next play without me even saying anything. Great 2nd play with the dildo again.

The 3rd play, last night. She just wanted me only and she didn’t want the dildo. I kept grabbing it but she didn’t enjoy it and you could tell she didn’t want it.

I said after, “don’t like it anymore then?”
“We can throw them away if you don’t like them”

She said “I don’t know what it is, they freak me out” she’s laughing about it .. then she says “I don’t know, just give me time. Don’t throw them away”

I’m thinking, I just give her time…

What do you guys reckon?

You need to know what she finds important in relation to this topic. Ask her what makes her refusing your fantasy and what is important for her? Then be honest about your intentions and what it makes for you in this fantasy.

 

[12345678ae]

hi , you have a beautiful wife and a wonderful story i hope you can continue to tell us yes you can go with bbc

 

[maria&michael]

I agree with @Couple8284NL and @Myhunger - you are so much in your own world and fantasy that you take every small sign as 'progress'. Have you considered that she might just be a bit tired of fighting you off?
Also that focus on size that you have. Some of my best experiences has been with medium-sized BBC (and yes, I have met several 10", very thick cocks). It's not ONLY the size, is the spark that two people can ignite together.
What if you don't bring up the question about a third person for, say, a month or two? Don't talk about it, just enjoy each other and relax, also with the toys. If she brings it up - bingo! That would be progress!!
And finally: why don't you two get together with one of your charming black friends, make her feel safe, don't be pushy, have a ******* and chill. Sometimes you make that whole thing about a black man and your GF sound like it was an alien with a master weapon. It isn't - we're all human

 

[Jimmydong]

Hi guys,

Me and my girlfriend have such a hot sex life! Our sex is great. We have been together for 6 months approx.

I have this fantasy. I get thoughts of her being these girls that get blacked basically. So, I started planting seeds. “It turns me on how filthy you are” “do you like my big, fat dick” “you’re my slut and I love it” … I then mentioned buying her a dildo, and blindfolding her. I asked “how many inches?” And she said “very fucking big” … I asked “how many inches would you like” and she straight away said “9 inches”

By the way, she has only had sex with 3 men including myself and my dicks the biggest she’s had.

She can take my dick more than well, and can take 4 fingers, squirting everywhere. Loves it!! So, I think she would love a monster cock. She’s definitely made for big dick.

Anyway, I bought a Shane Diesel dildo and a dildo that is same length but slightly less in girth. Both realistic dildo’s. My dick is 5 inches in girth, may be a tiny bit less and 6.5 inches in length so these dildos are a different league to my cock.

I ordered these dildo’s without telling her. I blindfolded her the other day, used them both on her and she took them really well. More than well. No issue at all. She literally couldn’t stop squirting, her legs were shaking. Even when I weren’t touching her, she was squirting. She admitted it was the most she’s ever been turned on.

I told her about my fantasy. She is in complete denial that this hotwife fantasy would ever happen. She has moral’s and feels like it’s cheating. I’ve explained it all and she didn’t shut it down completely, she just said that “she’ll digest the information”.

She has been making jokes about it since and she grabbed for the dildo on our next play without me even saying anything. Great 2nd play with the dildo again.

The 3rd play, last night. She just wanted me only and she didn’t want the dildo. I kept grabbing it but she didn’t enjoy it and you could tell she didn’t want it.

I said after, “don’t like it anymore then?”
“We can throw them away if you don’t like them”

She said “I don’t know what it is, they freak me out” she’s laughing about it .. then she says “I don’t know, just give me time. Don’t throw them away”

I’m thinking, I just give her time…

What do you guys reckon?

I figured when I started interacting on this site that I would always be 100% straight up and truthful. Mainly because I always am anyway lol, for better or for worse, and because I don’t know anyone here personally anyway and could care less if it offends anyone. So here it goes. I am going to assume you and your girlfriend are 20 something’s and if not let me know. My strong opinion is that if you are and you convince her to fulfill your fantasies it could be great and go off in many different directions but in the end your relationship will almost certainly not survive it. I would say if your kink is the most important thing to you then go for it but if you think this girl is the one and your future life partner than put your fantasy to bed for a while and get married first and have ******* and wait 20 years for your fantasy. If you convince her now there is a 99% chance you two will not end up together long term. You are just too young for this lifestyle. It’s a very nuanced lifestyle and requires a few different things to ge successful and one is being older and past certain life markers. Sorry

 

[Myhunger]

I figured when I started interacting on this site that I would always be 100% straight up and truthful. Mainly because I always am anyway lol, for better or for worse, and because I don’t know anyone here personally anyway and could care less if it offends anyone. So here it goes. I am going to assume you and your girlfriend are 20 something’s and if not let me know. My strong opinion is that if you are and you convince her to fulfill your fantasies it could be great and go off in many different directions but in the end your relationship will almost certainly not survive it. I would say if your kink is the most important thing to you then go for it but if you think this girl is the one and your future life partner than put your fantasy to bed for a while and get married first and have ******* and wait 20 years for your fantasy. If you convince her now there is a 99% chance you two will not end up together long term. You are just too young for this lifestyle. It’s a very nuanced lifestyle and requires a few different things to ge successful and one is being older and past certain life markers. Sorry

I disagree 100%. Sure, emotional maturity os more commonplace as we get older, but many of us were fully capable of this in our 20’s. The problem is not age, its his inability to acknowledge his selfishness. He SAYS he is doing this for her, how he knows she will love it, etc…and then she says no…but then likes a big toy and he thinks he scored. Either he needs to admit that he is trying to encourage his partner to fulfill a fantasy for him, which is perfectly fine as long as you are honest about it. Any two people two people are not going to be 100% into what the other one is into. There’s nothing wrong with indulging your partners fantasies if it gets them off. There’s also nothing wrong with asking them to do the same for you. But you have to be willing to accept no as an answer when they set a boundary.

The alternative is him deciding to be genuine about his desire to please her. And that requires less manipulation, less forethought and planning, less tracking on this website of his successes and more talking. More communication. More transparency about the end result. Encouraging a partner to explore and try new things is positive. Manipulating them to do some thing you want them to do is not loving at all.

 

[macroBull]

I put this …

Me: Ohhh, go awayyyy. Threatening me are weeee? x

Her: Nooo never

Me: Nastyyyy... Ye you were

I'll do my best but I can't make any promises you turn me on just too much But I think I can manage tonight

Her: View attachment 6061031

You know this was coming but we need to see her naked, don't show no face for safety but lets see her cunt, both relaxed and spread, her tits and a full body of her nude! We have to se this fine gorgeous woman!! My BBC is hard as fuck looking at this hotwifes pics so far!