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harsh reality for a black man
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it is a site just for american people?
This is one of the best posts I've ever read on this forum.Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hotyou are to them and husbands messaging you just to tell you how you are the perfect bull and that they would love for you to be banging their wife. Even wives and husbands who are out of range should still be messaging you just because they like what they saw in your profile so much.
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
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Very, very well stated!Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
Well said bro!Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
It’s a real meeting site not a bunch of talking and chat . It’s for people looking for offline meetings only . They do have events , cruises , parties as well!
yes I tried to register a little while ago .... but I think I will unsubscribe in a few days. there are too many restrictions for those who don't join the paid account. thanks anyway.
Sharing of ones spouse is the ultimate submission which takes time and patience. It takes awhile for the couple or the bull to establish trust, and to become comfortable. One hopes that a relationship can grow from the sharing and intimacy of the act.
It must be tough sometimes to be a single male in the lifestyle. I've heard numerous times from females that in the Craigslist days they would be bombarded by hundreds of offers from men in just a few hours. I would imagine it's not that much different on other sites, or even worse as the lifestyle has gotten even more attention.
That’s crazy. Next time we make it to Nola, I will reach out. My wife loves black men and if you’re a musician, even better. She used to sing in a band before we had *******. She very down to earth, fun, and knows how to treat a black bull the way he should be treated, like a king. Keep in touch
Well, in the meantime, make it to the DMV! I'll reciprocate and treat your lady like a bull should!!
Se sei un musicista, potresti aprire un piccolo locale specializzato per ricevere ragazze e coppie bianche. Il proprietario di un ristorante ha SEMPRE un fascino in più.
My two cents. It’s about how you approach the right person. I get hit on and men think because they come up to to me and drop some lines that I am just going to pull up my dress and let them have their way.
Young guys are the worst. They act so immature most of the time.
Even on this site I get pictures of cock. They think I am going to say, Wow a black cock, I need to have it.
I always look for the connection.
not saying you are like this. Sorry about the rant….
Young guys are the worst. They act so immature most of the time.
Even on this site I get pictures of cock. They think I am going to say, Wow a black cock, I need to have it.
I always look for the connection.
not saying you are like this. Sorry about the rant….
At Churh? You got to elaborate on that one.
A few months ago I decided to go try out one of the black churches over in a nearby city. I became acquainted with several gentlemen there, and it was kind of a thing for a while, before my husband got back home from overseas.
Now I'm still trying to figure out where things go from here.
Reading the original post and many of the responses a very refreshing experience. I'm glad that some of the black men on this sight have a grip on the Black guy white woman game. I say game because for many it is a game. Not falling for the hype that all white women or all women want to have sex with you is smart. Every female of any color has preferences, her reason for not hooking up may have nothing to do with the color of your skin. In my youth i can say seeing a interracial couple in public was rare. That was common in part because in many places there were no black people at all not surprising when you consider today blacks are less than 20% of total population and over half are females and small children.
I had sex with more than one black guy, some at party's where nearly every one of the guys would say i was the first white female they had sex with. Obviously they had not experienced mobs of white women wanting sex. Today that might not be so because more females have crossed that imaginary line. Then there are some all black guy groups who advertise sex with white females, you wont be a first if they're truthful.
Couples and females are out there, just not lined up like some mostly white guys say. It's just like any dating. You go to a bar there are lots of black girls there do they fall at your feet begging for sex. Most white females wont either. You got to work at it, if you find one that walks up ask for sex it's your lucky day. Don't let that one get away it may never happen again.
Be realistic in your expectations. Many couples or singles are just looking for sex. Not a long time friend or a repeat lover. Listen and read what they say so you understand going in what to expect so you wont be upset. There will always be those who play the game to deceive or even hurt others. You just have to deal with that.
I had sex with more than one black guy, some at party's where nearly every one of the guys would say i was the first white female they had sex with. Obviously they had not experienced mobs of white women wanting sex. Today that might not be so because more females have crossed that imaginary line. Then there are some all black guy groups who advertise sex with white females, you wont be a first if they're truthful.
Couples and females are out there, just not lined up like some mostly white guys say. It's just like any dating. You go to a bar there are lots of black girls there do they fall at your feet begging for sex. Most white females wont either. You got to work at it, if you find one that walks up ask for sex it's your lucky day. Don't let that one get away it may never happen again.
Be realistic in your expectations. Many couples or singles are just looking for sex. Not a long time friend or a repeat lover. Listen and read what they say so you understand going in what to expect so you wont be upset. There will always be those who play the game to deceive or even hurt others. You just have to deal with that.
I will definitely take this into considerationGreetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
