When i read these posts on the site you would think that white women really crave black men. but not at all. I tried to talk to my share and they all flaked on me. Im a musician in new orleans and even in my city the white girls are very stand offish. ******* is crazy if i found just one white girl just one.. omg yall have no idea what i would do to her. starting to think this interracial thing just isnt for me. I can like white girls with all my heart but if they dont like me ******* is wack. it was fun while it lasted tho. I really do like how slutty white girls can be.
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Fam! That’s the story up here in New England area. Hubby or wifey usually do the vet but seems like after the vet, They flake because they are fake or just may not be interested. That’s why you roll the dice and try. It’s the face to face visit I try and set up. Match the voice with a face and prove all is real. The rest will work itself and you’ll find the real queens of spades 
they’re out there
they’re out there
Hey fam, I hear you that it can be frustrating but a lot of it depends on your game too. You see the dudes that be all about it are easy their wives ain't them. You actually have to work with them because they are the ones you need to have be down. While it's something they want they also want to feel like you would work for them. Ain't no slam just work on your approach with the women (like I said the guys are easy) and you'll realize that it's real and fun. Just work on your approach.
Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
you are to them and husbands messaging you just to tell you how you are the perfect bull and that they would love for you to be banging their wife. Even wives and husbands who are out of range should still be messaging you just because they like what they saw in your profile so much.
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
you are to them and husbands messaging you just to tell you how you are the perfect bull and that they would love for you to be banging their wife. Even wives and husbands who are out of range should still be messaging you just because they like what they saw in your profile so much. I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
That's all good advice! Your efforts will help many bulls step up the game.Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
excellent advice
Early verification = less headaches
Any woman that won’t verify is either fake or has other issues preventing them from being able to actively participate in the desired activities. And not all women are black cock craving sluts like so many unverified users on here would have you believe. I just happen to be in the minority of actually being one of those elusive sluts.
Happy hunting!
Any woman that won’t verify is either fake or has other issues preventing them from being able to actively participate in the desired activities. And not all women are black cock craving sluts like so many unverified users on here would have you believe. I just happen to be in the minority of actually being one of those elusive sluts.
Happy hunting!
Be a gentelman, act kind and don’t drop the words, slut, whore and bitch in your first 3 meetings and things will be just fine. Nothing turns me off more then that and then the massive ego to follow. Just be humble and a gentelman and you’ll do just fine.
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@Nolabull its “hit and miss”. Like anything else, be yourself. Don’t overthink it.
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Slutty is funny
There are lots of normal ladies interested in fun with black guys that they’re attracted to. Unfortunately I have to go through a lot of interactions before I find a guy I want to sleep with.
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I was just on Double list and saw several women looking for BBC. One was 18 good looking in bikini. She said BBC was her preference but we'll endowed white guy would work as well.
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Check Double list dating. I see white girls on there looking for BBC. One was 18 and hot in a bikini. Dayton Ohio
Just Out Of Curiosity Man...What Has Been Your Experience Related To Meeting White Women Outside Of Cyberspace? Personally The Bulk Of Any Significant Interaction (Friend, Fuck Bud, Relationship) I've Had With White/ Non-Black Females Has Come About By The Old Fashion Ways. Women I See Everyday. As I Usually Commute Publicly. Bars And Traditional Dating Sites. Which I Guess Could Be Considered Cyberspace. In Any Case This Site Certainly Ain't The Only Way To Fly...Take No Offense As I Am Not Offering Any
.Some of the best advice I have ever read on here.Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!
I know white guys get smacked down on here and I can understand why for those who are fakes, pretending to be white females, etc. But I would like to support what JDingo said, for real white husbands that are trying to make this happen, whether it’s already a reality or they are trying to make it one, show some love and respect. No one wants you to successfully bed his wife more than he does. Us real husbands who are working on this are your best chance to make it happen. I think about making this a reality daily. My wife knows all about my fantasy but making it a reality is still a work in progress.
I am cautiously optimistic.
Sorry to hear that.
Yeah, elusive like your being in Texas while I'm in Baltimore!!Early verification = less headaches
Any woman that won’t verify is either fake or has other issues preventing them from being able to actively participate in the desired activities. And not all women are black cock craving sluts like so many unverified users on here would have you believe. I just happen to be in the minority of actually being one of those elusive sluts.
Happy hunting!
@Nolabull , I'm going to go out on a limb here and make the intuitive assumption ("intuitive" in that I haven't researched this) that meeting up with someone from this dating site is very similar to meeting someone for sex - or friendship, for that matter! - anywhere else or in real life. In terms of the amount of success, the numbers will statistically form a bell curve, where the amount of "success" (you meet and fuck) is relatively small, like 10% on the front end of the curve, the number of outright "get the fuck out of my face!" represents about 5%-8% on the tail end of the curve, and the other 80%+ majority being ones you spend some time going back and forth, you find you don't match, the logistics are too difficult (time and distance), ghosting, fakes, flakes, etc. form the large bump in the middle. This suggests that you need some patience and understanding. It may seem like every woman here is waiting for you to come along and fuck them, just because they are here, too, some even showing their ass and pussy and tits saying "fuck me" but the reality is that's a very bad and disappointing assumption to make.
On the qualitative side, as @AnnieS and @Jdingo619 essentially explain, the same factors that make any connection in life work apply just as much here - your approach, your manner, your presentation...who you are. As James Brown once sang, "some like 'em fat, some like 'em tall, some like 'em short, skinny legs and all". Point is, there's a common denominator of respect and consideration that combines with what any particular woman wants and you will hit the mark with some but miss for many. The example I live by is that some women do not respond at all with showing a bunch of dick pics on the first reach out, whereas a few will slam you because you don't show your dick pics up front. "Let's fuck!" "I want to love you!" as an initial come on, for example, is unwanted and seen as disrespectful to many but that aggression up front turns some women on.
So, don't give up just because 80% of your attempts don't go anywhere. If you fine tune your presentation, etc., check out the threads and see what women you would like seem to like and respond to, then over time you may "hit" successfully.
On the qualitative side, as @AnnieS and @Jdingo619 essentially explain, the same factors that make any connection in life work apply just as much here - your approach, your manner, your presentation...who you are. As James Brown once sang, "some like 'em fat, some like 'em tall, some like 'em short, skinny legs and all". Point is, there's a common denominator of respect and consideration that combines with what any particular woman wants and you will hit the mark with some but miss for many. The example I live by is that some women do not respond at all with showing a bunch of dick pics on the first reach out, whereas a few will slam you because you don't show your dick pics up front. "Let's fuck!" "I want to love you!" as an initial come on, for example, is unwanted and seen as disrespectful to many but that aggression up front turns some women on.
So, don't give up just because 80% of your attempts don't go anywhere. If you fine tune your presentation, etc., check out the threads and see what women you would like seem to like and respond to, then over time you may "hit" successfully.
