Greetings brothers! I just wanted to put some tips on the table hopefully that you can use that will make your lifestyle journey more eventful.
First thing- lifestyle resources! You should be using multiple lifestyle resources in order to connect with lifestyle people. B2W is not a swing lifestyle site officially it's just an interracial dating, sex, and porn forum even though there are quite a few lifestyle people on here.
I have active profiles on these swing lifestyle sites: adultfriendfinder.com, fetlife.com, SLS.com between those sites alone I get more invitations than I can entertain here in my community between San Diego, Los Angeles, and Mexico. Location does play a part because like Florida, and NYC California is one of the top most active swing lifestyle states. I also use doublelist.com which is just an add site for swingers adds like craigslist used to be but just not as active as craigslist was. I would say I find at least one good hotwife a month on there. So all together that 4 actual lifestyle resources I use outside of B2W.
Understand that for the most part the lifestyle is very discreet. Only an actual swing lifestyle site offers the security and discretion that most people in the lifestyle want so most lifestyle people don't even know about B2W. On AFF I have seen plenty of couples in New Oleans and different parts of Louisiana. The site is secured and you have to pay to see their profiles and make contact with them.
Second thing: Is Appeal! You have to be appealing to your target audience in some way mentally and or physically. In this lifestyle it's all about making fantasy a reality and as the bull the more you can make that happen for them the more you will be in demand and successful.
Mentally appealing- Saying all the right things that let them know that you can be trusted, that you are respectful and a respecter of boundaries, that you are all about showing a man's hotwife a wonderful time.
Physically appealing- I will say that being in good physical shape is a big plus but not necessary or a deal breaker in the lifestyle. The majority of the private videos show average guys to chubby guys having fun with hotwives. You will come across adds looking for "fit, muscular, and hung black men" but that's not the truth of what you see in most videos.
For some people just being an average built guy who is well dressed and well spoken (with good hygiene) is enough!
Your profile, your picture content and your greeting that you wrote about yourself and the way you appealed to their desires and fantasies should literally have people contacting you and inviting you to meet them and join them on a constant basis. You should have women messaging you just to tell you how hot
you are to them and husbands messaging you just to tell you how you are the perfect bull and that they would love for you to be banging their wife. Even wives and husbands who are out of range should still be messaging you just because they like what they saw in your profile so much.
I tell you what when you get it all dialed in you will be in demand and meeting all kinds of people from all walks of life. You will get a veriety of people from middle class couple's, to the rich, to porn stars, and plenty of single women too!
I hope this information helps fellas!