Happy, loving, devoted wives cheat too!

[Seth1805]

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/knowmore-tv/why-happily-married-women-are-cheating_b_5787280.html

I've been of the mindset for quite some time that a devoted wife can look somewhere else for sex. This is not nothing new for most here but I came to grips with it when I started thinking about my wife and our relationship and how she could make love with a black man but be happy with me.

 

[Seth1805]

https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-cuckolding-fetish-when-your-wifes-cheating-turns-you-on

Then we get to this part of relationships.

 

[Miaxss]

I definitely agree with you. A wife cheating with another man is her actively seeking something the relationship isn't providing for her, good sex. I myself am cheating on my SO and it hasn't hurt my relationship to him. He is unable to satisfy me in bed so I have other men do it for him.

 

[Jennie P]

I never thought I would cheat but after servers years of being married and husband paying more attention to his job than me . That was missing and itbjust happened to be a black man that did give me that attention

 

[smileysteph76]

Sometimes the life you have lived doesnt let you just walk away easily when you find something way better, and for the most part your "normal life" still isnt that bad, but you still need what you need.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

I definitely agree with you. A wife cheating with another man is her actively seeking something the relationship isn't providing for her, good sex. I myself am cheating on my SO and it hasn't hurt my relationship to him. He is unable to satisfy me in bed so I have other men do it for him.

More women need to be taking control of their sex lives like you Mia

 

[Miaxss]

More women need to be taking control of their sex lives like you Mia

I know right? I have so many friends who complain about their sex lifes and only 2 so far have followed my advice and gotten themselves a sexy, black stud.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

I know right? I have so many friends who complain about their sex lifes and only 2 so far have followed my advice and gotten themselves a sexy, black stud.

Yes! More and more women are starting to realise the power they hold in their relationships, getting the best of both worlds, a loving supporting relationship with the hubby/bf and great no strings attached with hung black studs

 

[Miaxss]

Yes! More and more women are starting to realise the power they hold in their relationships, getting the best of both worlds, a loving supporting relationship with the hubby/bf and great no strings attached with hung black studs

Give it some time and more women will realize this. Until then all we can do is to spread the message.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

Give it some time and more women will realize this. Until then all we can do is to spread the message.

And other things too

 

[CoppiaCuck]

Many married women feel dissatisfied with their husbands and it is very common that they find another man who satisfies their pleasures.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

Many married women feel dissatisfied with their husbands and it is very common that they find another man who satisfies their pleasures.

I have no evidence for what I'm about to say, but intuitively I don't think a lot of women marry husbands for the great sex, more for the love and companionship and stability that marriage brings - many of course will have great sex, too. But over time, she will usually want more...

 

[CoppiaCuck]

I have no evidence for what I'm about to say, but intuitively I don't think a lot of women marry husbands for the great sex, more for the love and companionship and stability that marriage brings - many of course will have great sex, too. But over time, she will usually want more...

I agree ..... but with time in the couple takes over the habit and often you need new things that stimulate the married life

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

I agree ..... but with time in the couple takes over the habit and often you need new things that stimulate the married life

Yes, I think it is fair to say men are more comfortable with getting into a habit, but women are often more desirous of change and instigators of change. I think this is where some marriages come into conflict. More female led relationships are needed in the world!

 

[Seth1805]

I definitely agree with you. A wife cheating with another man is her actively seeking something the relationship isn't providing for her, good sex. I myself am cheating on my SO and it hasn't hurt my relationship to him. He is unable to satisfy me in bed so I have other men do it for him.

And you just described our relationship. My wife loves me however several years back our sex life bottomed out due to career then my retirement from the military. Big loss of confidence and sex drive. It did not help any that a few years after that I discovered interracial porn and I became fixated on watching her with a black man and knew we had a problem because I was no longer "taking care of her."
The blame was all on me because my wife craves attention in the bedroom and I knew that lack of attention might hurt our marriage. I also felt like it was just a matter of time before she sought out another man to pleasure her. So, since I had these fantasies anyway, I, in a seemingly subconscious way came to the conclusion she should take a sexual partner to prevent her from seeking out others without my knowledge and to receive the attention she deserves.
It must have been something she had pondered because she was very receptive to the idea once I got up the nerve to discuss it with her. And so far all the talk of her being with another man has not hurt us and in fact has brought us together in ways. I think we both accept the fact another man is needed because this went on for far too long and she has desires that I'm not meeting.
It's "cheating" but with my knowledge.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

And you just described our relationship. My wife loves me however several years back our sex life bottomed out due to career then my retirement from the military. Big loss of confidence and sex drive. It did not help any that a few years after that I discovered interracial porn and I became fixated on watching her with a black man and knew we had a problem because I was no longer "taking care of her."
The blame was all on me because my wife craves attention in the bedroom and I knew that lack of attention might hurt our marriage. I also felt like it was just a matter of time before she sought out another man to pleasure her. So, since I had these fantasies anyway, I, in a seemingly subconscious way came to the conclusion she should take a sexual partner to prevent her from seeking out others without my knowledge and to receive the attention she deserves.
It must have been something she had pondered because she was very receptive to the idea once I got up the nerve to discuss it with her. And so far all the talk of her being with another man has not hurt us and in fact has brought us together in ways. I think we both accept the fact another man is needed because this went on for far too long and she has desires that I'm not meeting.
It's "cheating" but with my knowledge.

I think you have hit an important point here from the male perspective - awareness. A lot of men either don't notice what is going wrong in their relationship sexually or deny it or perhaps choose to ignore it. Awareness is the key and then having that frank discussion about what to do about it.

 

[CoppiaCuck]

And you just described our relationship. My wife loves me however several years back our sex life bottomed out due to career then my retirement from the military. Big loss of confidence and sex drive. It did not help any that a few years after that I discovered interracial porn and I became fixated on watching her with a black man and knew we had a problem because I was no longer "taking care of her."
The blame was all on me because my wife craves attention in the bedroom and I knew that lack of attention might hurt our marriage. I also felt like it was just a matter of time before she sought out another man to pleasure her. So, since I had these fantasies anyway, I, in a seemingly subconscious way came to the conclusion she should take a sexual partner to prevent her from seeking out others without my knowledge and to receive the attention she deserves.
It must have been something she had pondered because she was very receptive to the idea once I got up the nerve to discuss it with her. And so far all the talk of her being with another man has not hurt us and in fact has brought us together in ways. I think we both accept the fact another man is needed because this went on for far too long and she has desires that I'm not meeting.
It's "cheating" but with my knowledge.

The important thing is that you know that your wife has another man. You could also participate if your wife agrees

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

The important thing is that you know that your wife has another man. You could also participate if your wife agrees

Fun for all

 

[smileysteph76]

I have no evidence for what I'm about to say, but intuitively I don't think a lot of women marry husbands for the great sex, more for the love and companionship and stability that marriage brings - many of course will have great sex, too. But over time, she will usually want more...

This is absolutely true. When you first marry, you othen think that the sex is good enough or actually trick yourself into thinking it is good, because you are in love and there is so much else to think about at the time.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

This is absolutely true. When you first marry, you othen think that the sex is good enough or actually trick yourself into thinking it is good, because you are in love and there is so much else to think about at the time.

Women embrace change better than most men (partly because I think it could be threatening to their perceived place in 'the hierarchy' of the male world), but she will want to change, explore, fulfil her own needs and desires, perhaps after being the good wife and mom for a few years, for example. When she is not allowed to fly she will become frustrated and either cheat or leave or worse suffer in silence.