Sounds like you have the right communication on your side. You can build up the fantasy more and more as you casino-hop in search of the elusive black coworker.
Good luck and I'd like to follow this thread.
We talk about it when we can and really build it up. Last year was really hectic and expensive. New car purchase, new refrigerator, A/C out on truck, tune up and impeller replacement on boat engine, painted house, you name we did it and a bunch of family matters the involved several road trips.
This is the year we dedicate ourselves to our needs and wants. We thought it was going to be last year and had great plans to look up Isaac and gauge his interest. We know he wants to be my wife, who wouldn't but we do not know how excited he will be about me watching them but I think we can convince him on at least the first few occasions.