Happy, loving, devoted wives cheat too!

[Seth1805]

this is true, and how we construct our marriages is up to us to a large extent, some will be monogamous, some will be swingers, etc. etc. we are largely free to be what we want together.

I never thought there was anything other than traditional marriage until I was ****** to make decisions about my own relationship. I am looking for my wife to take a well endowed dominant black man as a lover so he can establish his prominence in bed with her. I want there to be no question for her that she can look to him for her sexual needs and I will handle the rest.

 

[CoppiaCuck]

Yes, she did once we got deeper into the discussion about her with another man. I asked had she been attracted to anyone during all of this and she mentioned one black guy with whom she used to work with for 3 years.
She said he was a tall, good looking guy, about our age and always paid her compliments. She works the floor of a major casino and she said he was security so he spent a lot of time escorting her to slot machines.
She said he flirted with her often and that at some point she became attracted to him and yes, fantasized about him. I did not want to mention this because it comes off as very convenient as to fit with my own fantasy but it is the truth.
My wife was unapologetic about it, she said he was sweet to her and that once she got to know him she "liked" who he was (a nice man) and "what" he was (this big black man whom looked like a stud.)

The sweetness of this black man certainly ignited his sexual fantasies. She needs to still feel like a woman and be pampered

 

[Seth1805]

I guess she felt relieved and excited to know that you had fantasies that involved similar things to what she was experiencing and by the sounds of it enjoying the attention - has this made it easier for you both to get into this lifestyle do you think?

I truly think she did because she seemed relieved to be able to admit she had "cheated" mentally with this guy. The fact he was black was a shocker though, never thought she had a thing for black men at all.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

I truly think she did because she seemed relieved to be able to admit she had "cheated" mentally with this guy. The fact he was black was a shocker though, never thought she had a thing for black men at all.

A good shock though! It must have been quite a revelation to know your wife could be the one to live out your fantasies as well as hers as well as doing your marriage the power of good too

 

[Seth1805]

The sweetness of this black man certainly ignited his sexual fantasies. She needs to still feel like a woman and be pampered

And I think, beyond his physical attributes, she loved the fact he was sweet to her and fawned over her. She said he made it a point to show up for her when she requested an ******* over the radio, she said it became obvious.
I do wonder if he detected my wife needed attention because she said he never failed to say something like "hey there good lookin."

 

[Seth1805]

A good shock though! It must have been quite a revelation to know your wife could be the one to live out your fantasies as well as hers as well as doing your marriage the power of good too

At first when she told me I admit my heart skipped a beat. There was this twinge of the unknown that surfaced where I envisioned her flirting with him and enjoying it. But I was so eager to hear what she had to say about him that I got over it quickly.
For her to say she had "feelings" for this black man was more than I could have hoped for in all of this.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

And I think, beyond his physical attributes, she loved the fact he was sweet to her and fawned over her. She said he made it a point to show up for her when she requested an ******* over the radio, she said it became obvious.
I do wonder if he detected my wife needed attention because she said he never failed to say something like "hey there good lookin."

Either that or he was testing to see if she was needing attention. Either way, your wife enjoyed it and it raised in her mind the possibly of sex with black men. Luckily you noticed in time something was missing and the rest as they say is history, but history you write as a loving couple

 

[Seth1805]

Either that or he was testing to see if she was needing attention. Either way, your wife enjoyed it and it raised in her mind the possibly of sex with black men. Luckily you noticed in time something was missing and the rest as they say is history, but history you write as a loving couple

History in the making. He knew she was married so he was bold in his approach to her. She liked his confidence, another ingredient he has as a lover that I do not possess. I am capable in bed, back in the day I was good, but I admit after all this time it is hard to reassert my "authority" in bed with my wife for fear it be difficult for her to take me serious.
I know she takes this guy seriously and I imagine he would quickly establish his manhood with her. She already speaks highly of his stature with me so I know she sees him as an Alpha male. I imagine she would "cheat" quite easily once he bedded her.

 

[CoppiaCuck]

At first when she told me I admit my heart skipped a beat. There was this twinge of the unknown that surfaced where I envisioned her flirting with him and enjoying it. But I was so eager to hear what she had to say about him that I got over it quickly.
For her to say she had "feelings" for this black man was more than I could have hoped for in all of this.

Surely your wife is living some good emotions.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

History in the making. He knew she was married so he was bold in his approach to her. She liked his confidence, another ingredient he has as a lover that I do not possess. I am capable in bed, back in the day I was good, but I admit after all this time it is hard to reassert my "authority" in bed with my wife for fear it be difficult for her to take me serious.
I know she takes this guy seriously and I imagine he would quickly establish his manhood with her. She already speaks highly of his stature with me so I know she sees him as an Alpha male. I imagine she would "cheat" quite easily once he bedded her.

Agreed. His powerful physique, confident attitude, dominant persona and sexual prowess would leave her weak at the knees and craving his return. Hopefully you will get to watch all this unfold

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

Surely your wife is living some good emotions.

Yes, happy that she has her husbands support and thrilled and excited of what it to come

 

[Seth1805]

https://www.amazon.ca/State-Affairs...ywords=state+of+affairs+rethinking+infidelity

https://www.thedailybeast.com/cuckolding-the-sex-fetish-for-intellectuals

 

[Seth1805]

Surely your wife is living some good emotions.

This happened about a year ago before he left to work at another casino and my wife and I were emotionally separated. The way she talked about him, the excitement in her voice, as she told me everything I could tell he was someone she had "feelings" for.
She tells me she has a great rapport with him and he would be the "perfect" man for her if we can locate him. The emotions she has now are quite different than the past years, she gets excited when we talk about him or another black man and those emotions linger for several days. She is a different woman

 

[Seth1805]

Agreed. His powerful physique, confident attitude, dominant persona and sexual prowess would leave her weak at the knees and craving his return. Hopefully you will get to watch all this unfold

I've asked to watch the first time at least but only if they are comfortable with me being present.

 

[Sub4Dommes&BBC]

I've asked to watch the first time at least but only if they are comfortable with me being present.

Hope you get to watch. Get to see her face when he gives that what she has been missing for so long

 

[CoppiaCuck]

This happened about a year ago before he left to work at another casino and my wife and I were emotionally separated. The way she talked about him, the excitement in her voice, as she told me everything I could tell he was someone she had "feelings" for.
She tells me she has a great rapport with him and he would be the "perfect" man for her if we can locate him. The emotions she has now are quite different than the past years, she gets excited when we talk about him or another black man and those emotions linger for several days. She is a different woman

He needs to experience his emotions and his sexual pleasure. Did she sleep with him?

 

[Seth1805]

Hope you get to watch. Get to see her face when he gives that what she has been missing for so long

I feel like I hijacked this thread. sorry. I have intense feelings about this subject. My wife and I talk about the cheating aspect of this as it relates to our marriage and we both find it acceptable.
I would love to watch her expression the entire time he made love to her to see the effect a black man would have on her then to see the change he brings to the bedroom in how she responds to him.
It's been a long time since she has had sex so I see a flood of emotions pouring out of her and the fact a black man is making love to her it might get a little insane.

 

[Seth1805]

He needs to experience his emotions and his sexual pleasure. Did she sleep with him?

No, he no longer works there and we are trying to locate him. His Facebook has zero activity on it but my wife sent him a friend request just in case.
You are right and my wife has this innate nurturing side to her in bed that is uncanny. I do miss it at times but I have no doubt she will be there for him once we find him and they make love.
My wife has not expressed this in bed in quite some time so he is in for a treat.

 

[CoppiaCuck]

No, he no longer works there and we are trying to locate him. His Facebook has zero activity on it but my wife sent him a friend request just in case.
You are right and my wife has this innate nurturing side to her in bed that is uncanny. I do miss it at times but I have no doubt she will be there for him once we find him and they make love.
My wife has not expressed this in bed in quite some time so he is in for a treat.

She always thinks of him and needs this black man. I think it's right that he does his course. He knows how to give him all his manhood and pleasure that only a black man can give

 

[Seth1805]

She always thinks of him and needs this black man. I think it's right that he does his course. He knows how to give him all his manhood and pleasure that only a black man can give

She admits she thinks about him at times. She admits she wants to be with him. I believe you are right, I think he should "do his course" and I think my wife should let this lead her to him.