Happy, loving, devoted wives cheat too!

Seth1805 said:
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/knowmore-tv/why-happily-married-women-are-cheating_b_5787280.html

I've been of the mindset for quite some time that a devoted wife can look somewhere else for sex. This is not nothing new for most here but I came to grips with it when I started thinking about my wife and our relationship and how she could make love with a black man but be happy with me.
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I wouldn't say most. If you are in the lifestyle there is no reason to cheat
 
Miaxss said:
I definitely agree with you. A wife cheating with another man is her actively seeking something the relationship isn't providing for her, good sex. I myself am cheating on my SO and it hasn't hurt my relationship to him. He is unable to satisfy me in bed so I have other men do it for him.
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I'll take goooood care of you.
 
Beachescouple said:
Everyone who is married "cheats" if you read the actual statutes from state to state....if we are playing word games ;)
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I don't much care for legal jargon when it comes to relationships but I get your drift. For me it is matters of the heart and mind. My wife and I swore to never be with another and meant it but this is something we find hard to avoid given my physical absence in the bedroom.
 
Seth1805 said:
I don't much care for legal jargon when it comes to relationships but I get your drift. For me it is matters of the heart and mind. My wife and I swore to never be with another and meant it but this is something we find hard to avoid given my physical absence in the bedroom.
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Same here. We've been married 28 years and as far as I know, neither have cheated. I don't think people in the lifestyle cheat if they are honest and have a strong relationship. It's much easier when you can tell each other" Oh I'd like to fuck that person" lol Good luck :)
 
Beachescouple said:
Same here. We've been married 28 years and as far as I know, neither have cheated. I don't think people in the lifestyle cheat if they are honest and have a strong relationship. It's much easier when you can tell each other" Oh I'd like to fuck that person" lol Good luck :)
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Thank you. I guess it is how you define cheating. We've been married 34 years and both us consider this a form of cheating as it pertains to us.;)
 
Seth1805 said:
I feel like I hijacked this thread. sorry. I have intense feelings about this subject. My wife and I talk about the cheating aspect of this as it relates to our marriage and we both find it acceptable.
I would love to watch her expression the entire time he made love to her to see the effect a black man would have on her then to see the change he brings to the bedroom in how she responds to him.
It's been a long time since she has had sex so I see a flood of emotions pouring out of her and the fact a black man is making love to her it might get a little insane.
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You started this thread. Can you hijack your own thread? Ha. I get you though and shows you're considerate.
 
Seth1805 said:
Yes, she did once we got deeper into the discussion about her with another man. I asked had she been attracted to anyone during all of this and she mentioned one black guy with whom she used to work with for 3 years.
She said he was a tall, good looking guy, about our age and always paid her compliments. She works the floor of a major casino and she said he was security so he spent a lot of time escorting her to slot machines.
She said he flirted with her often and that at some point she became attracted to him and yes, fantasized about him. I did not want to mention this because it comes off as very convenient as to fit with my own fantasy but it is the truth.
My wife was unapologetic about it, she said he was sweet to her and that once she got to know him she "liked" who he was (a nice man) and "what" he was (this big black man whom looked like a stud.)
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When your wife said yes, that she had been attracted to another man, did she only tell you of this one man because he was black and that was part of your fantasy or did she mention others she was drawn to as well but they just happened to be white?
 
WhtAcpt said:
When your wife said yes, that she had been attracted to another man, did she only tell you of this one man because he was black and that was part of your fantasy or did she mention others she was drawn to as well but they just happened to be white?
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She told me about this because we had discussed the lack of sex in our relationship and I asked her had she "looked" at other men. She mentioned him because he was the one guy who caught her eye and yes she was partly drawn to him because he was a black man. She did not tell me this because it was my fantasy though.
I wanted to know had she wandered in any way due to the lack of sex in our marriage and she was forthright with me.
 
Seth1805 said:
She told me about this because we had discussed the lack of sex in our relationship and I asked her had she "looked" at other men. She mentioned him because he was the one guy who caught her eye and yes she was partly drawn to him because he was a black man. She did not tell me this because it was my fantasy though.
I wanted to know had she wandered in any way due to the lack of sex in our marriage and she was forthright with me.
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Sounds like you have the right communication on your side. You can build up the fantasy more and more as you casino-hop in search of the elusive black coworker.
Good luck and I'd like to follow this thread.
 
Seth1805 said:
She told me about this because we had discussed the lack of sex in our relationship and I asked her had she "looked" at other men. She mentioned him because he was the one guy who caught her eye and yes she was partly drawn to him because he was a black man. She did not tell me this because it was my fantasy though.
I wanted to know had she wandered in any way due to the lack of sex in our marriage and she was forthright with me.
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Sounds like you have the right communication on your side. You can build up the fantasy more and more as you casino-hop in search of the elusive black coworker.
Good luck and I'd like to follow this thread.
 
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