Going out as a couple with open mind!

Is it normal t feel a bit jealous when black guys hit on her? will it go away with time?

  • yes?

    Votes: 12 75.0%

  • no?

    Votes: 4 25.0%
  • Total voters
    16
Irishboy81

Irishboy81

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We went out tonight in a place not quite local to us , had already agreed that she could dance with a black guy if the situation was right, planned our story of us just being friends on a night out together.. Anyway a very tall attractive black guy made his move at the bar and i have to say it was a fight for me at first with the jealousy part but went with the flow and have to admit it was such a turn on watching my girl being led away to the dance floor and seeing her enjoy herself grinding and letting herself go... They exchanged numbers which is a positive first step right? Anyway it strengthens my belief that we will eventually get there!
 
Good first step. Make sure you both commicate: how you felt, what you thought, what turned you on, how you still love one another. Go at her speed and don't push too hard. Reassure her. Would like to hear what she thought and felt about it. This Fetish plays on the jealousy as long as you can work through it. Without some level of jealousy I would not consider it cuckolding.
 
She really enjoyed herself says it's a massive turn on for her I told her it was the most arousing moment of my life said I was a bit jealous but that was expected and certainly out weighed by the experience. She's a real lady always has been so was a huge first step for her. Can see she is still concerned about how I feel but Ive done my best to reassure her. She is probably finding it hard to believe that she has a guy who wants to see her with black guys..
 
That's good. You can try that again without pushing it further so you can both get more comfortable. Good idea to talk through how much further she can take it. Kissing, getting felt up, going outside, to car...

If you can share why you fantasize or like this it may help. How did you get interested in this?
 
Good question... I grew up in uk in a multicultural city... I got friendzoned by my crush an absolute beauty.. Long story short she would tell me everything and she and her friends would only be with black guys.. She went into so much detail that I got hooked on imagining her with these guys. It made me curious and I felt a bit guilty about for a long time.
 
Interesting. I think many of us have experiences like that. I was friends with a woman and had lunch with her everyday more as a friend. We went out a couple of times but had not progressed very far. Eventually we set a date to go out and get wild. We both knew that was going to end with us sleeping togeather. Big night arrives and I get sick and have to go home early.

Next morning she calls me up while I'm still in bed felling poorly. She asks me to go over to my two friends apartment to mediate an argument. Turns out my one friend had taken her home and fucked her. My second friend, black and his roommate, had come home and found them togeather. Turns out he had been fucking her on the down low for two months.

I drag myself out of bed, catch a taxi, and go over to patch their friendship up, over the gal friend #1 knew I was planning g to fuck.

Of course friend #1 had no idea frind #2 was fucking her during the day. So I'm patching their friendship and I'm the only one who had been fucked over by a friend. That was my first of two cuckolding girlfriends.
 
Happened to me a few times... Had a girl back at my house and my house mate came out of his room in just boxers I introduced and literally 3 hours later I could hear them fucking
 
Yup. Another girl friend, neighbor in Kentucky , and I were spending every night at her place, (I had a roommate). Three months in her EX comes to visit from LA, so she asks me to make myself scares for a week. He stays with her for the week sleeping in her bed. He leaves and she and I go right back to spending every night togeather until I move to LA an hour from her EX. A month or two later she moves back to her Ex and get married shortly thereafter. Maybe she cuckolded both of us but only I knew and got off on it.
 
I swear I was questioning myself for a long time about the fascination I spoke to the girl who friend zoned me and explained how much it turned me on watching IR porn she had me explain most of it and she enjoyed sharing her stories to get me worked up. So when I finally told my girlfriend everything it was a huge gamble that payed off
 
Your poll asks two questions that are not mutually exclusive. You can be jealous and not have it go away with time. That said, jealousy is a social construct that you can learn to control. Most of the subsequent respondents said that they learned not to be jealous early in their dating life and to be aroused by women sleeping around on them.
 
I'm not normally a jealous guy can honestly say that we've never had any issues, I think the initial jealousy was seeing how natural it was for him to come and claim her right in front of me. But the arousal was worth that moment
 
So the other day my girl skyped me (while at the bar with her friends) that a guy had just come over and hit on her and bought her a few drinks. She asked me if that was ok and after a moment of extreme jealousy I said I was fine with it and all her friends burst out laughing. She kind of giggled and said "ok thats what I thought we just wanted to hear you say it. Ill call you later ok babe?" And hung up.

I felt so jealous and embaressed but I also was turned on and jerked off.
 
Cuckloversissy said:
So the other day my girl skyped me (while at the bar with her friends) that a guy had just come over and hit on her and bought her a few drinks. She asked me if that was ok and after a moment of extreme jealousy I said I was fine with it and all her friends burst out laughing. She kind of giggled and said "ok thats what I thought we just wanted to hear you say it. Ill call you later ok babe?" And hung up.

I felt so jealous and embaressed but I also was turned on and jerked off.
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I can't explain why but it's a different feeling when it's a black guy. Any thoughts?
 
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