Going Black-Only Thoughts?

From a CuckHusband perspective I have seen my very Hotwife with more than a few guys over our ten year play history. I have to admit that I understand why her Black Lovers are her favorite. We never saw it anyway other than the Hot Black Studs brought their game better than the others and ended up her preference and I applaud this.
 
Yes I am still black-only, I don’t plan on going back anytime soon. Me and my significant other decided that as long as I’m black-only that he can have a partner as well, because eventually he had a problem with being cut off completely. Now everything is grand I can devote myself sexually and only to my black partners without worry of my significant other.
Nothing hotter than hearing a wife say she has gone black only. Get's me every time. Well done!!
 
Yes I am still black-only, I don’t plan on going back anytime soon. Me and my significant other decided that as long as I’m black-only that he can have a partner as well, because eventually he had a problem with being cut off completely. Now everything is grand I can devote myself sexually and only to my black partners without worry of my significant other.
So in fact you have an open marriage.
You can fuck who you want, and he can fuck who he wants.
 
I did that 8 years ago. I highly recommend it so long as the communication is open and honest. Clearly he knows he cannot satisfy you on a sexual level and if he loves you then he surely understands. I think at the same time you take the pressure off of him to perform and then he can focus on other aspects of your marriage.
just explain to him that he just needs to focus on yours and BBCs pleasure cuz he's not made for sex but he is loved but for his small dick .. just explain that yours and BBC pleasure is the new white male sexual male sexual expression and that he needs to focus more on you and your lovers
 
Jamie, do you make a point of teasing him and keeping him excited or do you mostly ignore his needs. We think tease and denial go hand in hand and make chastity exciting for the cuck.
tease and denial should be used as a random reinforcement only in the early days of the black only transition. beyond that letting him think that his release should be allowed just invites complaining or possible resentment. a cuck should be trained to regard wife and BBC's pleasure as his source of pleasure and satisfaction IMHO
 
So I’ve been thinking about cutting my husband off completely and just sticking to having sex with black guys and my bull. My bull and his friends think it’s a great idea. They pretty much are the only ones that have sex with me right now anyway. My husband hasn’t really been pleasing me like I want since I’ve been going black. My husband does get occasional blow jobs, hand jobs, and he tries to have sex with me but the sex just doesn’t compare to any of the black guys I’ve been with. I have jokingly told him that I’m going to cut him off and just have sex with black men and he is surprisingly ok with it. I just hope to get some of y’all a input on this situation and if it’s a good idea.
My wife cut me off about seven years ago. Her bull was very pleased about it because it was her idea. He loves that she prefers him so much that she was willing to risk cutting me off. It turns out I loved the idea. When she tells me about their encounters my cock gets harder than it ever did having sex with her myself. That in turn of course makes my climaxing very intense.
 
From what I seen women go apeshit getting their ass licked while riding a bbc.
Gives the husband a chance to feel her pleasure up close and personal as well as whack off while doing it.

I've also seen women go crazy getting doggystyled by a bbc while their husband is underneath licking their clit. They cum instantly and very very hard.
Again the husband has the chance to whack off and he can clean up if the black guy cums in his wife.

In European interracial cuckold porn is actually quite common. The cuck is usually provided oral support to intensify the pleasure of the woman.
We figured this was "normal" for cuckolding and we aren't even European. :ROFLMAO::mstickle::qos:
 
My wife cut me off 10 years ago. She was very honest with me and told me I was no longer satisfying her. She had a few affairs with men with much bigger dicks than mine. I agreed to her having other men and she agreed to tell me about her escapades from time to time. It's worked out great for us
Does she let you lick her pussy?
 
Her SUPERIOR BLACK LOVER gets kisses as a lover, I get kisses as the little wimp. I now know the pecking order.


After meeting her first black lover we ended up in a motel together. Hopefully it will be one of the many wonderful cuckold lifestyle experiences we will have on a regular basis with a BBC ALPHA MALE in our relationship.
It was about 4:00 AM she had already had several orgasms earlier in the evening, to many to count she said, the the sheets were soaked. They had me switch beds with them so I would sleep on the wet sheets to know my place. Than the moment she had been talking about for months had finally arrived. She was going to be going to sleep and waking up with a eight to nine inch thick BBC stabbing at her back side instead of my little pathetic, but affectionately loved four 4" penis. She got up and went into the bath room. He summonsed me out of the bed and told me to get down on his soft 6" cock to get it hard. She came out of the bathroom all freshened up. As soon as she noticed what I was doing, she immediately said, "Okay my sweet little wimp get off that BBC and get off our bed and go back to yours.
I don't want you to speak or interfere while I devour his huge hard BBC, she situated herself between his legs and all I could hear was slurping and gagging sounds. Maybe 20 / 30 minutes passed before I realized they were both moaning and groaning with sounds of *******. The rhythmic rocking of the bed increased, faster and faster as her SUPERIOR Lover did his best to give her pussy a solid fucking work out. I watched as he worked his long hard thick cock in and out of her most willing beautiful white pussy. The feeling she was given him with her pussy was making him go crazy, she wanted his balls to release every drop of that warm SUPERIOR BLACK SEED to be deposited deep inside her, a depth where no white man had ever been.
As I knelt near the bed I observed her hands on his ass pulling him closer, her toes were curled up, she was screaming fuck me ! fuck me with that beautiful big black dick. She was almost crying with satisfying pleasure, I knew the time was close. she was ready for his load, its like her pussy was on fire and she needed to cum again she raised her torso up pressing herself tightly against him with every thrust. I watched as her body tensed and than another orgasm coursed through her body for a fourth or fifth time. Tony was doing his best to make it last but with those pussy muscles clamped tightly around his deeply buried cock it was too much, and he let out a deep moan and announced loudly that he was about to cum. He pulled his cock out to the rim of his big mushroom head one last time trying to delay his climax before driving it back into her stretched pussy as deep as he could, he felt his black seed boil up from deep within his balls.
His cock pulsated and his balls rippled with contractions as his Superior Black Seed was deposited deep inside of her. Watching, I knew the pleasure she was feeling to finally be blacked by this Superior Black Bull, I was so proud of her and ready for my new journey as the little sissy cuckold who would be trained to suck BBC and eat cream pies.
Her pussy was bright pink, and a pool of semen clearly visible just inside her swollen lips. She kept her legs open wide so I could get a good look as she played with the cum on her tits and slowly licked the cum from her lips as you looked over at me and smiled.... There I was for the last hour just a voyeur watching.. Trying not to touch myself because I was instructed by both her and her lover not to ever touch myself without permission and to never cum without consent or my ass would be paddled. Now she was patting on the bed for me to come join her. {HERE IT IS ABOUT KISSING} I knelt by the side of the bed and attempted to give her a long deep kiss like I always use to. She lightly slapped my face not to hurt me but wanted to make it clear she said " Now that I have been thoroughly BLACKED my passionate kissing will only be for my Black Lover. She assured me that she would always be my girl but can only be a BLACK MANS WOMAN. She did give me a tease with her tongue sticking out, it was a earthy, salty taste of her Superior Black Lovers Seed, Soon her hands urged me down between her legs unto her soaked pussy, full of a Superior Black Seed. She firmly whispered "Suck It, lick it clean " as she pressed against my open mouth. She slowly contracted her womanhood delivering a warm sweet salty mixture of her and her superior black lovers juices to my waiting taste buds. It caused my little four inch penis to become as hard as steel. Once I was finished, I asked if I could go inside her stretched pussy briefly, her response was firm and deliberate, absolutely not, there is no reason for you to ever put that pathetic little white penis in me again, you surrendered me to Black and I am never going back. From now on I am exclusively for BLACK ONLY, now jerk that little thing until you dribble the usual few drops of inferior cum, wipe it up with a tissue and flush it . Once you are done you can go lay on the wet bed or leave the room until we call for you. I am so glad you encouraged me to liberate myself and get what I needed. Only regret I have is I waited all these years. You should be very happy now, you finally got what you wanted, now I will always love and see you as a little wimp, that will never change, you understand ? I said yes honey, I understand, can I give you a little peck and say good night, yes but make it quick I want to snuggle with my man, I'm sure when we wake up he will probably want to go another round or have me suck him dry before he leaves.
 
Going black only was the best that ever happened to me sexually. When we had been in this lifestyle for a few months, my bf told me he thought it would be so hot if I was black only. We had already bought a chastity cage and fooled around with it, so we decided to put him in chastity for about a month while I was fucking black men.

It turned out to be an incredible experience. He instantly started focusing all his attention on satisfying me with his hands and toys, and hooking me up with black guys. And my mind changed completely because I wasn't able to just blow off some steam with my bf whenever I was horny, so instead I started to think about BBC all the time, and that just turned me into such a horny, dirty person. Like the kind of girl my bf had always dreamed about.

After that month was over, we were just so blown away by the change that we just kept going. I have now been black only for almost nine months while he has been in chastity almost the whole time, and now we're aiming for one year.

I'm sure we will have sex again at some point because we love each other and I want ******* with him too. But right now, none of us are really missing the way things were. He gets more satisfaction from seeing me be satisfied and act dirty than from just blowing his load. And I have had so much better sex than ever before. And just because he doesn't penetrate me doesn't mean we can't be intimate. I mean, we use are hands and we make out in a real passionate way. And every time I fuck a black guy, it's still an experience that we share together for the sake of our relationship. Either he's watching or I send him pics and tell him about it. So in the end it's still all about us.

That's a long essay, but I hope it can help :)
 
Misscurious, good luck with ever wanting to have penetrative sex with your husband. That’s like eating nothing but desserts, burgers, and fries and trying to go vegan. Eventually, you will say it’s not worth it.

Ladies, why are you so shock that this would be the best sexually experience you’ve ever had. You are living in a fantasy world. You get sex from men with the best tools for sex and know what they are doing because they’ve fucked hundreds of women like you, they treat you great because you give them all the power and control (as soon as you become a pain, they drop your ass), and you’ve got your husband there playing sexually cheerleader, getting you excited about sex, and pleasing you orally or with a dildo when your sex gods are fucking other women. Why wouldn’t this be the best sexually experience for women.

My thing is I don’t see how you can build deep sexual connection and intimacy with your husband or boyfriend (which we long for - more than huge orgasms) by fucking other men, looking forward to fuck other men, and thinking about other men when you fuck your husband. Let’s not confuse sharing an experience with someone as intimacy.

you have to be present and connected to gain true intimacy with another person. when you are fucking BBC you are clearly present and connected with BBC not your husband, when you think and talk about BBC, you are clearly present and connected with that subject not the goals and dreams of your husband. When you are in the throes of passion with BBC on your mind, how are you connecting with your husband and trying to find ways to help him become a better person.

Here is my thing - enjoy the sexual experience but let’s just say we are choosing hot passionate orgasmic sexually experiences over deeper intimacy with our spouse when we go BBC only, talk solely about BBC when we have sex with spouse, and use BBC to get in the mood for sex. We are not using these intimate sessions to know our partner, we are using these intimate sessions to know how much pleasure we can get. That’s fine but let’s call it what it is - sharing an experience, not intimacy.

the foundation of true intimacy is trying to get to know one another deeply, so we can validate each other and help each other become everything we are capable of becoming. Sex is an intimate act that allows us the vulnerability to do that.

I agree, this lifestyle is not - but’s let’s stop saying how we are gaining more intimacy with our husband and bf when your thinking and fucking sex gods. Doing more sexual stuff is not intimacy - it’s doing more sexual stuff.

Intimacy is knowing the other person better; being there for them emotionally, mentally, and spiritually; showing them that you can be trusted; and providing a safe, good, environment with them - you can’t do that with your husband when you’ve got at 9” in your pussy, a 10” in your mouth, and an 8” in your ass.

many will disagree but it is what it is.
 
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***Im not saying you can’t be in this lifestyle and not be in a deep intimate relationship with your spouse. I’m saying anyone who is in a deep intimate relationship with their spouse would NEVER be BBC only.***

When you are fucking BBC all the time and thinking about it all the time - there is no way you are building intimacy with your spouse. You are having fun.

This works well for couples who have an established loving and deep intimate relationship that want to try some new things to gain depth in their relationship but they would never not have sex with each other and they would stop in a heartbeat if it wasn’t working for either person.

they put the dessert (BBC) in the right place. They treat BBC as dessert not as the main course. If BBC is the main course of your sex life - you are not building deep intimacy with your spouse, you are having fun.
 
Going black only was the best that ever happened to me sexually. When we had been in this lifestyle for a few months, my bf told me he thought it would be so hot if I was black only. We had already bought a chastity cage and fooled around with it, so we decided to put him in chastity for about a month while I was fucking black men.

It turned out to be an incredible experience. He instantly started focusing all his attention on satisfying me with his hands and toys, and hooking me up with black guys. And my mind changed completely because I wasn't able to just blow off some steam with my bf whenever I was horny, so instead I started to think about BBC all the time, and that just turned me into such a horny, dirty person. Like the kind of girl my bf had always dreamed about.

After that month was over, we were just so blown away by the change that we just kept going. I have now been black only for almost nine months while he has been in chastity almost the whole time, and now we're aiming for one year.

I'm sure we will have sex again at some point because we love each other and I want ******* with him too. But right now, none of us are really missing the way things were. He gets more satisfaction from seeing me be satisfied and act dirty than from just blowing his load. And I have had so much better sex than ever before. And just because he doesn't penetrate me doesn't mean we can't be intimate. I mean, we use are hands and we make out in a real passionate way. And every time I fuck a black guy, it's still an experience that we share together for the sake of our relationship. Either he's watching or I send him pics and tell him about it. So in the end it's still all about us.

That's a long essay, but I hope it can help :)
I disagree with Anthony. You can have intimate sex with your bf and have ******* and everything like you planned. You seem to have a great attitude and so does he. We are very much the same way. Our love and sex life is better than ever. Good luck
 
***Im not saying you can’t be in this lifestyle and not be in a deep intimate relationship with your spouse. I’m saying anyone who is in a deep intimate relationship with their spouse would NEVER be BBC only.***

When you are fucking BBC all the time and thinking about it all the time - there is no way you are building intimacy with your spouse. You are having fun.

This works well for couples who have an established loving and deep intimate relationship that want to try some new things to gain depth in their relationship but they would never not have sex with each other and they would stop in a heartbeat if it wasn’t working for either person.

they put the dessert (BBC) in the right place. They treat BBC as dessert not as the main course. If BBC is the main course of your sex life - you are not building deep intimacy with your spouse, you are having fun.
What a bunch of crap. You can't apply your beliefs to all other people's relationships. Just because you can't handle it, or most people couldn't, doesn't mean no one can.

Are you a psychologist? Have you been doing years of psychological research with focus on sexuality? No? Then, please spare me the bullshit.

I respect your view, but speak for yourself, please. You make it sound like your interpretation is law. That's called narcissism.

And like I said, we ARE intimate with each other, he just doesn't penetrate me. If you believe a relationship stands and falls with that, I feel sorry for you. And like I said, this is something we do TOGETHER, for each other's pleasure and we are building trust between us as we do it. I'm not saying it's a good idea for everyone. I'm simply sharing my experience.
 
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