Ok...if you have been trying to get her to do it for years and she says no, then maybe, just maybe...she is not into this lifestyle. And how would she react if she found out you were posting her pics on the internet? It sounds like this is 100% your fantasy. People like you just need to come to terms with the fact that it probably isnt going to happen. If you have never talked about it and it is your fantasy then maybe it could happen But you have talked about it and she is not into it...I think it's time to move on. Good luck to you.