We only did it once. I got to watch my wife get fucked hard by a young black guy for two hours. It made sex between the two of us amazing for months afterwards and strengthened our relationship. Later she got pregnant by me and we lost the baby. She has not wanted to do it again. I wish she would. You should do it.
First timer here, do any boyfriends/husbands regret asking their significant other to take BBC?
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Nole, sorry to hear about the miscarriage. That sucks.
Let me ask you.. what made sex hot between you and your girl after the BBC. What did you guys do differently, how did you approach it differently that allowed it to be fucking hot?
Let me ask you.. what made sex hot between you and your girl after the BBC. What did you guys do differently, how did you approach it differently that allowed it to be fucking hot?
I think people need to understand this lifestyle is far different from cuckold porn, it can and does fuck up a lot of people, relationships and marriages.
I think its even different from general swingers, its more an even balance, i'll fuck your wife, you fuck mine... then we'll go back to our domestic lives. With cuckolding there can be a huge imbalance, especially once you bring in a male who is more desirable, better at sex, better endowed, charismatic, charming, alpha qualities etc. and then that sits next to yourself as a cuckold... and you see the imbalance yourself. You're not blind... she may not leave you, may still love you etc. but its hard to see yourself different from a horse working on a farm, compared to a stallion on a stud farm... there is a difference, he knows it, you know it and your wife knows it. Thats exactly why he is in your bed, in your wifes pussy... but to think it doesn't or can't have lasting effects is dilusional.
I think its even different from general swingers, its more an even balance, i'll fuck your wife, you fuck mine... then we'll go back to our domestic lives. With cuckolding there can be a huge imbalance, especially once you bring in a male who is more desirable, better at sex, better endowed, charismatic, charming, alpha qualities etc. and then that sits next to yourself as a cuckold... and you see the imbalance yourself. You're not blind... she may not leave you, may still love you etc. but its hard to see yourself different from a horse working on a farm, compared to a stallion on a stud farm... there is a difference, he knows it, you know it and your wife knows it. Thats exactly why he is in your bed, in your wifes pussy... but to think it doesn't or can't have lasting effects is dilusional.
PREACH SLINK......
Love these posts because it’s real. I love what everyone is bringing to this thread. Thanks football for bringing this up....
I think when you do this you are juggling with fire pins and it’s important to know what goes into this before you juggle.
Ultimately all you guys want to please your husbands and wives and allow them to experience everything the world has to offer but at the end of the day, it’s about you being in the arms of each other - loving each other. This lifestyle can assist that and it can hurt it.....gotta know how to navigate through all this.
I do not regret it at all.
Easygliderpro
Male
What makes you think ? for sure, your wife won’t leave you? I mean, nothing is written in stones, right?
Why don’t you just play out your fantasy instead of reality? You know women are wired differently, they like and prefer real alpha males, and not cuckolds, only a few stick around for different reasons, and NOT for the sake of cuckolds.
The devil ? leads us into temptation by enticing us with promises, then leaving us unfulfilled and ashamed. And it seems like no matter how hard we try, we keep falling for it.
Don’t be surprised ? if your loved one walks out on you one day, but I hope she won’t. People are unpredictable and they always change in their thinking ?, body and mind.
Cheers, God loves
you n all ??.havefun389
Male
No regrets being in the lifestyle. It probably saved our marriage. We became so much more intimate with one another. Only regrets are not starting sooner and having been black bred. She can't have ******* now but when we first started we talked about it and had some amazing orgasms re. having a mixed race baby but never got there. It was also 10 years ago and there is a lot more supportive information available.
Slingblade8435
Couple
I will say the only down side I (husband) have found is that sex is not quite as exciting without the cuck element after you have indulged in it...
Well, thats the chance I guess i'm willing to take... again. There are divorces, affairs, infidelities happening all the time which causes a partner to leave, and 99% would have nothing to do with cuckolding. Also, aside from the sex, I provide my wife with a very, very comfortable life and lifestyle... plus she is quite alpha and controls most of our relationship, finances, decisions etc. which she loves.
She was previously married to a very well endowed, 6'3" alpha male (was an elite soldier) and aside from the sex, hated every part of being with one. Was great at the start, the man of her dreams, the envy of all her friends, fucked liked a machine every day, but with that... many other women wanted to fuck him, and most of the time he obliged, behind her back. He was a serial cheater/ liar because he could be.
I offer my wife a life of trust, loyalty, strict monogamy, stability, financial security, friendship AND the freedom to have sex with other men when she needs to tick the one box I can't for her. She admitted years ago, if she couldn't cuckold me when SHE wanted/ needed to, she would almost definitely cheat on me like my ex's did, but because we are so honest with each other, she has no need to or ever felt the need to.
She actually has less sex with other men, because she has the freedom to whenever she likes and when is convenient to her, and not constantly secretly cheating on me because she is feeling trapped in a somewhat sexless marriage.
Very good points made Slink......
Easygliderpro
Male
If it’s all true about your recent relationship, and everything you have said here, then I have to say, she is one of a million; she is unique.
I may NOT agree with your lifestyle, or everything you have said here, but I think ? you are a nice guy with a good heart....
As i've said in other post, this lifestyle has cost me dearly, money, friends, mental health etc. but my current wife saw all my good points, beliefs, values way before my the possibility of a somewhat mediocre sex life. We probably weren't meant to be together, when we met, she was on the dating scene as a newly divorced woman. She was obviously having casual sex with other men while dating and yet, I became sort of her wingman/ friend. It took 6 weeks before she let me give her oral sex on the proviso, strictly no intercourse as she wasn't interested in me sexually, just wanted to be friends and have some fun.
Over that 2 months, she saw how the other men out there would fuck her then not retrurn her calls or want another date, yet I waited patiently hoping she would feel something towards me, while hoping she didn't fall for any of the men she was dating. She saw that, realised my desire to be monogamous wasn't a lie, that I wanted to be with her, that I wasn't jealous of her preferring to be with other men on a Saturday night while I sat at home. She finally 2 months later allowed me to fuck her because she liked me, not so much desired me, but thought she'd see if we could be together. After 3 months she knew the man she was getting involved with and we've happy for 13 years. She told me in this day and age, if you didn't fuck by the 3rd date, there usually wouldn't be a 4th... so the fact I waited two months without even asking to fuck her proved to her I was a guy with a good heart.
Slink, you have shown that a woman’s #1 need is not to be have the best sex ever but to be in a safe, committed, loving relationship where she can rely on her husband and he’s predictable. This is why this lifestyle can work.....because the hubby provides this - and allows her to play with no worries.
Why don’t women just fuck BBC without being in a relationship ———— because there is no safety, predictability, and love in that. They have to rely on these men to care for them and be there for them and they just won’t as Slink’s wife experienced so they marry for stability.
Remember all CUCKS:
I don’t know how you do it but YOU ARE THE REASON THIS IS HAPPENING. There is no toe curling, 12 hour multiple squirting orgasm sex happening without what you provide outside of bedroom.
It’s this safety, predictability, love, and your cheerleading and full encouragement of this lifestyle that allow women to fully let go and let that inner sex goddess come out. The goodness doesn’t come out if they don’t feel comfortable and safe.
Cucks you play this role and I’m thrilled when your wives OVERacknowledge that and the bulls respect the Cucks after the event (which most bulls in this site seem to do).
Why don’t women just fuck BBC without being in a relationship ———— because there is no safety, predictability, and love in that. They have to rely on these men to care for them and be there for them and they just won’t as Slink’s wife experienced so they marry for stability.
Remember all CUCKS:
I don’t know how you do it but YOU ARE THE REASON THIS IS HAPPENING. There is no toe curling, 12 hour multiple squirting orgasm sex happening without what you provide outside of bedroom.
It’s this safety, predictability, love, and your cheerleading and full encouragement of this lifestyle that allow women to fully let go and let that inner sex goddess come out. The goodness doesn’t come out if they don’t feel comfortable and safe.
Cucks you play this role and I’m thrilled when your wives OVERacknowledge that and the bulls respect the Cucks after the event (which most bulls in this site seem to do).
Thanks. Yeah, I constantly read how these cuck wannabe's want their wife to become an instant BBC whore, and ask how to convince her. I think a cuck needs to show her all the other benefits that aren't sex related. Most cucks don't want that bit, they just want to see their wife getting nailed by big cocks... then can't understand why their wife has no interest. Before you build a house you have to dig the footings and pour the foundations, without that, it will end a disaster.
Its also importnant not to move the goal posts, I said from the day she finally let me fuck her, that i'm happy to only have sex when she wants it, i'd never whinge or whine for it... 13 years on we still have that agreement. I might only get 4-6 fucks a year but i'm ok with that, because reality is... its how how relationship began, basically sexless/ pussy free. She still tells me how much she loves me desperately wanting her, but always waiting until she says ok and never complaining.
Respect, well said.
I agree with you. I knew I wanted my gf to get blacked before she did it. After watching her, I knew I wanted to see a black guy fuck her again. Now I'm with my 2nd gf who does black guys, and I love it. Any girl I end up with at this point has to agree to be blacked.
