First timer here, do any boyfriends/husbands regret asking their significant other to take BBC?

[football8532]

I asked my girlfriend months ago about her sleeping with someone else, preferably someone with a larger penis that would fuck her much better than i am capable of. She has slowly warmed up to the idea. We are madly in love and have amazing sex and spend all of our time together unless we are at work. We have recently had some offers from members on this site, some of them VERY well endowed. Im excited about watching her go through with this but im also more than a little worried that it could change our relationship for the worst. Any stories, insight, or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

 

[native wife]

Or marriage got stronger. The bbc stretching me using me is me letting my inner slut out but just sex. My true passion and love is for my husband and it will always be that way

 

[bobter65]

Or marriage got stronger. The bbc stretching me using me is me letting my inner slut out but just sex. My true passion and love is for my husband and it will always be that way

Or marriage got stronger. The bbc stretching me using me is me letting my inner slut out but just sex. My true passion and love is for my husband and it will always be that way

perfect

 

[football8532]

Any other wives out there have any insight on if it changed how you view your husbands?

 

[kelzuk]

Me and my husband both swing and see other people, it hasn't changed us in the slightest but that's us - most of the men I see are bigger than him but I enjoy our sex more than ever. Ultimately you know your girlfriend better than anyone here so you should carefully use your judgment.

 

[azndawl]

I asked my girlfriend months ago about her sleeping with someone else, preferably someone with a larger penis that would fuck her much better than i am capable of. She has slowly warmed up to the idea. We are madly in love and have amazing sex and spend all of our time together unless we are at work. We have recently had some offers from members on this site, some of them VERY well endowed. Im excited about watching her go through with this but im also more than a little worried that it could change our relationship for the worst. Any stories, insight, or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

If you have doubts then don’t do it. Your insecurities will take the best in you or your girlfriend may love it too much to leave you. Either wear your big boy pants and go with it, or not at all.

 

[football8532]

My main concern is i dont want to end up caged or barely getting to have sex with my girlfriend if she thinks the other is so much better. Guess i wont know until we try

 

[slinky1]

I have had a wife and a fiance leave me for men I helped introduce and encouraged to have sex with. Caused me massive pain, humiliation, almost financially and emotionally broke me and have lived with levels of regret ever since. My ex-fiance was the woman of my dreams and everything I wanted in a woman, and yet she walked out and was pregnant to him 6 months later. It fucking killed me knowing, I was the one who convinced them to have as much sex as they wanted. This lifestyle isn't without consequences, trap doors and yes, regrets. If you're not open to the possibility of this, stick with cuck porn, a box of tissues and keep your gf well away from charming, successful, well endowed alpha males.

In saying that, i'm still a cuckold and always will be, I love it and it adds so much to my life, but its up to her if she leaves you, not you. My current wife enjoys it, but we are older, wiser, *******, mortgage etc. so she has no interest in leaving for better sex.

Remember, it needs two people to start a relationship, but only needs one to end it.

 

[Curiouscpl14]

Wifeyy here I explain it like this, hubs and I are lifers what we have is perfect but the lifestyle is the icing on our cake ? my hubs is my human nothing changes that ??

 

[Anthony0542]

This lifestyle isn't without consequences, trap doors and yes, regrets. If you're not open to the possibility of this, stick with cuck porn, a box of tissues and keep your gf well away from charming, successful, well endowed alpha males.

In saying that, i'm still a cuckold and always will be, I love it and it adds so much to my life, but its up to her if she leaves you, not you. My current wife enjoys it, but we are older, wiser, *******, mortgage etc. so she has no interest in leaving for better sex.

Slink, that’s real talk

 

[Anthony0542]

Wifeyy here I explain it like this, hubs and I are lifers what we have is perfect but the lifestyle is the icing on our cake ? my hubs is my human nothing changes that ??

Curious, could you describe your sex life with your hubby. I think men are nervous that after their wife experiences the most powerful sex they are ever going to get over and over again, will they lose interest in their sex life or will the sex not be great unless the lifestyle is involved - whether it’s fucking bulls, or fantasying about fucking bulls or wishing you were fucking a bull when fucking your husband?

I think a lot of men would have no problem participating in this lifestyle if they could continue to have good hot sex with their wife without having to mention and talk about the lifestyle.

It would be hard for me to hear, “well sex with my husband will never be as good as sexy with James but I love having sex with my husband”.

 

[slinky1]

Curious, could you describe your sex life with your hubby. I think men are nervous that after their wife experiences the most powerful sex they are ever going to get over and over again, will they lose interest in their sex life or will the sex not be great unless the lifestyle is involved - whether it’s fucking bulls, or fantasying about fucking bulls or wishing you were fucking a bull when fucking your husband?

I think a lot of men would have no problem participating in this lifestyle if they could continue to have good hot sex with their wife without having to mention and talk about the lifestyle.

It would be hard for me to hear, “well sex with my husband will never be as good as sexy with James but I love having sex with my husband”.

I think its a lot like an upgrade on a long distance flight, if you've only ever flown economy, you know no different... but find me anyone who has flown business/ first and not dreaded having to go back to flyin economy again. Once you've experienced it, its hard to forget and stays with you well into the future.

 

[Anthony0542]

I think its a lot like an upgrade on a long distance flight, if you've only ever flown economy, you know no different... but find me anyone who has flown business/ first and not dreaded having to go back to flyin economy again. Once you've experienced it, its hard to forget and stays with you well into the future.

Damn, Slink.....that is a great analogy. Great analogy

It’s not like you don’t ever want to fly economy again but those seats and service in first class are damn good.

 

[Curiouscpl14]

I’ve never once imagined anyone but my hubs while having sex with my husband, and hubs and my sex is the BEST sex I’ve honestly ever had hands down. We choose this lifestyle as an extra thing we can grow together doing and experience together and honestly hubs was the only one to ever get me to venture out of the vanilla part of my life I never knew all the things that I could like until we slowly learned together now we know our likes/dislikes/preferences and it’s just us growing even more —Wifeyy

 

[Anthony0542]

Curious, that is great. That has always been my biggest fear for people who venture into this lifestyle....would the lifestyle destroy the wive’s approach and how she has sex with her husband. Could the wife be present and fully into sex with your husband or would she be thinking about the hotness of the lifestyle. That’s what it’s all about and I’m glad you guys have that.

Do you have any precautions or rules that help you through the lifestyle?

 

[Curiouscpl14]

Curious, that is great. That has always been my biggest fear for people who venture into this lifestyle....would the lifestyle destroy the wive’s approach and how she has sex with her husband. Could the wife be present and fully into sex with your husband or would she be thinking about the hotness of the lifestyle. That’s what it’s all about and I’m glad you guys have that.

Do you have any precautions or rules that help you through the lifestyle?

We started with a no kissing rule but honestly after you realize that it’s about *you and wife and incorporating a separate fun for you both to enjoy (maybe watching my hubs says he wants to enjoy seeing me orgasm and he was the same way at first but just venture out together in everything some people do things separately we don’t and probably won’t for us personally but I think that all comes later once you let that ball go rolling and see where it leads you guys as a couple ?

 

[Anthony0542]

Yeah girl, I feel you. Glad y’all have been able to get it done.

Football8532, what does your girl think about this? What are you trying to get out of doing this?

I think if you BOTH (has to be both of y’all) are able to care more about each other than the lifestyle and care about how each other feels and don’t hold grudges if one person isn't feeling it, I think you will be ok

 

[Anthony0542]

Also I think I think couples who are able to handle this; the wives PRAISE THEIR HUSBANDS 10x more than they praise the bull and the lifestyle. I think the wife has to make their husband feel like the fucking man and be genuine about it.

Even if you play the submissive cuck role, when the wife overpraises the husband and expects the bull to respect the husband - I think it can work really well.

There are some wives out here that would cut you if you have one negative thing to say to their husband.

 

[slinky1]

We started with a no kissing rule but honestly after you realize that it’s about *you and wife and incorporating a separate fun for you both to enjoy (maybe watching my hubs says he wants to enjoy seeing me orgasm and he was the same way at first but just venture out together in everything some people do things separately we don’t and probably won’t for us personally but I think that all comes later once you let that ball go rolling and see where it leads you guys as a couple ?

When we started talking about this lifestyle 13 years ago, we set up boundaries to avoid the chances of it becoming more than the sex, which for me ended a marriage and an engagement for me, so didn't want to go down that road again. So we decided to keep the social side of her and a lover to a minimum, no lunches, galleries, shopping etc. like my ex's did with lovers...that was a big mistake at my end.

But we also decided, we need something left to share that is just for us, so we agreed, she wouldn't have anal sex with any other man aside from myself. Sounds a little silly, I know, but to know I still have that special thing just for me makes a big difference for us, its how we reconnect and how we 'make love' as a couple. It doesn't happen often, but its nice knowing its off limits to other men

 

[Anthony0542]

When we started talking about this lifestyle 13 years ago, we set up boundaries to avoid the chances of it becoming more than the sex, which for me ended a marriage and an engagement for me, so didn't want to go down that road again. So we decided to keep the social side of her and a lover to a minimum, no lunches, galleries, shopping etc. like my ex's did with lovers...that was a big mistake at my end.

But we also decided, we need something left to share that is just for us, so we agreed, she wouldn't have anal sex with any other man aside from myself. Sounds a little silly, I know, but to know I still have that special thing just for me makes a big difference for us, its how we reconnect and how we 'make love' as a couple. It doesn't happen often, but its nice knowing its off limits to other men

No doubt Slink......my thing is I don’t advocate juggling with fire although it’s exciting but if you do, we should be wise to take advice on how to do it.
It’s been a pleasure hearing how you guys navigate through this.