Afraid of taking the plunge.

[cowboy89845]

My wife and I have been together 15 years. We are both each other’s first and only partner. Our sex life is good. I’m 7 inches and I’ve seen her have shaking orgasms with me but those have become less and less.

I’ve been into IR content since hs. First dabbling here and there and eventually finding myself more and more IR exclusive. I’m to the point now where I imagine my wife with black men or I can feel myself get extra hard when the girl in the video looks like her. I want to bring the idea up to her but I’m terrified about ruining all the good things we already have. The most we’ve talked about it was when her friend told her she has to try a black guy at least once in her life. When I asked her if she ever would, she dismissed it and said no because they are too big and it will hurt too much.

She is definitely built to take a black guy with a great ass and big tits so I’m actually not worried about convincing her. I’m scared of ruining our marriage. Will I be ok with her being with someone else? Will she fall in love with someone else? Will I still be able to have sex with her?Have any husbands regretted taking this step?

Thanks for the advice!

 

[NaughtiaCpl]

I was very nervous about bringing my fantasies up to my wife, but finally did it one night when we were both a bit tipsy and were having some nice foreplay. It’s been over three years since I confessed my interracial fantasies to her and it made our sex life is better than ever. In the past three years, I could probably count on my hands the number of times we’ve had sex without bbc roleplay. Before we started roleplaying I would usually finish first and she would almost never reach orgasm from penetration alone, but now she cums so quickly while talking dirty about bbc.

Nothing turns me on more than we start off with normal sex and after a few minutes she starts talking about black cock and I can instantly feel her get SO much wetter.

Not sure if we’ll ever take the plunge and do it for real, but she said she wouldn’t rule it out and there’s a good chance she might do it a few years down the road. Fingers crossed! Good things come to those who wait, right?

 

[cowboy89845]

I was very nervous about bringing my fantasies up to my wife, but finally did it one night when we were both a bit tipsy and were having some nice foreplay. It’s been over three years since I confessed my interracial fantasies to her and it made our sex life is better than ever. In the past three years, I could probably count on my hands the number of times we’ve had sex without bbc roleplay. Before we started roleplaying I would usually finish first and she would almost never reach orgasm from penetration alone, but now she cums so quickly while talking dirty about bbc.

Nothing turns me on more than we start off with normal sex and after a few minutes she starts talking about black cock and I can instantly feel her get SO much wetter.

Not sure if we’ll ever take the plunge and do it for real, but she said she wouldn’t rule it out and there’s a good chance she might do it a few years down the road. Fingers crossed! Good things come to those who wait, right?

I could see myself taking it this far but what if she doesn’t want to stop at just a fantasy for you two. What if it leads to her cheating on you with her black coworker? Or if she pushes you to find a black lover for her, would you really be able to watch another man love her better than you?

 

[Yumacpl]

early in our marriage we didn't meet until we was in our mid 30s, she is a natural in bed MulitO and a squirter
5'0" 125# natural blond and very pretty as you can see' we started talking about swinging she wanted no part of it at first, but I did talk her into watching porn I could see right off she liked it, then I started showing her Interracial porn, we started swinging, I got on a swinging site, after a few couples which ended up no so great, we started meeting men. also we both are bi having men over was so much better and fun for us.
I was always looking for hot men, she was the one that mentioned a black guy we know that we had done business with, very good looking. so one day I got on the phone and asked him over, for a 3 some, I also told him I was bi. he liked that idea. he also had a big uncut cock about 9"
we both was in heaven never looked back, fun part for me is clean up, she will cum instantly when I go down on her with a pussy full of cum
and I have had several climaxes just watching, the color difference is just amazing, these pics are for real of us

 

[cowboy89845]

early in our marriage we didn't meet until we was in our mid 30s, she is a natural in bed MulitO and a squirter
5'0" 125# natural blond and very pretty as you can see' we started talking about swinging she wanted no part of it at first, but I did talk her into watching porn I could see right off she liked it, then I started showing her Interracial porn, we started swinging, I got on a swinging site, after a few couples which ended up no so great, we started meeting men. also we both are bi having men over was so much better and fun for us.
I was always looking for hot men, she was the one that mentioned a black guy we know that we had done business with, very good looking. so one day I got on the phone and asked him over, for a 3 some, I also told him I was bi. he liked that idea. he also had a big uncut cock about 9"
we both was in heaven never looked back, fun part for me is clean up, she will cum instantly when I go down on her with a pussy full of cum
and I have had several climaxes just watching, the color difference is just amazing, these pics are for real of us

Thanks for sharing Yuma

 

[demalejpo]

My wife and I have been together 15 years. We are both each other’s first and only partner. Our sex life is good. I’m 7 inches and I’ve seen her have shaking orgasms with me but those have become less and less.

I’ve been into IR content since hs. First dabbling here and there and eventually finding myself more and more IR exclusive. I’m to the point now where I imagine my wife with black men or I can feel myself get extra hard when the girl in the video looks like her. I want to bring the idea up to her but I’m terrified about ruining all the good things we already have. The most we’ve talked about it was when her friend told her she has to try a black guy at least once in her life. When I asked her if she ever would, she dismissed it and said no because they are too big and it will hurt too much.

She is definitely built to take a black guy with a great ass and big tits so I’m actually not worried about convincing her. I’m scared of ruining our marriage. Will I be ok with her being with someone else? Will she fall in love with someone else? Will I still be able to have sex with her?Have any husbands regretted taking this step?

Thanks for the advice!

 

[demalejpo]

If I were you I’d let this remain a fantasy. If you have any reservations about watching your wife being pounded by a big black cock you won’t like watching it happen. And she’ll never be satisfied only with you again. Once a cuck, always a cuck.

 

[NaughtiaCpl]

I could see myself taking it this far but what if she doesn’t want to stop at just a fantasy for you two. What if it leads to her cheating on you with her black coworker? Or if she pushes you to find a black lover for her, would you really be able to watch another man love her better than you?

If she ever decides to actually go through with it I’d be happier than a pig in *******! If we did, I’d have absolutely zero worries about her leaving me for another guy. We both communicate well and have a very strong marriage.

 

[cowboy89845]

If I were you I’d let this remain a fantasy. If you have any reservations about watching your wife being pounded by a big black cock you won’t like watching it happen. And she’ll never be satisfied only with you again. Once a cuck, always a cuck.

This makes a lot of sense. Putting myself in her shoes, once I’ve had something better I’m going to want it again. There’ll be no stopping her desire to keep experiencing more black cock stretching her out. I don’t think I’m man enough to live the rest of my life like that but I feel bad to deprive her of such pleasure.

 

[Cuckparati]

If I were you I’d let this remain a fantasy. If you have any reservations about watching your wife being pounded by a big black cock you won’t like watching it happen. And she’ll never be satisfied only with you again. Once a cuck, always a cuck.

Definitely agree with this advice.
Of you're having any (big or small) hesitation, reservations mentally, you better slow it down and make sure it's something that you truly want. Take some time to listen to pod casts, look at videos, not just p0rn. Study yourself, if it's just a fantasy, or you truly feel as if this is where and how you belong in your marriage. Once all doubt is gone, and you're well educated in it. Then talk to your wife. After all there should be open communication in a solid marriage. That's a foundation piece that a real marriage is built on, among a few others. If it's just a fantasy, just reassure her that that's exactly it. Fantasy. It's just showing her your playful side.
If she shows real interest then let the proper steps and speed take place, thats what will be important.

Of course this is just my suggestions and opinions.
Hope something works out for your or yalls journey!

 

[cowboy89845]

Definitely agree with this advice.
Of you're having any (big or small) hesitation, reservations mentally, you better slow it down and make sure it's something that you truly want. Take some time to listen to pod casts, look at videos, not just p0rn. Study yourself, if it's just a fantasy, or you truly feel as if this is where and how you belong in your marriage. Once all doubt is gone, and you're well educated in it. Then talk to your wife. After all there should be open communication in a solid marriage. That's a foundation piece that a real marriage is built on, among a few others. If it's just a fantasy, just reassure her that that's exactly it. Fantasy. It's just showing her your playful side.
If she shows real interest then let the proper steps and speed take place, thats what will be important.

Of course this is just my suggestions and opinions.
Hope something works out for your or yalls journey!

Great advice! I appreciate you providing it.

 

[M&GMWCVA]

I was very nervous about bringing my fantasies up to my wife, but finally did it one night when we were both a bit tipsy and were having some nice foreplay. It’s been over three years since I confessed my interracial fantasies to her and it made our sex life is better than ever. In the past three years, I could probably count on my hands the number of times we’ve had sex without bbc roleplay. Before we started roleplaying I would usually finish first and she would almost never reach orgasm from penetration alone, but now she cums so quickly while talking dirty about bbc.

Nothing turns me on more than we start off with normal sex and after a few minutes she starts talking about black cock and I can instantly feel her get SO much wetter.

Not sure if we’ll ever take the plunge and do it for real, but she said she wouldn’t rule it out and there’s a good chance she might do it a few years down the road. Fingers crossed! Good things come to those who wait, right?

Same situation exactly.

 

[bbclovinwife]

I guarantee you won’t regret it if you fantasize about it quite often I know I didn’t but my wife got cold feet when the BBC was in the room so I undressed her and began eating her out as I asked to put it in while I continued that moment literally changed my life for the better

 

[cowboy89845]

Wow. And what an amazing ass she has. I’m glad things turned out for the best because it would be a shame for an ass like that to not be please by a hung black stud

 

[Shecuckedme]

I was very nervous about bringing my fantasies up to my wife, but finally did it one night when we were both a bit tipsy and were having some nice foreplay. It’s been over three years since I confessed my interracial fantasies to her and it made our sex life is better than ever. In the past three years, I could probably count on my hands the number of times we’ve had sex without bbc roleplay. Before we started roleplaying I would usually finish first and she would almost never reach orgasm from penetration alone, but now she cums so quickly while talking dirty about bbc.

Nothing turns me on more than we start off with normal sex and after a few minutes she starts talking about black cock and I can instantly feel her get SO much wetter.

Not sure if we’ll ever take the plunge and do it for real, but she said she wouldn’t rule it out and there’s a good chance she might do it a few years down the road. Fingers crossed! Good things come to those who wait, right?

That sounds so much like my wife and I!

 

[dickhurtz472]

early in our marriage we didn't meet until we was in our mid 30s, she is a natural in bed MulitO and a squirter
5'0" 125# natural blond and very pretty as you can see' we started talking about swinging she wanted no part of it at first, but I did talk her into watching porn I could see right off she liked it, then I started showing her Interracial porn, we started swinging, I got on a swinging site, after a few couples which ended up no so great, we started meeting men. also we both are bi having men over was so much better and fun for us.
I was always looking for hot men, she was the one that mentioned a black guy we know that we had done business with, very good looking. so one day I got on the phone and asked him over, for a 3 some, I also told him I was bi. he liked that idea. he also had a big uncut cock about 9"
we both was in heaven never looked back, fun part for me is clean up, she will cum instantly when I go down on her with a pussy full of cum
and I have had several climaxes just watching, the color difference is just amazing, these pics are for real of us

i commented on one of her pictures in another thread. said she was the typical innocent looking hotwife. lucky you.

 

[down boy]

I could see myself taking it this far but what if she doesn’t want to stop at just a fantasy for you two. What if it leads to her cheating on you with her black coworker? Or if she pushes you to find a black lover for her, would you really be able to watch another man love her better than you?

I accepted the fact that I could never sexually satisfy my wife, she was bbc only her whole life. My wife dominated me the whole time that we were married. She enjoyed complete sexual freedom our whole marriage. She found a handsome strong black man that she fell deeply in love with , we lived together for a little over a year. They were a loving couple and I was their slave/servant. Then they decided that they didn’t want me involved with them anymore , they found a sub young white girl and she took my place. I was hurt and confused for a while . Then I ran into a black man that had fucked my wife a few years ago and well we knew each other and to make a long story short I’m owned by a black Master in a 24/7 TPE relationship and I couldn’t be more satisfied. I’m very happy ,he is a well endowed strong very strict Master who demands complete obedience from me and he believes in corporal punishment. When he disciplines me he has a no mercy approach. I really need him I kiss his feet each morning and thank him for all he has done for me I’m proud to wear his collar I love and worship him he’s my black king.

 

[larry winn]

I was very nervous about bringing my fantasies up to my wife, but finally did it one night when we were both a bit tipsy and were having some nice foreplay. It’s been over three years since I confessed my interracial fantasies to her and it made our sex life is better than ever. In the past three years, I could probably count on my hands the number of times we’ve had sex without bbc roleplay. Before we started roleplaying I would usually finish first and she would almost never reach orgasm from penetration alone, but now she cums so quickly while talking dirty about bbc.

Nothing turns me on more than we start off with normal sex and after a few minutes she starts talking about black cock and I can instantly feel her get SO much wetter.

Not sure if we’ll ever take the plunge and do it for real, but she said she wouldn’t rule it out and there’s a good chance she might do it a few years down the road. Fingers crossed! Good things come to those who wait, right?

Same with us , only after extreamly hot and wet sex from her squrting with us talking about BBC she says it will never in real life . Sadly .

 

[larry winn]

If she ever decides to actually go through with it I’d be happier than a pig in *******! If we did, I’d have absolutely zero worries about her leaving me for another guy. We both communicate well and have a very strong marriage.

Same

 

[eagertowatch]

I was very nervous about bringing my fantasies up to my wife, but finally did it one night when we were both a bit tipsy and were having some nice foreplay. It’s been over three years since I confessed my interracial fantasies to her and it made our sex life is better than ever. In the past three years, I could probably count on my hands the number of times we’ve had sex without bbc roleplay. Before we started roleplaying I would usually finish first and she would almost never reach orgasm from penetration alone, but now she cums so quickly while talking dirty about bbc.

Nothing turns me on more than we start off with normal sex and after a few minutes she starts talking about black cock and I can instantly feel her get SO much wetter.

Not sure if we’ll ever take the plunge and do it for real, but she said she wouldn’t rule it out and there’s a good chance she might do it a few years down the road. Fingers crossed! Good things come to those who wait, right?

WOW....
That's SOOOOOO much like our situation...love to chat privately sometime...
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