Fantasy vs Reality

[Charles Hardwood]

I was having a conversation with a female friend and the subject of fantasies came up. She's not to familiar with lifestyle groups and I was curious to what she imagined was a good time.
I ask her "what is your fantasy?"
And she told me that she would like to be made love to by four men. She described the idea of each other them taking turns romantically rubbing her body, caressing her hair, while one at a time they take turns fucking her.
I asked " do you think you would be able to handle sucking and fucking four guys?". She answered" no I wouldn't blow any of them, they would just sensually massage my body and wait their turn". She then proceeded to describe a scenario with rose petals and one of the men whispering romantic compliments to her.
I immediately started laughing so she asked "what?!".
I explained to her how her fantasy seemed more like something out of a PG 13 rated love scene and that four guys aren't going to make love to one woman. Everything she described unrealistic and was completely self centered. I explained "it wouldn't be being made love to by four guys...it would be a gangbang and they don't happen with roses and rainbows". I wasn't trying to be ******* but I think some people have ideas and fantasies that are based on what they see acted out in porn instead of reality.

 

[avaadore]

It's called fantasy for a reason, I have a ton of extreme fantasies that I think about but would never want to bring into reality.

 

[Charles Hardwood]

I agree, while I didn't describe every part of the conversation she was referring to this as something she wanted to act on.

It's called fantasy for a reason, I have a ton of extreme fantasies that I think about but would never want to bring into reality.

 

[avaadore]

I agree, while I didn't describe every part of the conversation she was referring to this as something she wanted to act on.

Well then that's just wildly unrealistic lol

 

[artgirl]

If i were her i would find another boyfriend. You ask her fantasy then laugh when it doesn't match yours. I've pulled trains, gang bangs , stags and bachelor parties. You don't know *******. I've had rough and also very tender multiple men sessions. Many men involved in the one at a time or even the group thing are not rough at all. It in fact at times it is like having several men making love at once. No rose pedals but i did get seven dozen roses at a valentine stag. one dozen from each male who attended. Your description of a group thing seems like that of a cheap porno tape. The sex depends on the men involved. Some hop on pump a few times cum and go away. Others kiss fondle, finger and fuck. In my youth sucking cock was not as popular as it is today. I did more than one party where i never sucked a cock.
Her description does seem pg rated to you because you watch the made for guys gang bang tapes XXX. Scripted to cater to the male fantasy usually the female being used in some way often implied against her will. *******, *******, restrained. In reality group sex encounters are sometimes similar to what she described, without the rose petals of course.
As for fantasy of course it's different from reality, if it were the same it would not be fantasy. Kind of like wishing for what you have, what would be the point of that.

 

[AstaSilva]

 

[Joe T]

It's called fantasy for a reason, I have a ton of extreme fantasies that I think about but would never want to bring into reality.

Oh god share those!! I’d love to hear. DM me.

 

[avaadore]

Oh god share those!! I’d love to hear. DM me.

If you have to ask someone to DM you because you can't access their DMs, it's probably safe to assume there's a reason for that..

 

[Joe T]

If you have to ask someone to DM you because you can't access their DMs, it's probably safe to assume there's a reason for that..

Thanks. I often ask even when I can access someones DMs to be polite. I see now yours are not available. I should have picked up on that. Sorry.

 

[NerdyByrd]

I was having a conversation with a female friend and the subject of fantasies came up. She's not to familiar with lifestyle groups and I was curious to what she imagined was a good time.
I ask her "what is your fantasy?"
And she told me that she would like to be made love to by four men. She described the idea of each other them taking turns romantically rubbing her body, caressing her hair, while one at a time they take turns fucking her.
I asked " do you think you would be able to handle sucking and fucking four guys?". She answered" no I wouldn't blow any of them, they would just sensually massage my body and wait their turn". She then proceeded to describe a scenario with rose petals and one of the men whispering romantic compliments to her.
I immediately started laughing so she asked "what?!".
I explained to her how her fantasy seemed more like something out of a PG 13 rated love scene and that four guys aren't going to make love to one woman. Everything she described unrealistic and was completely self centered. I explained "it wouldn't be being made love to by four guys...it would be a gangbang and they don't happen with roses and rainbows". I wasn't trying to be ******* but I think some people have ideas and fantasies that are based on what they see acted out in porn instead of reality.

You did ask her what her fantasy was. The great thing about fantasies is they do not have to be realistic and can be self-centered. If she wants four men rubbing her down in a bed of rose petals then good for her.

 

[Joe T]

You did ask her what her fantasy was. The great thing about fantasies is they do not have to be realistic and can be self-centered. If she wants four men rubbing her down in a bed of rose petals then good for her.

That’s the beauty of a fantasy. That is its essence.

 

[Jdingo619]

White girl fantasy!

Why is she fantasizing about a black man while lying next to her man?
Who started out fantasizing this way before they experienced bbc?

 

[blackandkinky]

yeah...that's definitely a fantasy! Sounds likes she's read a bit too much erotica and YA fanfic. But...everybody needs a dream I guess.

 

[MrsK8tie]

I was having a conversation with a female friend and the subject of fantasies came up. She's not to familiar with lifestyle groups and I was curious to what she imagined was a good time.
I ask her "what is your fantasy?"
And she told me that she would like to be made love to by four men. She described the idea of each other them taking turns romantically rubbing her body, caressing her hair, while one at a time they take turns fucking her.
I asked " do you think you would be able to handle sucking and fucking four guys?". She answered" no I wouldn't blow any of them, they would just sensually massage my body and wait their turn". She then proceeded to describe a scenario with rose petals and one of the men whispering romantic compliments to her.
I immediately started laughing so she asked "what?!".
I explained to her how her fantasy seemed more like something out of a PG 13 rated love scene and that four guys aren't going to make love to one woman. Everything she described unrealistic and was completely self centered. I explained "it wouldn't be being made love to by four guys...it would be a gangbang and they don't happen with roses and rainbows". I wasn't trying to be ******* but I think some people have ideas and fantasies that are based on what they see acted out in porn instead of reality.

You might need to refresh you memory of what fantasy means. You asked this woman to tell you her fantasy and fantasies do not have to make sense and can be as self centered as the dreamer wishes. I say good for her for having a great imagination and wanting the men of her dreams to worship her.