Ever been stood up for a meet
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I have had it happen a lot. A number of them have flaked off this sight....off every site. Had one flake in Tampa after chatting all the way up until an hour before we were suppose to meet....smh my only regret was I put off another bull to meet that one. I know it has nothing to do with me.....people just don't have any integrity anymore. I say I will meet you, I'm there.
Yeah no he’s not getting a third lol. We prefer to do our meets in Greenville SC. We live like an hour from there
Definitely!!!!!
Man this sucks
But it also serves as a WARNING for the rest of us, especially when it comes to traveling to meet someone.
Been stood up the last 2 times by different bulls with no explanation & no contact since, very flaky! Has us wondering about anyone from this site?
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I won’t stand you up!
Got stood up by a couple but i blame this 100% on the guy. So the guy contacted me on Twitter wanting to setup a massage for his wife. By the amount of people i had on my book i was only going to drive up to Oklahoma City on Saturday but since the guy scheduled a long time for his wife that i would come up a day early.
I left work early and drove 219 miles up to Oklahoma City and got all setup and it was about 30 minutes before they said they were going to be there. 7:59pm this dude sends me a message that said "She doesn't want to do it she said not her thing" or something.
I've been doing this for 9 years and it's not that it's not her thing it's that dude didn't even tell her about it. That's one thing i hate about talking to husband's/boyfriends they wanna hide or surprise their girlfriend/wife with something and not tell her.
I don't do that stuff anyone it's the most simple thing ever and a really good ice breaker for new couples but yeah i was pissed off i could have stayed in Dallas. Lucky i had a friend that really wanted to come see me that night.
I left work early and drove 219 miles up to Oklahoma City and got all setup and it was about 30 minutes before they said they were going to be there. 7:59pm this dude sends me a message that said "She doesn't want to do it she said not her thing" or something.
I've been doing this for 9 years and it's not that it's not her thing it's that dude didn't even tell her about it. That's one thing i hate about talking to husband's/boyfriends they wanna hide or surprise their girlfriend/wife with something and not tell her.
I don't do that stuff anyone it's the most simple thing ever and a really good ice breaker for new couples but yeah i was pissed off i could have stayed in Dallas. Lucky i had a friend that really wanted to come see me that night.
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Your first mistake was meeting someone from Twitter. Sorry to hear that bro. It happens to the best of us. Use this as a learning experience. I personally use legit swinger sites like https://www.swinglifestyle.com/profile/memberprofile.cfm?var=0000000000000006, it’s free to join .
I am sure she is the one who missed out on a great fuck session
What's up man. It's her loss. I know that's how I feel about this cute little five foot Dominican Mami in the pic. She got super sexual with me right away. Talked about how she wanted me to c.h.o.k.e. her while I fuck her brains out. Wasn't sure if she'd be able to handle me cause of size...but she wanted to find out. Made all types of arrangements you know all the accoutrements wine music candles... Deep cleaned my apartment. Lol. She was supposed to stay the whole weekend. It would have been our third date. She lived in another borough so it was a bit of a travelling. Got to her place and just got flaked on... Know a member of her family was badly injured in the Dominican Republic a week prior. However it was just total silence after she confirmed I was to pick her up that night. Fucked up my whole weekend. It happens right. Just keep on keeping on Bro.
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I call them wannabees . . it happens man.
I just post my content on Twitter. I've only had one real contact from there everyone else was messing around but i figured there are so many content creators on there that post and would want to meet. Quickly found out it's just for likes
We’ve been stood up several times. With ******* and busy work lives, it’s a big let down when our time is wasted. We either find males on swinger sites or at clubs. We only look for paid members who have certifications. We haven’t gone on solo dates in a while. It’s hard to make that connection over dinner. More often lately, we’ve gone to a local swingers/sex club when they allow single males. We advertise we will be there to any males we’ve been chatting with. It offers a more flirty atmosphere, options for some dancing, and a chance to take them back immediately for play. If it doesn’t work out w them, we can look for other options there. If play was fun, we move towards playing outside the club and making longer term friends.
I've had the pleasure of being blacked twice already & we had been chatting with a black guy since before covid & then finally arrangements were made for a play date a few months back, we rented a hotel at a regular hotel for my past blacking, sent him the hotel name & address on the pre-planned date & time he never showed up & never replied to our texts. This was very discouraging for me & shattered my confidence, it's taken my husband's encouragements 3 months for me to get to the point I'm willing to take another chance so this next guy better not be flaky!
Why yes, has happened to us about 5 times over the first few years. But hasn't much the past couple. We would be waiting and then all contact would stop. It's very frustrating. Most when we used craigslist, not so much as doublelist.com. I've learned to have backups also ready. Seems to work. 
Sorry you had to experience this Cathy but I’d love to meet a share laughter over cocktails. The fun we could haveUnfortunately several times over the years. Also, some that actually show up are not who they say I.e white saying they were black, *******, muuuch older, younger. You learn as you go
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