This is some Larry David kind of neuroticism right here. As if any man would turn down a 10 because she had the “wrong” labia.
I used to be self conscious about my labia because I have some decent sized “meat curtains” and from what I had seen in nude magazines and in porn videos growing up they were not like those women’s. Thankfully I met my husband who enlightened me to the fact that large labia are actually more desirable to men that actually understand and appreciate women (which are the best kind if men). I think it’s fine to prefer smaller labia but to be disgusted by larger labia means there’s a wire crossed somewhere. Perhaps being ******* fed roast beef for every meal as a baby or some other relational programming occurred to cause such an uncommon reaction. Maybe watching too much hentai led to unrealistic expectations as to what a vagina should look like? I’m sure there are many factors involved.
Comparing women having preference on cock size to men judging a vagina’s appearance is also a false equivalency. The size of the penis affects the functional experience to be had by the woman. A woman’s labia majora won’t alter the overall function, sensation, and experience for a man. If we close our eyes we can feel the difference between a small cock and a large one. Can men close their eyes and tell the difference between a vagina with large labia or small labia? Maybe that’s not the best argument since I know from my husband and many other partners that have said vaginas with large labia do actually feel ever so slightly better on their cocks. I think that probably more just a visual stimuli thing though since they can look down and see the grip.
I can definitely see where a clit so large that it looks like a micro penis would be disturbing to most men. It’s disturbing to me too! But again, I don’t think that if a supermodel took off her clothes to reveal a super size clit that it would stop any man from wanting to have his way with her. Maybe we’ve accidentally stumbled upon the concept for the next great reality TV series?!