Do your Husband’s/BF’s change for the best when they don’t cum?

Found this from a urologist
'At the end of the day, it should be noted that every man is different. Everybody is different and each individual will have different tolerances for the length as to this kind of activity, so it is very difficult to ascertain any particular kind of medical standard.'
http://malechastity.com.au/long-term-orgasm-denial.html
I'd just like to read one because I'd read there was no evidence that denying orgasm was harmful.
Well he does say there, further below i.e. in regards to chastity devices: 'Even if they did work effectively, there are dangers in the long term prevention of ejaculation.'
 
Well he does say there, further below i.e. in regards to chastity devices: 'Even if they did work effectively, there are dangers in the long term prevention of ejaculation.'
I guess it comes down to what you regard as long term. For me it is weeks. For others it is months!
 
This certainly isn't the case for me. I can go 2 weeks easily and my sex drive only increases, as does my obedience and desire to please my wife. It creates an immense energy, almost like continuous sexual energy between you. When your body needs to expel it will, naturally, and there isn't anything you can do about it :D
Exactly my experience. I just get more and more horny, until it gets to the point where I'm begging just to be able to lick her arse! We love it. She denies me for weeks then smiles gleefully as she slides down his thick black shaft.
 
We have gone up to two weeks. He definitely becomes more attentive and compliant, and tends to cling to me more, both physically and emotionally. However, he has had some spontaneous release of semen after about 10 days without an ejaculation.
 
When we were watching IR porn, husband would ejaculate almost without using hands. We were then considering options on how to prevent him to cum so easily and he then started using a cock cage, first only when we were watching porn. Later, he's also being using the cage during my encounters with black men where he was allowed to watch and, recently, participate in an assistant capacity. Only last week, he wore the cage for 5 days consecutively, not without problems.

I feel, and told him too, he is more focused on his work and on my needs. We are looking at changing his cage to avoid physical problems. He would wear his cage permanently and I would only remove it for having sex with me and when I see fit.
Hey, thanks for the reply!

But why the cage! From our side we see it as, I (BF), is being denied to cum regardless if I have a cage on or not and giving more attention to my GF.

What difference would the cage do here? Isn’t that only for humiliation!
 
What difference would the cage do here? Isn’t that only for humiliation!
I would never expose my husband to humiliation. The only one who has seen him in his cage was one of the bulls and because he dropped his pants. He agrees to use the cage for his good and a genuine purpose: to avoid masturbation and restrict sex to the times convenient to both. Although he has still to look at a better cage, sex is more intensive now the longer he's caged and more passionate. Socially, he is the same lovely husband, perhaps a little more understanding of the female wishes.
 
We started off with me being the one pushing the orgasm denial thing and her being wire generous my releases.
It is a different story now, having only had one orgasm since Christmas and her ruining my occasional releases - she is determined to ration my orgasms to one a year now and she gets orgasms every morning and every evening, from my tongue.
She drives me crazy with lust and I love her for it.
Cheers
 
Well, my girlfriend tried it once, to get me more attentive I think.
It Is now my ex-girlfriend......
I warned her if she denies me longer, I would leave. She thought I was desperately begging, she was wrong.
So it does not work with every man.
Wow, a tough guy. Respect.
 
Well, my girlfriend tried it once, to get me more attentive I think.
It Is now my ex-girlfriend......
I warned her if she denies me longer, I would leave. She thought I was desperately begging, she was wrong.
So it does not work with every man.

i agree. Everyone has their own desires in this. Some crave humiliation, some crave denial. For me, personally, I enjoy masturbating too much. I mean, I could see cutting orgasms back to once a week, or twice a week, but I don't have any urge to wear a cage or similar. Any humiliation I'd be interested in would be mild, and denial only from having penetrative sex with a lady.
 
Ive been locked in chastity 2 yrs now and my wife woundnt have it any other way, i do get to cum every cpl months but most times she uses a vibrator on the cage. She says in way more attentive like this and i do agree with her
 
I'm denied and am constantly horny. I love being horny and my partner does, so it is a no-brainer.
Plus, when I do get to cum it is incredible! :)
 
My wife and I practice Karezza all the time. I can categorically confirm that refraining from orgasming myself drives me absolutely wild for my wife. I become 10 times more attentive, obedient, worshipful, loving, caring and pleaseing. She gets to orgasm all she wants. I hold off for anything between 7 days and 14 days.

I recommend everyone tries it...


That sounds like a great idea while loving caring pleasing toward your wife. I love it. Will try with hubby. :lips:
 
I have never been caged but we have done voluntarily chastity. Usually i masturbate everyday sometimes multiple times and have sex once in a blue moon. That has gotten rarer over time. But my wife asked me to try to refrain from masturbation and sex a few times. We were both curious what it would do. Not sure if it would make a difference or if I could really voluntarily hold out but I tried. The first few days were tough but it got a little easier after that. If I don’t start jerking off, I can hold off and avoid the urges. After about 2 weeks I was extremely horny. I was begging for release. My wife allowed me to fuck her. Let’s just say I barely made it inside her, I came within seconds of penatration, usually I could hold out s little bit. We have repeated this a ton of times holding off anywhere between 2-6 weeks. My libido goes through the roof, I want to fuck everything that moves. Even girls I see in the supermarket who aren’t very attractive set me off and make me horny. It’s crazy, after a few weeks sex starts to consume my thoughts. I need release so bad after a few weeks I’m ready to fuck anything that moves. I become much more submissive and attentive to my wife, and will literally do anything and I mean anything she says in hopes she will provide me with release. Ladies, if you really want control and attention this is the way to it. I can’t imagine being locked up in chastity for longer periods of time. My god, it would be unbearable. I would be putty in my wife or another girl’s hand doing whatever they say. Only downside I can see for me is like I say, it makes me cum very very prematurely. I am so worked up my cock becomes extremely sensitive to any touch of a hand, a pussy, mouth, etc. And I will say when I do cum, it’s way way more intense Holding out like that. The amount of semen that comes out is unbelievable. If you haven’t done this and are in a habit of cumming everyday, I would highly highly recommend holding out or trying chasity with your girl
 
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And here I am trying to get to the point where I am having to beg my wife to allow me to orgasm :)
Well, everyone has his/her own kink
I do not like to be denied. I think I give my girlfriend enough attention, if she feels she doesn't, then she can leave at anytime, no problem. The same goes for my wife by the way.
But like I said, if you like to be denied, then why not, if it gives you pleasure...
 
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