Do you prefer masturbating over sex?

[slinky1]

"most cucks are broken or damaged goods in some way emotionally, "

I wouldn't say that. Some are. Some aren't.

True, like most of society, some are, some aren't. But most i've spoken to over the years, have a string of reasons, events that happened to them in their youth/ early adulthood that have led them to here. That not make them entirely 'broken' but most I know, including myself have more issues psychosexually than the general public i'd say. I have watched my wife and ex's have their brains fucked out in front of me, and I can't masturbate hard enough while watching them, yet even as good as it feels for me, I still know, what i'm doing isn't normal at an evolutionary level and not how you set out to pass on your own genes. Its biological suicide, and why pussy and fucking is meant to feel great, but a cuck is happier to watch another male attempt to fertilise his wife, while his wasted sperm dies while cupped in his other hand. Not a great way to pass on your family lineage.

 

[syscom3]

I have always felt it as a way to see my "other" in a purely sexual way. And with a black guy, it was like a taboo barrier was being broken.

 

[flsubboy4u]

What’s so fucked up about this is women don’t want a feminized man. When push comes the shove they gravitate to masculinity. Now we’ve fucked up what a real man is supposed to look like...there are a lot of false ideas of masculinity and we need to get it right but pushing a feminine man ain't the answer.

I agree that most women do not want a fairy little feminized guy. However, it is the feminists nazis that want the male in this country to be a pussy.
Then, they can actually compensate in their minds for not having a cock. Power is what makes the world go round and if a woman is a man inside, she wants that power that only a cock can provide. If men have no cock, it's really no problem then. So, pussification is very important to feminist nazi bitches.

 

[WillandSusn]

Y’all have got to help me with this. I was at Chick Fil A reading and I just saw three couples were the wives were like grilling the husband on some parenting stuff and I’m like, “how do cucks deal with this and have another man fuck their wife”

Essentially, how do deal with all the bullshit and then give up the dessert to someone else. She gives you ******* and gives bull praise and he hasn’t done *******, really.

How do y’all do that?

I wanted to walk up to this dude and give him the “Dial a Bull” option - he would have taken it at that point.

. Its called. Tune out. Husbands learn this skill very early. Women talk and talk and talk. So you just let them. Better that way.

 

[Anthony0542]

My man at Chick Fil A was definitely turned out. I actually went to get a refill just so I could see if he was conscious.....he was, but he had a glazed look on his face. Definitely tuned out. My girl just kept talking, asking him questions, and just making the same point.

I wanted to ask dude, “yo, you want a Dial a Bull, so she can shut up”........

 

[syscom3]

My man at Chick Fil A was definitely turned out. I actually went to get a refill just so I could see if he was conscious.....he was, but he had a glazed look on his face. Definitely tuned out. My girl just kept talking, asking him questions, and just making the same point.

I wanted to ask dude, “yo, you want a Dial a Bull, so she can shut up”........

Youre still at chick fil a?

 

[Anthony0542]

No, I was just reminiscing on how this man took at straight beating, verbally. He got crushed. But Will let me know -he had the tune out strategy working.

reminded me of this commercial

 

[Interracial6]

Yes and also the “grass eaters”. I think Japan is at the leading edge on how societies are evolving in the internet porn and feminist/progressive era.

There's lots of BBC/Japanese woman JAV porn in DMM and others like it (I am not spamming DMM BTW) And pixelation is getting less common, too.
But as far as BBC porn actors in Japan, of the hundreds or thousands of BBC/Japanese woman videos and movies I watched, I have seen a total of how many, 10 BBC Bulls?
This man is everywhere in JAV BBC Interracial porn, plus the handful of others:

There are amateur clips too, but they are hard to find

The sad thing slowing the spread of IR in Japan is (1), a real paucity of Black Men there, be they African or American, even in the big cities, and (2) Japanese society's conservative character.


So yeah, like the rest of the world even Japan is in the Hip Hop/Black gangsta type of mindset in popular culture and values, especially among Millennials, but the number of close minded conservative older people is over-represented, percentage-wise, and too few babies are being born right now to learn how Hot this Interracial thing is.

Just as sad is that Japan is as patriarchal as a society gets. I would get off if it could have a strong woman PM like Angela Merkel, but sadly that's too slow in coming.

 

[Bellaazz]

I get so intimidated over sex that I get scared and go limp and cum quickly and can't perform.

In a way I feel like I'm not good enough. There are men, especially black men that are better endowed and better pleasing women than me so it feels like I don't belong there when there's someone better. I gey scared doing it because I feel like it's not my place.

Just like how men aren't good at sports and avoid playing them but still watch sports, I feel like I'm just not good at sex but would rather watch men who are good at it and cheer them on. It feels like sex is for certain people who can perform but not for everyone that can't and I've accepted that I'm inferior to women compared to black men.

SHort answer: YES

 

[BILL FASSEL]

Y’all have got to help me with this. I was at Chick Fil A reading and I just saw three couples were the wives were like grilling the husband on some parenting stuff and I’m like, “how do cucks deal with this and have another man fuck their wife”

Essentially, how do deal with all the bullshit and then give up the dessert to someone else. She gives you ******* and gives bull praise and he hasn’t done *******, really.

How do y’all do that?

I wanted to walk up to this dude and give him the “Dial a Bull” option - he would have taken it at that point.

I do not have problems with my wife being satisfied sexually by a "REAL MAN " because I am definitely not a man. My wife realizes that and thus the reason why she is currently feminizing me. I am definitely much happier as a woman than I ever have been as a man. I am positive that this is the reason why I delight in watching my wife with her lover. I especially like this while i'm wearing my pretty panties, bra, dress and heels to further enforce my emasculation. I know that I am definitely not a man and therefore not worthy of having sex in the traditional sense!

 

[Bellaazz]

I do not have problems with my wife being satisfied sexually by a "REAL MAN " because I am definitely not a man. My wife realizes that and thus the reason why she is currently feminizing me. I am definitely much happier as a woman than I ever have been as a man. I am positive that this is the reason why I delight in watching my wife with her lover. I especially like this while i'm wearing my pretty panties, bra, dress and heels to further enforce my emasculation. I know that I am definitely not a man and therefore not worthy of having sex in the traditional sense!

Not judging here but wondering if you are happier as a woman than as a man, and are more comfortable that way, why does your wife stay with you instead of being with a "real man". Is she bi-sexual ?

 

[BILL FASSEL]

Not judging here but wondering if you are happier as a woman than as a man, and are more comfortable that way, why does your wife stay with you instead of being with a "real man". Is she bi-sexual ?

I am hoping that she just plain loves me. Maybe she is bisexual and I am not aware of this.

 

[bad voodoo]

I haven't had sex with my wife for sometime now. But I have no problem whats so ever in masturbating to my wife's photo's and vidoes of her and her lover or when I actually watch them in action. But if I'm with her I can't get it up and will usually cum while soft in no time.

I'm very similar. My wife's response to her lover has created a certain amount of performance anxiety when she wants me right after him. I know I can't compete with what she just experienced and though I am in a heightened state of arousal I simply can't perform. What I wouldn't give to be able to give her what she wants... my cum mixing with her lover's immediately after he has taken her deeper than I ever could.

Shorter: Masturbation and an overly active interracial mind is my alternative.

 

[jet2777]

I still have sex with my gf. Usually lasts about a minute or 2 tops. Especially when she has me wear her panties. I blow immediately sometimes.

 

[Carl C]

I have come to prefer cumming either in my or my wife’s hand than attempting to have intercourse.
There is no stress or embarrassment from being too small or ejaculating too quickly.

 

[spin419]

True, like most of society, some are, some aren't. But most i've spoken to over the years, have a string of reasons, events that happened to them in their youth/ early adulthood that have led them to here. That not make them entirely 'broken' but most I know, including myself have more issues psychosexually than the general public i'd say. I have watched my wife and ex's have their brains fucked out in front of me, and I can't masturbate hard enough while watching them, yet even as good as it feels for me, I still know, what i'm doing isn't normal at an evolutionary level and not how you set out to pass on your own genes. Its biological suicide, and why pussy and fucking is meant to feel great, but a cuck is happier to watch another male attempt to fertilise his wife, while his wasted sperm dies while cupped in his other hand. Not a great way to pass on your family lineage.

I understand the gist of what you're saying, and I do think these desires can be rooted in developmental things, issues and traumas from formative years. but what about men, and there must be many, who have fathered children with their wives, raised a family together and are past that (or well along in it), but come to a place in their 40s/50swhere it occurs to them to try something in the hotwife/cuckold realm? that's certainly not biological suicide. And honestly I would bet there are more folks like that than young people in cuckolding.

 

[slinky1]

I understand the gist of what you're saying, and I do think these desires can be rooted in developmental things, issues and traumas from formative years. but what about men, and there must be many, who have fathered children with their wives, they've raised a family together and are past that or well along in it, but come to a place in their 40s/50swhere it occurs to them to try something in the hotwife/cuckold realm. that's certainly not biological suicide. And honestly I would bet there are more folks like that than young people in cuckolding.

Oh, I think there is no doubt cuckolding/ hotwiving really hits its stride in the couples 40/50's. Like you say, most have got a lot of the baggage of their relationship/ life out of the way, and are then will to expand their desires. I think most try swinging in their 20's or 30's... but cuckolding has a much more power imbalance than swinging, because the hubby gets to fuck nobody apart from his hand, so you have to get past all the jealousy/ frustration/ honesty issues before cuckolding can really work... and I think that usually happens in your 40/ 50's.

In my 20's my ex-wife HATED my small cock, and it was the reason for so many arguements/ sadness/ frustrations for 17 years. She basically hated having sex with me, and rarely did, so not a great way to live in a relationship. 25 years on, my current wife LOVES my tiny cock... not because it satisfies her (it doesn't and we are lucky to fuck 4-6 times a year even with a condom on) but she loves to power/ control/ humiliation/ submission it has on our marriage and that her pussy is treated like the crown jewels when I do get to touch or taste it... plus that i'm locked into a life of permanent monogamy to her is the cherry on to for her

 

[spin419]

Oh, I think there is no doubt cuckolding/ hotwiving really hits its stride in the couples 40/50's. Like you say, most have got a lot of the baggage of their relationship/ life out of the way, and are then will to expand their desires. I think most try swinging in their 20's or 30's... but cuckolding has a much more power imbalance than swinging, because the hubby gets to fuck nobody apart from his hand, so you have to get past all the jealousy/ frustration/ honesty issues before cuckolding can really work... and I think that usually happens in your 40/ 50's.

In my 20's my ex-wife HATED my small cock, and it was the reason for so many arguements/ sadness/ frustrations for 17 years. She basically hated having sex with me, and rarely did, so not a great way to live in a relationship. 25 years on, my current wife LOVES my tiny cock... not because it satisfies her (it doesn't and we are lucky to fuck 4-6 times a year even with a condom on) but she loves to power/ control/ humiliation/ submission it has on our marriage and that her pussy is treated like the crown jewels when I do get to touch or taste it... plus that i'm locked into a life of permanent monogamy to her is the cherry on to for her

Was there communication with your ex? Were those frustrations expressed openly, problems ever addressed? Did you two ever try sharing or cuckolding?

As for your wife today......Do you hold her love and respect outside the bedroom? Do you think a couple can successfully compartmentalize that facet of a relationship, or have a dynamic where the energy derived from their sex life is a positive influence on other parts of their relationship? I can understand every couple is not the same but do you think it's possible? Sex can be such a big deal, but it's not everything, not all we are.
Did you look for a relationship like this? Are YOU happy?

 

[HonkeySub]

I hate getting a blow job. I'm very ticklish and I get ticklish when I get my dick sucked. It feels really weird to me.

 

[j120]

I much prefer my hand and edging to sex.