Do you prefer masturbating over sex?

[HonkeySub]

I get so intimidated over sex that I get scared and go limp and cum quickly and can't perform.

In a way I feel like I'm not good enough. There are men, especially black men that are better endowed and better pleasing women than me so it feels like I don't belong there when there's someone better. I gey scared doing it because I feel like it's not my place.

Just like how men aren't good at sports and avoid playing them but still watch sports, I feel like I'm just not good at sex but would rather watch men who are good at it and cheer them on. It feels like sex is for certain people who can perform but not for everyone that can't and I've accepted that I'm inferior to women compared to black men.

 

[tj loser boy]

Maybe I’m certainly more use to it!

 

[syscom3]

There's actually a sexual orientation called "pornosexual". Almost always a man who does prefer to ******* his chicken than being with a live woman to have sex. The primary cause for it is no desire for an emotional connection during sex. Or no enjoyment or desire for affection. Other causes are social awkwardness or fear of rejection which inhibits meeting woman. In the past, these types of men would visit prostitutes. But now adays that can be risky. Whatever the cause, the easy availability of porn the past 40 years (adult book stores and internet) has created a generation of men who have no desire for a real relationship and sees that polishing their rocket is so much easier, cleaner, safer and less expensive.

The rise of sex bots is going to accelerate this phenomena. The me too movement and feminazi denigration of all men in general is not going to help things either. In Japan, we are seeing this happen in a large population. The rise of the male "herbivores" who have no interest in woman personally, yet enjoy their porn.

 

[syscom3]

Wow, thank for that insight.

It’s a fascinating issue. I would also add that there are some men who unfortunately have such tiny cocks, porn is the only way to have pleasure. And also remember that many woman are not interested in large cocks or sex outside their race. So don’t believe anyone who says it’s because of the sexual power of black men.

We are living in interesting times!

 

[Socksmix8]

I think I'm in this camp. My wife has cut me off for the past 2 years and it's at the point where I legitimately don't remember what it even feels like so I don't crave it anymore

 

[syscom3]

I think I'm in this camp. My wife has cut me off for the past 2 years and it's at the point where I legitimately don't remember what it even feels like so I don't crave it anymore

I think you are a volcel. Voluntary celibate.

 

[pvak74]

For the most part I do. I know i just can’t compete with my wife’s bull. So I usually beat off to porn or am allowed to rub one out while she is being pleasured by her bull. The wife will let me occasionally have her pussy after she’s been with her bbc, but it’s a joke. I get hard and slide into her with no resistance. She has told me she can’t feel me after her bull. Any pussy I get from her is for MY benefit not hers at least that’s what she tells me. I’d rather just beat off it’s easier on both her and me

 

[syscom3]

So you would rather have sex but due to circumstances, you have to stick to porn?

 

[jrdestiny54]

Well, I would certainly rather have sex with my wife, but I've had severe ED for a number of years and cannot get an erection capable of penetrating a woman. Jerking off a soft, small cock to porn is the only way I can cum.

 

[pvak74]

I love the sex especially sloppy seconds but the situation I’m in leads to a lot of masturbation

 

[syscom3]

Well, I would certainly rather have sex with my wife, but I've had severe ED for a number of years and cannot get an erection capable of penetrating a woman. Jerking off a soft, small cock to porn is the only way I can cum.

Well you have a medical issue which is a different circumstance.

 

[BBCAddictCpl]

So you would rather have sex but due to circumstances, you have to stick to porn?

I still enjoy being inside my wife, even more so now that her pussy has more of her bbc dildo in her than my dick. However, the reason that is the case is that despite me being one of the largest men she had ever been with, now that she gets herself off with a toy that is almost twice my size, her orgasms are harder (by her admission) and her horniness more raw. I usually get inside after she's exhausted. On the rare occasion I'm inside her before she's had it, she usually lasts less than 5 minutes before she is begging me to get her toy; last time was probably like 2 minutes.

So because she has better sex with her toy and I like to watch her have her best sex, that just means alot of masturbation and porn for me. Also, I'd rather suck a BBC than try to get another woman's pussy.

 

[syscom3]

Well if you would rather suck a man's dick, maybe you need to go to the gay and bi section where you will find what you want.

 

[slinky1]

Other causes are social awkwardness or fear of rejection which inhibits meeting woman.

I would also add that there are some men who unfortunately have such tiny cocks, porn is the only way to have pleasure.


I'd have to agree with both these, for some men, masturbation was all the sex you would or could have. You do it excessively and you learn all your exact trigger points that work for you. You then spend years and years perfecting your ejaculations as only you can. So sex with a woman is still great if you can get it, but whether its your size, tempo, stamina you now have another person/ factors that 'tinker' with your perfectly timed orgasm.
I think Fleshlights are an amazing product (wish I had one in my youth) but you still get to jerk off as you please, but also get to experience, train yourself for what a pussy will feel like when you get it. Whereas as with your own hand, only you know what and how you like it.

 

[flsubboy4u]

There's actually a sexual orientation called "pornosexual". Almost always a man who does prefer to ******* his chicken than being with a live woman to have sex. The primary cause for it is no desire for an emotional connection during sex. Or no enjoyment or desire for affection. Other causes are social awkwardness or fear of rejection which inhibits meeting woman. In the past, these types of men would visit prostitutes. But now adays that can be risky. Whatever the cause, the easy availability of porn the past 40 years (adult book stores and internet) has created a generation of men who have no desire for a real relationship and sees that polishing their rocket is so much easier, cleaner, safer and less expensive.

The rise of sex bots is going to accelerate this phenomena. The me too movement and feminazi denigration of all men in general is not going to help things either. In Japan, we are seeing this happen in a large population. The rise of the male "herbivores" who have no interest in woman personally, yet enjoy their porn.

Very well explained! This is surely a huge phenomenon, especially with white american males. I would like to hear more about what you think of the pussification of the American male and the feminazi activist male hating bitches who seek to feminize the world.

 

[Goliathc]

My wife could turn any gay man into an hombre. That good is sex with her and I feel great. But I know the feeling of being cucked and that thrill is completely different. It's like madness. The moment I get her blacked in front of me, I'll get the biggest orgasm ever. I know it. Maybe the first sloppy seconds could make it better, but sooner or later, I'd go down the path of masturbation and other things I experienced before.

 

[slinky1]

My wife could turn any gay man into an hombre. That good is sex with her and I feel great. But I know the feeling of being cucked and that thrill is completely different. It's like madness. The moment I get her blacked in front of me, I'll get the biggest orgasm ever. I know it. Maybe the first sloppy seconds could make it better, but sooner or later, I'd go down the path of masturbation and other things I experienced before.

I agree, when you masturbate to watching your wife, its a huge cocktail of sights/ feelings/ emotions/ realisations that hit you as you are ejaculating that just make it impossible to match in any other way. I think thats why cucks become so addicted to wanting or needing it, a rush thats better than the best an addictive white substance money can buy I believe. I have cum so hard watching them I genuinely thought I may have a heart attack my heart was pumping that hard.

 

[syscom3]

Cuckold or not, the point is there seems to be more and more men who prefer masturbation than to having a woman. I believe it's in part due to men no longer giving a fuck about woman in general, with all the hassles and potential legal and civil liabilities. In a way, it mirrors the decline of marriage. Woman are no longer objects worthy of wooing and potentially marrying. It's just not worth it.

And its horrible that the feminazi's are now saying that even to ask a woman out for a date can be construed as an assault. It's like why bother? I'll just masturbate as needed without zero hassle and not worry about rejection. Eventually the guy has jerked off to so much porn, female companionship is not needed or desired. And I also think that a lot more men are discovering there is nothing to be gained by affection or emotional connections because the woman will eventually use it against you.

The MGTOW movement is probably a parallel development along side the pornosexual or solosexual male. Even the volcel movement is aligned with it.

 

[syscom3]

Very well explained! This is surely a huge phenomenon, especially with white american males. I would like to hear more about what you think of the pussification of the American male and the feminazi activist male hating bitches who seek to feminize the world.

There has never been a pussification of the American male. Dont think a small percentage of them that are, that is reflective of the whole population.

 

[PopaScott]

I’d 100% rather masturbate, I cum way too quickly for her to get any type of satisfaction out of it and she’s totally cool with “assisting” me if she’s around, I actually think she likes it too.