Here is a bit of follow up on my earlier post.
My wife has suggested she prefers a vibrator & mentioned the little white pocket one she has is getting pretty old. So I had been looking for a realistic black vibrator that was on the smaller side but still bigger than me. Maybe it's not that surprising but it was a little difficult to find one. I ended up getting this one, about 6-1/2" long and 4-3/4" around & gave it to her a few months ago.
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She had used it a few times after sex when I hadn't gotten her off, but just squeezing it between her legs and rubbing against it until she had a little cum. After going down on her the other night I talked her into trying it out again. My wife gets embarrassed when she uses a vibrator & usually lays on her side facing away from me. I was kissing her neck and could tell she was really getting aroused and was actually penetrating herself with the vibe. I felt her shudder as she experienced an orgasm. I was ready to roll her onto her back for my turn but noticed she was continuing to slowly ride the vibrator. I was extremely turned on after watching her cum on the black vibrator & began stroking my cock as her rhythm picked up. As I watched her give herself a 2nd orgasm with her toy I felt myself shoot even though I was trying not to touch myself & hold out to have sex with her. I was quite surprised because she has never had two intense orgasms like that with me. After she recovered she laid back & asked if I wanted a turn. I sheepishly told her I had already gotten off, let her know how sexy I thought she was, and asked her if she enjoyed herself. She seemed kind of embarrassed & didn't appear to want to talk about it so I just let things kind of drop. Although things have been very slow to develop this has been an encouraging development.