Unfortunately during an ugly divorce process, and people/ friends and family blaming my 'cheating' ex wife for our break up, my ex wife was so frustrated that I was made out to be a victim of a cheating slut of a wife, she went and told friends and family that it was actually me that constantly seeked out the men to fuck her, and that i'd sit there and jerk off while watching them. She also told them about my cock size, and that I was very submissively bi. She aplogised later, but the genie was out of the bottle. There are a lot of old friends I haven't spoken to in over 10 years, and the ones I do have never brought it up. My current wife hates they know that about me, and that they'd assume she fucks other men in front of me as well.