depends on the person saying it.... I don't like just ANYONE talking like that to me, MY BF yes he can say any dirty nasty thing he wants because I know how he feels about me. As for other men NOT into the TRASH talk and disrespect of white women because they are used to the wives of white men who like to be disrespected the same way they disrespect black men! WOMEN who date black men in REAL LIFE not just date their dicks in the dark, don't like to be disrespected by a black man in any way. we already deal with society dissing us, black women dissing us, our race dissing us, etc......the last thing a REAL WOMAN wants is for her man to dis her!!