This is very true.
What I really like is a slow build up, that then changes gear, he becomes more urgent, passionate and dominant.!
He holds me down, making sure I couldn’t move, even if I wanted to(which I don’t). That’s when he starts to talk dirty, telling me that he ‘knows what I want’ etc..
From there as the tension builds, it’s a short step to him calling me names like bitch and slut(which are an incredible turn on for me),
Culminating in an explosive finish where I continue to struggle and he continues to dominate and do what he wants until we both feel the release..
A perfect scene, maybe, a fantasy, definitely, a turn on just writing it, you bet..
Xx