I hope to get some good responses. The question seems reasonable.Can’t wait to read these
Since you were not present, I assume that she told you about it. How did she feel in doing so?
Secret guilt always enhances shame. I see that so much in white women. They have a strong guilt complex, and when they are used in dirty ways, that intensifies their sexual feelings.
It certainly did. And she went back for more the next time and made sure to tell me about it.
Has anyone ever tried to make you do that sort of thing?
Yes. And I am embarrassed to admit that I did it and found myself enjoying it.
Nope
Am glad there was a happy ending. Getting past the shame very often opens doors.
Yes, it does. Often initial guilt and shame must be overcome but then a new lifestyle awaits.
It probably will for both of us. My wife became Black-owned and now wants me to join her. She has warned me that I will be degraded but thinks that I will accept it from a superior and forceful male.
I think my wife would love it, too. She knows I was a closet cocksucking bottom for many years and would enjoy watching me be humiliated.
I gather from your comment that you are leaning toward joining her as a participant in degrading activity.
Many white girlfriends and wives have experienced similar feelings to yours.
You are correct; it is very common among couples who have gone black for the white man to be at the bottom of the pecking order. Often, the more dominant he is outside the lifestyle, the more submissive he becomes with black people.
