Why not him the and make him to serve you and your lovers instead? To me this lifestyle is supposed to be for both of you together. So in my view you should teach your hubby what his true role should be .. try to avoid being adversarial with him and you mainly and your lovers train himWell not in our case I did things his way for a decade. I was his sex slave doing gang sex, 3 ways, lesbian acts with my close friends for his entertainment. I slept with his friends to please him and men I had no interest in. It's my turn now, it's my way or he can simply deal with a divorce. Every woman has her limits where enough is enough, now I will find his lol.