Cuckold Training

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Sana Alam, Jul 1, 2012.

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Is it possible to turn a white man as cuckold by his gf/wife ?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Sana Alam

    Sana Alam Member

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    Hi, Few months ago my bf suggested that I should have sex with a black man, his fantasy. He thought this would be a one time thing but I got hooked. I keep having sex with the black guy and It has been going on for a month now. In the beginning he was supportive, but now he is getting jealous of the fact that I prefer black and do not enjoy sex with him anymore. So he asked me to stop, which I tried but could not for long and went back to black.

    So we had a big fight/argument in which he said that he wants to be part of my sex life. Now he possibly cannot match the physicality and stamina of a black guy and I know that inviting him into sex will only hurt his self-esteem. So a friend of mine from this forum suggested me that I should train him as a cuckold, that is the only way that he will be able to participate. Now my bf is still hesitating but has agreed for now to obey me. So I must turn him into a cuckold. how should I start ? Does anyone have any idea or experience in a thing like that ?
     
  2. Essexhusband

    Essexhusband New Member

    He doesn't know how lucky he is, I've begged my wife to cuck me and she won't, it's a white mans place to do as his wife/gf and bull tell him to however extreme!
     
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  3. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Yes, white boi. How right you are!
     
  4. Tempesto

    Tempesto Active Member

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    I voted no, because I truly think that becoming a cuckold isn't something that is learned/trained. Either he is into it or not, intrinsically.
     
  5. Not a Myth

    Not a Myth Active Member Gold Member

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    If your partner is feeling jealous because you enjoying sex with your black friend and he was the person suggested the whole idea in the first place then he has only himself to blame, he shouldn't have persuade you to do it if he wasn't able to control his jealousy.

    There is a guide to help you and other females who are in a similar situation to yours:

    https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/how-to-gain-your-white-boy’s-acceptance-of-you-going-black-a-guide.1812/
     
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  6. Sana Alam

    Sana Alam Member

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    @Not a Myth ... Thank you very much. You shared a post that answered a lot of my questions. Thanks again.
     
  7. patheticwhiteboi

    patheticwhiteboi Member

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    that guy is extremely luck you are willing to trade up to a black man. as far as the poll, it is possible to push someone on the edge into the lifestyle, but not someone oppose to it.

    most cucks (like me) are born anyway, as we come to terms with our inferiority very early in life, which manifests itself in social relationships and the bedroom
     
  8. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Some hubbies need further pushing to be made to realize their full potential towards submission to their wife and the Black bull/Master.
     
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  9. Sana Alam

    Sana Alam Member

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    According to the guide above, all white boyfriends and husbands are potential cuckolds and it is their girlfriends/wives job to train them and make them submissive. It takes a long time and plenty of steps before a white guy starts to love his place as a cuckold in her girlfriend/wife 's relationship with a black master.
     
  10. patheticwhiteboi

    patheticwhiteboi Member

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    Indeed, it is critical that the process of turning him into a cuckold is a long and persistent one. Provided it is not too long, it provides the man with enough evidence that he is really a cuck, and with any introspection...that he enjoys it.

    Too much too soon and he'll pull back.
     
  11. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    While I agree with most of the guide that @Not a Myth recommended, with the exception of not permitting your cuckold to service you orally.
    I believe that having your cuckold perform oral service to you is extremely important as it maintains his physiological connection with your hormones and pheromones which are a big part of what binds him to you and makes him desire you.

    I believe it is important to give him one area in which he can feel that he can please you and that he will strive to show you his dedication. Additionally, this will help when you decide it is time for him to serve you as your "clean up boy".

    Ideally you want to end up with a cuckold who exists for your pleasure. One who will support you, take care of your needs and enable you to enjoy fucking your lovers whenever and as much as you wish.

    His sex life should consist of pleasuring you orally whenever you wish and receiving the occasional hand job given lovingly by you as gifts. Intercourse and blow jobs are no longer part of his sex life, except and unless you decide to fuck him with a strap on and or have him give blow jobs to your lovers.
    He should also be expected to lovingly lick you clean after you have enjoyed a good fucking with your lover.

    NEVER give him a hand job as a reward. The only reward you should bestow is to acknowledge when he has done well as good performance is to be expected not rewarded.
     
  12. Army cuck

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    I'm probably the last guy to ask but it seems like he liked the idea first. So at some level it turns him on. Is it possible to find out eactly what he likes? Check out the porn on his computer? And give him that. It sounds just like any relationship. One lover is a bit more selfish than the other. That's you. So find out what it is exactly that he likes and become his fantasy.

    I doubt it stops at wanting to see his GF fuck a black guy. Plus push his buttons. Get him good and horny and while he's turned on maybe even a bit tipsy get him to start talking. He'll agree to a lot of things if you keep him from cumming. After that I don't think I need to tell a woman how to play fantasy mind games. You understand the mental aspect of sex better than I ever will.
     
  13. Sana Alam

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    well @willsrvu and @patheticwhiteboi ... you both make valid points and I kept them in my mind while I start following the guide.

    @Army cuck ... you are right, I started with porn and did some things my way.

    Today after he got back from work, I did seduced him a little and suggested lets watch porn. I know he likes porn (all guys do) and he got excited that I wanted to watch it with him. so while going through internet porn, and on some webpages have multiple links, he asked me a few times that among these which one should we watch. Everytime I picked interracial porn, after changing 2-3 times, he finally agreed to one interracial scene and while we watched together, I intentionally made sounds and moans like I was enjoying it. I dont know if he got a little suspecious or not by my attitude, but he did got turned on. he suggested sex even at one point begged, but i declined that I wanted to watch and enjoy porn. so like half hour later , he took a break for bathroom and according to time he took I think he did masturbated there. because when he came back, he was in no mood for porn anymore nor he suggested sex again. He was a little rude at first but then forget everything and we spend some time cuddling.

    Now this was my first attempt to follow the guide in my way as much as possible. I will try something similar again tomorrow. lets see what happens. Any suggestions are welcome.
     
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  14. Army cuck

    Army cuck Active Member

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    I haven't read the guide but it's just like playing chess. You know how he reacts to this stimuli. Next time use what you've learned to lead him in the direction you want him to go. You won't get everything you want right away but over time I bet you can get him a bit further down your rabbit whole. Is your goal to get him just to accept that you will have BBC? Or are you trying to make him into some sort of subservient cuck?
     
  15. Sana Alam

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    honestly I havent thought about it yet. my first priority would be that he accepts my relationships with black men but if it is possible that he could enjoy being a cuckold, I would love it more.
     
  16. CuckCpl4BBC

    CuckCpl4BBC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    That's my husband. I am not good at pushing him but a few of my special friends have and it never fails to heighten the mood
     
  17. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    OK, maybe I am confused. In your original post I thought you said it was his idea that you fuck black men and after you decided you liked it, he begged you to let him stay in your life sexually and even agreed to obey you.
    If that is the case, why is he "agreeing" to let you watch what you want or do as you wish? If he is the one begging you to keep him, YOU are the one who decides. He either obeys or gets lost so you can enjoy a nice big black cock.

    I understand that you care about him and would like to keep him as your cuckold, but if you are serious about training him to be a good cuckold, you need to put your foot down and take charge now. Otherwise every little thing is going to be an argument between the two of you.

    Did he get your permission to masturbate? If he wants to be part of your sex life, he needs to understand that he only cums when you permit it. His orgasms are gifts that you bestow on him, not rewards for good behavior.
    Rudeness is not acceptable. Do not permit it to go without atonement.

    I think you need to be clear with yourself as to what you truly want and understand that there are three possible outcomes of which you must be prepared to accept.

    First: you give up black cock and go back to being the girlfriend you were before he got you to try black cock.
    Second/third: you tell him you will continue to fuck black and that he either accepts that and becomes your loving cuckold or he leaves.

    You must be fair and permit him to leave to find happiness elsewhere if he cannot find happiness as your cuckold.

    If, however, the choice is that he will do his best to obey and become your cuckold, you must be willing to take responsibility for training him properly or neither of you will be happy. He must truly wish to put your desires, happiness and pleasure above his own and not just say it, but do everything he can to prove it.

    Next time you decide to watch porn, tell him what to put on. No discussion, just decide what you want to watch.
    If he wants to use the rest room, pause the movie and tell him to hurry as you will be waiting. Do not give him time to masturbate.

    During the movie, gently masturbate him to almost the point of orgasm. Do this over and over while talking about how hot the scenes are, how sexy the big black cocks look or even ask him questions like isn't this or that hot, but do not let him orgasm. No matter how much he begs just tell him not yet, that you want him prove his love and wait a little while to make it special for you.
    Have him masturbate you while you cuddle and continue to watch the movie or even have him perform oral sex on you.

    When you have enjoyed his giving you pleasure as much as you wish, you can now ask him if he is ready to cum. Of course, he will say yes and now it is up to you how you wish to allow him to do this. You decide, not him. Whatever method you choose, you want to begin by masturbating him and bringing him to the edge once or twice again before allowing him to finally cum.

    If you allow him intercourse, he will probably cum as soon as he enters you. That's good as you will comfort him and tell him it's OK if he can't last as long as the black men you were watching because he has a wonderful mouth to please you with, it's just too bad he couldn't last long enough to give you the one last orgasm you were really looking forward to him giving you.
    This will both impress upon him that he doesn't measure up to black men as far as fucking is concerned, but he does have one way of pleasing you that he can strive to become great at. It will also be telling as to just how important pleasing you is to him if he slides down to give you oral knowing your cunt is full of his cum.
    If he does great, if not, don't be too disappointed, sometimes devotion takes awhile to develop.

    If you decide to give him oral, make sure you keep some of his semen on your lips and in your mouth, not much, just enough that he is aware that it is there when you kiss him immediately after he cums. If he accepts the kiss passionately, great. If he accepts it reservedly, that's OK, he will get used to it. If he balks and refuses to kiss you, you can simply inform him that that will be the last time he will ever feel your lips on his dick again until he begs you to kiss him with your mouth full of his cum as he should be willing to do what he expects you to do. If his semen is good for you to swallow, it should be good for him as well.

    This essentially will accomplish one of two things: it will begin conditioning him to clean not only his own, but the semen of others from your pussy should you desire that service from him, or it will eliminate him asking you to suck his cock ever again.
    Although, even if he picks not getting his dick sucked ever again, eventually he will end up consuming his semen at some point.

    Getting him back on track serving you after he has an orgasm.
    This is difficult for many men as after they cum they go through a temporary physical change where the hormones and endorphins and everything else is out of whack and all we want to do is sleep. Immediately after he cums ask him to do something for you. Bring you a glass of water, whatever, just to refocus his mind on taking care of your needs before his own.
    Then you can thank him for being a good boy, give him a good night kiss and enjoy a good night's sleep.
     
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  18. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    You shouldn't need to push him. I think there is a misunderstanding regarding a husband choosing to be a loving cuckold and the play that surrounds the sexual aspects of it.

    As a loving cuckold your husband should be putting your pleasure and needs before his own, if you are thirsty, he brings you something to quench your thirst. If you are hungry, he fetches a snack for you. You need an orgasm, he calls one of your lovers to ask him to accommodate you or, if you prefer, he kneels and pleasures you orally or in whatever manner you desire.

    Sure, when you are with a lover and he is commanded to do something he might hesitate and need a little "inspiration" that might be fun, but it's the relationship between the husband and wife the rest of the time that really determines if he is a loving cuckold or not.

    If all he does is sit and watch you getting fucked, then he isn't really a loving cuckold as much as he is a voyeur.
     
  19. Sana Alam

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    @willsrvu ... I do not know where to start. Your reply is just eye opening to me, please do share more in future. You seem like the perfect friend I need and who can help me in this transition. as I said earlier, I have no idea what the hell I am doing.Its all happening so fast.

    He did suggested me to have sex with a black guy, Why ? because before we wanted to get serious with each other, we decided that we will experiment , and as part of experiment was that I should have sex with a black man so I will not have any regrets, but it was supposed to be a one time thing, to him and to me. The problem that came up was that I just got hooked and really enjoyed that experience and continued to had sex after that.

    At first he thought that may be I wanted to get that out of the system, so he dint say anything, but when I kept on having sex with black man, he got a little frustrated, because that was not the plan. at first he tried with polite request, then with a rude comment and then finally an open intervention style that he wanted to be part of my sex life. I was at this community at that time and thats where the idea of cuckold came to me that he can participate as a cuckold.

    Yes, I do care about him and since we both want a future together even though I want to explore my sexuality more, I think it is essential that we end up to an understanding. That means if I had to work and spend time on him to make him a cuckold, I will do it.

    Now you are right that I should take charge and put my foot down, but this is also a very big change for me. Mostly because I myself is a submissive person, I am very submissive during sex, I like to be used and I like it. So that is going to be a little difficult to adapt dominant personality for my boyfriend and make him more submissive than me.

    Good point you raised about permission for masturbation, Next time I will make sure that he is not allowed to masturbate without my consent. I want him to be a loving and obeying cuckold and I am willing to take responsibility for training him properly.

    I will be more direct in giving orders to him from now on. Some real good advices from you about not letting him masturbate, reminding him that he finishes quickly and making him eat and clean up. But I really want to try to give him oral and keep semen in my mouth and lips and kiss him immediately. I am not sure how will he take it, but if he kisses , this means I have a chance.

    Overall I am really hoping that everything turns out to be okay and he becomes a submissive and obedient cuckold. I will try these things from your post and from the guide posted earlier and will share more, so you guys can correct any mistakes I make. Thanks once again for such a fantastic post and making me understand the process. Thank you and please do share more ...
     
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  20. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I know the feeling. Him being pushed by you might not have the same force or excitement as when he gets pushed by your lovers.
     
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