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@Army cuck ... you are right, I started with porn and did some things my way.
Today after he got back from work, I did seduced him a little and suggested lets watch porn. I know he likes porn (all guys do) and he got excited that I wanted to watch it with him. so while going through internet porn, and on some webpages have multiple links, he asked me a few times that among these which one should we watch.
Everytime I picked interracial porn, after changing 2-3 times, he finally agreed to one interracial scene and while we watched together, I intentionally made sounds and moans like I was enjoying it. I dont know if he got a little suspecious or not by my attitude, but he did got turned on. he suggested sex even at one point begged, but i declined that I wanted to watch and enjoy porn.
OK, maybe I am confused. In your original post I thought you said it was his idea that you fuck black men and after you decided you liked it, he begged you to let him stay in your life sexually and even agreed to obey you.
If that is the case, why is he "agreeing" to let you watch what you want or do as you wish? If he is the one begging you to keep him, YOU are the one who decides. He either obeys or gets lost so you can enjoy a nice big black cock.
I understand that you care about him and would like to keep him as your cuckold, but if you are serious about training him to be a good cuckold, you need to put your foot down and take charge now. Otherwise every little thing is going to be an argument between the two of you.
so like half hour later , he took a break for bathroom and according to time he took I think he did masturbated there. because when he came back, he was in no mood for porn anymore nor he suggested sex again. He was a little rude at first but then forget everything and we spend some time cuddling.
Did he get your permission to masturbate? If he wants to be part of your sex life, he needs to understand that he only cums when you permit it. His orgasms are gifts that you bestow on him, not rewards for good behavior.
Rudeness is not acceptable. Do not permit it to go without atonement.
Now this was my first attempt to follow the guide in my way as much as possible. I will try something similar again tomorrow. lets see what happens. Any suggestions are welcome.
I think you need to be clear with yourself as to what you truly want and understand that there are three possible outcomes of which you must be prepared to accept.
First: you give up black cock and go back to being the girlfriend you were before he got you to try black cock.
Second/third: you tell him you will continue to fuck black and that he either accepts that and becomes your
loving cuckold or he leaves.
You must be fair and permit him to leave to find happiness elsewhere if he cannot find happiness as your cuckold.
If, however, the choice is that he will do his best to obey and become your cuckold, you must be willing to take responsibility for training him properly or neither of you will be happy. He must truly wish to put your desires, happiness and pleasure above his own and not just say it, but do everything he can to prove it.
Next time you decide to watch porn, tell him what to put on. No discussion, just decide what you want to watch.
If he wants to use the rest room, pause the movie and tell him to hurry as you will be waiting. Do not give him time to masturbate.
During the movie, gently masturbate him to almost the point of orgasm. Do this over and over while talking about how hot the scenes are, how sexy the big black cocks look or even ask him questions like isn't this or that hot, but do not let him orgasm. No matter how much he begs just tell him not yet, that you want him prove his love and wait a little while to make it special for you.
Have him masturbate you while you cuddle and continue to watch the movie or even have him perform oral sex on you.
When you have enjoyed his giving you pleasure as much as you wish, you can now ask him if he is ready to cum. Of course, he will say yes and now it is up to you how you wish to allow him to do this. You decide, not him. Whatever method you choose, you want to begin by masturbating him and bringing him to the edge once or twice again before allowing him to finally cum.
If you allow him intercourse, he will probably cum as soon as he enters you. That's good as you will comfort him and tell him it's OK if he can't last as long as the black men you were watching because he has a wonderful mouth to please you with, it's just too bad he couldn't last long enough to give you the one last orgasm you were really looking forward to him giving you.
This will both impress upon him that he doesn't measure up to black men as far as fucking is concerned, but he does have one way of pleasing you that he can strive to become great at. It will also be telling as to just how important pleasing you is to him if he slides down to give you oral knowing your cunt is full of his cum.
If he does great, if not, don't be too disappointed, sometimes devotion takes awhile to develop.
If you decide to give him oral, make sure you keep some of his semen on your lips and in your mouth, not much, just enough that he is aware that it is there when you kiss him immediately after he cums. If he accepts the kiss passionately, great. If he accepts it reservedly, that's OK, he will get used to it. If he balks and refuses to kiss you, you can simply inform him that that will be the last time he will ever feel your lips on his dick again until he begs you to kiss him with your mouth full of his cum as he should be willing to do what he expects you to do. If his semen is good for you to swallow, it should be good for him as well.
This essentially will accomplish one of two things: it will begin conditioning him to clean not only his own, but the semen of others from your pussy should you desire that service from him, or it will eliminate him asking you to suck his cock ever again.
Although, even if he picks not getting his dick sucked ever again, eventually he will end up consuming his semen at some point.
Getting him back on track serving you after he has an orgasm.
This is difficult for many men as after they cum they go through a temporary physical change where the hormones and endorphins and everything else is out of whack and all we want to do is sleep. Immediately after he cums ask him to do something for you. Bring you a glass of water, whatever, just to refocus his mind on taking care of your needs before his own.
Then you can thank him for being a good boy, give him a good night kiss and enjoy a good night's sleep.
