Cuck or Wannabee
- Thread starter BethLuvsBBConly
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Its interesting the number of men who have this fantasy but many of their women either don't want to take part, or simply don't know. I seem to be quite unusual in that the movement from regular to swingers to femdom/cuckold was completely my choice. My boyfriend was very reluctant for the cuckolding.
I put wannabe, but then I realized that we really should be considered living the lifestyle. We have had a couple of discreet hookups and goddess regularly meets with a submissive for a nonsexual relationship. If people only knew how vanilla a BDSM relationship actually is they might not have such caricatured views of what it is like.
I think its simple - society tells us its not normal. I mean be honest, how many of us tell our regular friend about this aspect of our lives? For women eapecially (in my country at least), i am considered a whore if i sleep with many men, even more if its outside regular relations. There is a lot of pressure for women, and also for men to be 'masculine' so even for them to be cuckold is something they have to do in secret
