Couples and Planning

[Honeycombs]

Never heard of it before now, but you nailed it.

I cannot remember where I originally heard it from but it tends to always be true.

 

[sm1982]

I cannot remember where I originally heard it from but it tends to always be true.

Whoever came up with it is brilliant.

 

[cuckold_kisses]

Let's talking about planning meets...I see couples from time to time complain about bulls standing them up and etc.

But I will say in the last year or 2 couples have been horrible about planning and the most aggrevating ones are the ones that refuse to set up a time that works for all parties but will expect you (the bull) to be able to jump up at a moments notice.

Just an FYI for couples and/or wives, most of the quality men/bulls out here can't and won't come running at your discretion....some of us have busy personal schedules, are business owners, work long hours, etc. The type of men most of you want aren't sitting around with our dicks in our hands all day lol, just some food for thought.

You're right, when I was still with my ex we made room in our agenda to meet a "guy" from this page and "He" canceled on us twice Then we met him but it turned out to be a girl from Haiti, it didn't end well because I don't like women

Then there was a guy who just promised and promised but I honestly didn't want to waste my time and everyone does something

But pornography makes us have a bad idea that wives or bulls are just people who do nothing waiting to fuck, this is real life and many people don't know the difference

 

[BehindBluEyes]

Hasn't it always been a golden rule to follow the six Ps? Proper planning prevents piss poor performance.

Love it! I think I have heard it before as well but cannot remember where from but so very true.

 

[sharingcouple75]

Oh, we over communicate..which we don’t think you can do. My husband is a planner and communicates from the start our rules and expectations AND asks their input too. It is a two way street. If they don’t like the communication before and to CONFIRM the day before we assume they will be a no show and don‘t go. 2 weeks ago I had a date with a guy who had been begging to meet us for a while. I actually had a date a couple of hours before so we didn’t waste the day…he was great but had performance issues. The guy begging us texted us saying he left his phone at home and went back to get it and was an hour away. I’m sorry, but I WON’T be stood up and even consider you again. COMMUNICATE, CONFIRM, CONSENT, CONSUMMATE…..easy. Sorry, went off a little bit, but we all (wives and single guys) have feelings…respect them. XOXO

 

[Loridan]

We do this with one guy, same guy. He visits 2 or 3 times a month. We always confirm a visit one or two days prior. We anticipate his visit, wife very much so. We have some good sex the day befor, sometimes an hour befor he visits. Wife is horny as fuck for days after. There has been times him or us has canceled but always with notice.
A big part of this for us is looking forward to it and having it in our minds after.
The two times we went to his place wife was anticipating like crazy. We talked it over with him, I was against it, he was just OK with it, wife really wanted to "see how it goes" at his apartment. It's was fun but very different. Saying my wife got off on the whole experience is putting it mildly.
About 3 months later we agreed on overnight at his place. It was really weird for me trying to sleep in his bed with all three of us. Wife says it was fun but she absolutely loved it. A LOT of sex happened. We each did her twice at night like usual. He did her then I did her about 3 am then they went again in the morning, I did her then they went once more befor we left.

 

[Pcrook]

You're right, when I was still with my ex we made room in our agenda to meet a "guy" from this page and "He" canceled on us twice Then we met him but it turned out to be a girl from Haiti, it didn't end well because I don't like women

Then there was a guy who just promised and promised but I honestly didn't want to waste my time and everyone does something

But pornography makes us have a bad idea that wives or bulls are just people who do nothing waiting to fuck, this is real life and many people don't know the difference

I'm sorry you had that experience! It happened to me too!