She is not ready yet.
Changing Wife's Mind
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First time I brought up fucking a BBC to the wife it came as a shock and she could not say "No" any quicker, ******* even just the thought of sharing her outside of our marriage was a shocker to her. My audacity of even thinking about this.
Well. You all know where this landed us to date.
Well. You all know where this landed us to date.
It took me nearly 2 years to convince my wife to try bbc and after her very 1st time with a bull she told me straight that she's never going to give this up !
2 and half years down the line and she gets her fix at least twice a week from her regular bull.
2 and half years down the line and she gets her fix at least twice a week from her regular bull.
My wife was a bit shy with the idea initially but wen we went to Niagara Falls for a night I called the guy if he wanted to her fuxk her this was his chance. He came specially from Toronto all the way just to give her a good time. This date was a blind one and we had never met the guy before so wife was literally fucking a stranger. This was one of the best memory we had. Hopefully again I’ll invite a new bbc to taste her n fuck her hard. She’s really a slut wen she is into the scene and performs like a pornstar.
BlackInWhitePNW
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I think there is an age and possibly region related factor in your experience. Younger generations to not have that discouragement generally. Seems like quite the opposite.
Sounds like there's a story there lol
You rebel you.
Not really, my family was just used me dating black boys so when I brought home a white boy they were visibly taken aback.
As long as they were ok with you preferring Black boys it's all good I guess
Canada is a lot different from the US, racism isn't the default here.
Growing up in Philly, I was the surprising change of pace for a few of my GF's back in the day. Some parents were dubious and not all took to me initially,
That's good to hear I love the new avatar pic btw for obvious reasons
I was a denier even though it turned me on thinking about it. Couldn’t hide how wet and responsive I was when we were fantasizing but I was worried what my husband would think of me. Then we actually did it. No denying those multiple orgasms and my total submission to my passion. Told my husband on the way home if he wanted to stay in the lifestyle that black men like that was what I needed. He said he already knew that but was glad I could admit it to myself. So sometimes your husband does actually understand.
And that is a possible issue as well.
I have dealt with enough hotwives one on one and couple's to know that the number one thing that a husband can do to support his wife in this lifestyle is to give her "ASSURANCE " and let her know:
1. This lifestyle is about both of us fulfilling fantasies our and having memorable experiences that will only enhance our love for one another and make our relationship better than ever!
2. I want you to have best possible experiences when you are with your lovers, so as much as possible I want you to be lost in that moment with that person. I want you to be totally uninhibited to please that man and be pleased by that man as though you belong to him and he belongs to you. Nothing else matters more in that moment to me but your satisfaction and that's the only thing that truly fulfills my fantasy is you being satisfied by your lover! That's what I want for you, for me, and for us in this lifestyle so if you have any reservations about how I feel, or where my heart or my head is at, now you know!
Assurance is a positive declaration intended to give confidence!
Your wife needs to be confidence that:
1. Its really what you want and will make you happy?
2. That you can hadle it, her fucking other men? (I have had women tell me "he says he wants to see it but I don't think he could handle it"! Some women feel this way regardless of what your mouth says and it's your job to assure her otherwise.)
3. That your not going to feel some type of way about her afterwards? (That you won't think less of her, or love her less. Again it's your job to assure her otherwise.)
You shouldn't have to tell her during her play time and encounters to cut lose and really get into it. The time for assurance and confidence building is at home during your own intimacy or teasing conversations about how much it turns you on to see her draining a bbc and how much pleases you to see her go crazy on that black cock.
I can tell you that this "assurance" issue is one of the biggest challenges that a hotwife will surpass in this lifestyle and its hubby's job to help her surpass it, and we all know how awesome they are when they surpass it! ✌
Some women may harbor a hangup over the racial or cultural implications of expressing a "black only craving" because in their minds they would never want to inflict unintended emotional harm upon their spouses by expressing so. Remember women are emotional creatures and even though they can think with logic as we do they typically tend to filter their logic through their emotions. So understand that her reluctance is her actually being more considerate of your feelings.
The hangup is about possibly causing an emotional alienation of you as her husband over expressing and exclusion of all other races of men accept black men. In her mind it puts her own husband in that category also, and that's that emotional filter doing what it does. See logic alone would tell her that "hubby is not other none black men" "hubby is exempt" "hubby is not the exception to the rule, he is the rule that makes my black cravings possible to carry out" and then go buck wild in this hotwife lifestyle. LOL
That alienation is a real thing in the Marine Corps a we had a guy who put on his social media that he wouldn't follow the orders of our Commander and Chief that he didn't like. Well our immediate commanding officers felt if he would exclude following the orders of the commander and chief then he would definitely not follow their orders at some point either and put him out the military. He didn't think about how his statement would effect his immediate commanders who saw them themselves alienated by in his remarks to disobey orders their boss the commander and chief if he deemed them unnecessary to respect and follow.
So I get where she is coming from. You just have to find the right love language to give her the assurance that she needs to totally let herself go and fully indulge in this hotwife lifestyle!
He would have made a great cuckold!
He was a huge built ******* dealer and aspiring MMA fighter without a submissive bone is his entire body and the reason we didn't work was he was insanely jealous .. I don't fuck with submissive men of any race. Just because he's white doesn't mean he would have made a good cuck
