Chances for my wife to accept cuckold way of life

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Bliss

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Hi everyone! I am 27 yo and wife 24 yo from Eastern Europe. We just got married and we have love eachother.
One year ago, when we discussed our ex partners, it turned out that my wife dated a black guy when she was in USA with Work and travel. She told me that all he needed was sex and they sex would sex chat a lot and she gave him a lot of blow jobs because sex was very painful to her since he was quite big, and that's how she got to love blowjobs, but that he was treating her like a bitch and fucked her tio hard and she found that rude. I found the guy in her facebook friend lists and he looks like a true bull. She also told me that when we met she was wondering what size is my cock, but now she says she is not a size queen and my cock is fine. I tried to look a bit upset that she has had sex with a black guy, and she told me she doesn't regret anything (in my country interracial sex is a taboo, and there are very few black people here).
I have been fantasinzig about her submitting to BBC ever since. I am still afraid to tell her about it, dont't know what her reaction would be. Any advice? Thanks
 
Yes, she seems to, since she dated one, but I still feel that between us there's still a taboo. I mean it's one thing to discuss her past, and another thing to convince her sleep with another man. Not to mention that here there are very few black guys.
I tried to propose her watch some porn together, but she refused. My plan was to watch interracial. When I ask her details about her sex life with her black ex she doesn't want to give much details cause she thinks I am jealous. When we first talked about or ex-es and she told me that she dated a black guy I asked whether is true what they say about size and she told me that in her case it was true, and the guy was so big that she prefered sucking his cock cause sex was very painful. But I'd like her telling me more details like whether he cummed inside or in her mouth. But she wouldn't answer. How to approach her?
 
Hey bliss. Your initial reactions are important to her. She probably sensed hurt or anger (yeah cucks have real legitimate feelings too...but get over them fast :)) and does not feel comfortable at all right now. You got some proving to do man. If you really want this then show her as often as you can that you are open minded and not judgemental towards her whatsoever. Inside you know most of the answers anyhow so let them got for the time being. Patience will pay off ...thanks for sharing with us and we hope you continue to update.
 
Hi Bliss, great that you're getting in to this lifestyle at your age. Can understand how exciting it must have been to learn that your wife has had previous black lover.

I think previous comments from rkccuckold are right, probably in your shock (or excitement) your wife misunderstood your feelings and so is being defensive over her past. So you need to undo this before you can proceed. Instead of focussing on penis size etc, I think you should tell her how proud you are of her that she is not prejudiced, not influenced by the taboos in your country. Tell her that you think it's pity that people have such negative views and that believe its good when IR relationships are more normal and actually you find it quite attractive yourself. From this perhaps she will open up a little and you can learn how they met, where they went on dates, how others viewed them etc. Once she is comfortable to talk openly and freely, then you can slowly develop situation. If handled carefully, I think you have great chance to adopt cuckold way of life.

There is also another great chance in that you can encourage her to communicate with this guy on FB to show her that you are not jealous. Perhaps in time you can connect with directly on FB? I suspect he will be only too willing to reveal more personal details of their relationship once he understands your interest.

Good luck!
 
Hi, thank you for your answer.
To begin with, it is a very turn on for me whenever I kiss her and eat her pussy that she sucked and fucked a black guy. It's obvious for me that he was bigger than me and my wife admited it. I am still not sure whether she is a size queen since she decided to marry me and I am average (not small, but average).
I am sure she had a lot of fun with the guy while she was living in the US, and despite the fact that when we discussed this matter I was pretending to be upset that she dated a black guy, she still told me that she doesn't regret a thing, yet when I told her that I think she prefers black guys she told me she does't prefer blacks over whites or the other way around.
I remember that first movie that she and me watched together was a French movie about a ******* whose daugthers were dating an Arab and a Jew, and his last hope was their youngest ******* who eventually got to date a black guy. My wife chose the movie and insisted on us watching it. Few months ago she found some porn in my computer where a young white girl sucks and fucks BBC. nd she told me that she found the video and played it to see what's there. I was too ashamed to start a conversation on this matter.
Still, I have mixed feelings, since this cuckold thing turns me on as fuck and Id love to see her pleasing a big black cock, but in the same time I am afraid not to lose her. I am a quite good looking guy, my penis isn't small I do boxing and my alpha male part makes me sometimes to feel bad about my cuckold wishes. But I would like to see her sucking a black cock in front of me and tell me that she loves me.
 
Such mixed feelings are entirely normal for you, especially in early days. I don't think you should be afraid of losing her, less so if you are open in your communications with her. I think its time you simply accept that you get turned on by IR sex (like many of us) and share this with your wife without making pressure on her. I'm sure once she understands that you mean this, then she will begin to be less defensive and will open up.

I think your biggest problem will not be persuading your wife to fuck another BBC, but in actually finding suitable guy given you say you live somewhere in Eastern Europe with few black guys. So time for you to make friends yourself on FB with her former lover and to schedule a holiday to the US?? :)
 
Thank you people for your reply.
I am sure she would be definitely in, given her previous black experience.
I am not sure about meeting her ex lover, since there might be some feelings involved and I don't want her to fall in love with another man, that would put an end to our marriage.
I have this idea - get her very turned on, during cunnilingus and ask her tell me about her secret sexual wishes. I want to have her comfortable with it and maybe mention her lust for black cock.
What do you think?
 
My wife previously not wanted cuckolding me. We talked a lot and he was come in the mood. He had absolutely no idea that this was going to happen. She loves to fuck and won instincts. Maybe it will happen with you too! Maybe it goes black. Enjoy the things you can not do anything else.
 
Ι only know she fully enjoyed her ex bf black cock. He didn't love her, but fucked her like a little bitch. Mostly she was giving him blow jobs.
 
She never calls my cock big, she calls it tasy, pink, whatever, but not big. I think she still dreams about her ex black cock or any other big black cock.
 
My wife used to date (and fuck) black guys in her teen years too. I'm her second white dude after those black guys.
I've been fantasizing about finding footage of her with those guys online, however, that chance is zero as it was all analog back then (nineties).

I've seen my wife being fucked by white friends but I'm also fantasizing seeing her white pussy being penetrated by a BBC! And like you I have ambivalent feelings about it. I'm not the type of cuckold who gets sexual gratification out of being humiliated, so how to prevent that when an alpha male is fucking your wife better than you could ever yourself...
 
Absanon said:
My wife used to date (and fuck) black guys in her teen years too. I'm her second white dude after those black guys.
I've been fantasizing about finding footage of her with those guys online, however, that chance is zero as it was all analog back then (nineties).

I've seen my wife being fucked by white friends but I'm also fantasizing seeing her white pussy being penetrated by a BBC! And like you I have ambivalent feelings about it. I'm not the type of cuckold who gets sexual gratification out of being humiliated, so how to prevent that when an alpha male is fucking your wife better than you could ever yourself...
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My wife is still young 24 yo, and she has a very pretty face, small tits but great ass.
What I know about her black ex is that he was very big and never gave her cunnilingus while she was always giving him blow jobs. In my case it's different - I am the one who goes down on her, she does that not so often.
I do believe she likes black cocks more, she calls my cock pink, but as I've stated, I am not small.
 
Bliss said:
never gave her cunnilingus while she was always giving him blow jobs.
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That's not good ... women love receiving oral sex, especially from guys who know how to do it right. But, reciprocation is almost a must with oral sex. If she doesn't give you oral sex often enough, and you desire it, maybe there's a reason why she doesn't. Ask her!

I think you may be underestimating your lady, Bliss ... I mean, she's opened up to you about her x-bf with quite a bit of detail. I think she'll be more receptive to discussions about 3-somes and/or involving other men in your love crib. Still, you should realize women seem to value/honor monogamous relationships more than guys and you ARE young into your relationship with her. Maybe she feels that IF she was to give in and have sex with other men, you'd expect the same opportunities, and the ladies don't seem to like sharing their men with other women like we men do sharing our women with other men. Still, she sounds like someone you could have these conversations with without worrying about offending her. I guess my question to you is, IF you don't feel you can have these discussions with her, HOW can you expect to get her to do the things you desire? It appears you still need to develop the communicational part of your relationship. Open up to her, and see what happens. I mean, look at what she's shared with you thus far.
 
We have experienced similar with black guys where they have been reluctant to go down on wife, but certainly expect/demand to receive blow jobs. They also have this way as if they are doing wife a favour, as if they are giving her a "treat". For us this is not a problem as actually wife is mildly submissive so enjoys earning right to such his cock.
 
Bliss said:
Hi everyone! I am 27 yo and wife 24 yo from Eastern Europe. We just got married and we have love eachother.
One year ago, when we discussed our ex partners, it turned out that my wife dated a black guy when she was in USA with Work and travel. She told me that all he needed was sex and they sex would sex chat a lot and she gave him a lot of blow jobs because sex was very painful to her since he was quite big, and that's how she got to love blowjobs, but that he was treating her like a bitch and fucked her tio hard and she found that rude. I found the guy in her facebook friend lists and he looks like a true bull. She also told me that when we met she was wondering what size is my cock, but now she says she is not a size queen and my cock is fine. I tried to look a bit upset that she has had sex with a black guy, and she told me she doesn't regret anything (in my country interracial sex is a taboo, and there are very few black people here).
I have been fantasinzig about her submitting to BBC ever since. I am still afraid to tell her about it, dont't know what her reaction would be. Any advice? Thanks
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Talk with her on very normal way of it and listen what she says..just tell her you think its nice that she had good time with him
 
She's lately into this romantic sex like spiritual link and so on, I am afraid that if I tell her that I want her to take black cock she might think I am insane.
 
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