True. But the really nice thing about our way is the enjoyment we get from seeing the newly blackened couples absolutely loving their new life style and the great sexual fun we have with all our new lifestyle friends. On a rare occasion, we have actually had family menders join us but only after we thoroughly investigated what we believe would be their response. It has worked so far but we still have to be careful with some of our family. we are not ashamed of what we do but just do not care to get into a hassle with our family unless we have to. We love what we do and have no qualms about it.
It's obvious you and your wife have removed off both your shoulders the shackles of fear that most cuckold couples usually have when letting their neighbours become aware of their lifestyle. A lot of such couples can learn a thing or two from you.