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Watching interracial porn together and seeing how she reacts or responds to it! Introducing a black dildo in to the bedroom for some fun!
When you guys are out and if you see an interracial couple point it out and say what a good looking couple they make and see how she responds and acts!
Those are just some starting point ideas! Good luck!
When you guys are out and if you see an interracial couple point it out and say what a good looking couple they make and see how she responds and acts!
Those are just some starting point ideas! Good luck!
..... Wife Indy ... have the 2 of you ever done any swinging with other men at all ... maybe a 3-some with a guy or something? Have you ever had any discussions about swinging or having a 3-some with another guy? Interracial swinging is a big, big first step if the two of you have never done anything outside a monogamous marriage. Has the topic of cuckolding ever come up?
...... Regardless, you need to feel comfortable with discussing any topic with her without the concern that she'll come unhinged on you for mentioning it. If you don't have that established, you should start on that before involving others into your marriage. Watching porn or reading related porn stories is a hit-miss situation. She may have other sexual fantasies that she's never revealed to you ... show her a beautiful naked woman photo and remark how "hot" she is .... see if she responds positively or negatively to you ... you could always say something like "man, this woman looks just like YOU when you were that age" ... "don't you think she's hot?" And, see where that takes you. If she questions WHY you are bringing all this UP, tell her you've been thinking of taking your sexual fun UP a notch and was looking for her feedback. She won't fault you if she knows its for the marriage that you're doing it.
...... My point is, find out what turns HER on, not YOU on, FIRST. You'll be gratified regardless, I'm sure.
...... Regardless, you need to feel comfortable with discussing any topic with her without the concern that she'll come unhinged on you for mentioning it. If you don't have that established, you should start on that before involving others into your marriage. Watching porn or reading related porn stories is a hit-miss situation. She may have other sexual fantasies that she's never revealed to you ... show her a beautiful naked woman photo and remark how "hot" she is .... see if she responds positively or negatively to you ... you could always say something like "man, this woman looks just like YOU when you were that age" ... "don't you think she's hot?" And, see where that takes you. If she questions WHY you are bringing all this UP, tell her you've been thinking of taking your sexual fun UP a notch and was looking for her feedback. She won't fault you if she knows its for the marriage that you're doing it.
...... My point is, find out what turns HER on, not YOU on, FIRST. You'll be gratified regardless, I'm sure.
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See thread "In The Movies" on this site. Try watching some of the suggested shows and movies together and see how she reacts. Does she become flush and excited or seem uninterested?
Let it happen naturally.
If you are introducing her to IR porn, you might choose videos that feature really good looking guys and don't just go for the biggest penises. More romantic couplings will likely be more persuasive than raunchy, piledriving types. Men are more turned on by that stuff. We, women, prefer gentle, naughty, fun content. The fantasy prospect of being crippled for a week by Shane Diesel (a good guy in reality) would horrify most.
Then meeting guys in natural settings is best. Yeah, handsome, hung guys might be prearranged to show up and give flattering attention, but it should flow and never feel ******.
For me, I always had a weakness for Sidney Poitier. Not a muscle mass, but clean, handsome, dark even smooth skin, Caribbean look, and (most importantly) an aura of righteousness, dignity, and confidence. He's been almost a reference standard by which others are compared. Does your wife have a black celebrity who makes her knees weak and her squirm in her seat?
Then meeting guys in natural settings is best. Yeah, handsome, hung guys might be prearranged to show up and give flattering attention, but it should flow and never feel ******.
For me, I always had a weakness for Sidney Poitier. Not a muscle mass, but clean, handsome, dark even smooth skin, Caribbean look, and (most importantly) an aura of righteousness, dignity, and confidence. He's been almost a reference standard by which others are compared. Does your wife have a black celebrity who makes her knees weak and her squirm in her seat?
You need to start off with smaller step. One direct approach would be going to a swingers club. Most are low key and respect newbies wishes. Let her try out a fuck buddy of the same race. If she enjoys the experience the IR line can be crossed at a later date. Of course if she doesn't want to go things will come to an abrupt halt. If you notice that she eyes some man say something like "if you ever did you would have to tell me about it". More than likely in the next day or so she will bring up your comment. You need to be clear it is about her experiencing a little variety and exploring her fantasies. Its not about you trying to get extra pussy. Probably wouldn't hurt to tell her that you would never fuck another woman unless your wife picked out the woman. The most important aspect is trust. If you don't have trust going into this it will not work.
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