Be Careful What you Wish For. How I lost my wife to the lifestyle.

My wife has been with her boyfriend for almost 4 years now the only rule is that im not involved with them so have never watched them have sex wich is very regular they are also in love now but she assures me our marriage is stronger than ever
Of course she will assure you that your marriage is stronger than ever. Look at the lifestyle she is enjoying. But ho do YOU feel the marriage is going? Are you happy and confident when she spends so much time with the boyfriend but never lets you watch or be around?
 
Of course she will assure you that your marriage is stronger than ever. Look at the lifestyle she is enjoying. But ho do YOU feel the marriage is going? Are you happy and confident when she spends so much time with the boyfriend but never lets you watch or be around?
Honestly its fine im happy for her to be with him 2 or 3 times a week, when shes with me it isnt really mentioned now
 
Ladonawire, how is your marriage stronger than ever but your wife is in love with someone else. Is it the polygamous deal where you all love different people. Just wondering? Is this working out for you? Can you sleep with other women and fall in love with them? Do you feel like you can financially and emotionally support another woman?
 
Ladonawire, how is your marriage stronger than ever but your wife is in love with someone else. Is it the polygamous deal where you all love different people. Just wondering? Is this working out for you? Can you sleep with other women and fall in love with them? Do you feel like you can financially and emotionally support another woman?
I don't want to see other women I'm happy with her
 
I just noticed a video that reminded me very much of what happened with my first wife. I tried to put the link up but it didn't work. You can find it at PornXS under the title of "Gorgeous hotwife tries hotwifing and becomes addicted" It is a visual story of a good-looking white couple where the husband wants to see his wife as a sex figure. He has her pose for suggestive and then nude pictures and then asks her to make love with another woman. His fantasies and requests continue to expand and she submits to a 3 way with another guy included. Then the wife tells her husband that she would really like to be filled which, after awhile, leads to her experiencing a black lover with her husband present. She then requests alone time with her dark lover which leads to great passion and her falling in love and declaring that she is "all his". You can't tell how long of a period of time was covered with the different situations in this video but it sure hit home for me. About a year after our marriage I encouraged my wife to go out on Saturday nights when I had to work the overnight shift. My wife had a single girlfriend who had a black boyfriend and used to tell my wife stories. My wife would tell me before I went to work that she was going over to her friends house that night and that they may see a movie. It turns out that she and her friend didn't watch alone. The boyfriend was there along with one of his black buddies and the movie turned out to be a juicy interracial porn video. My wife told me about it and how turned on she was and how she let the buddy feel her up a little as she did the same with him. I asked her since she was so turned on if she wanted to have sex with the buddy. She denied it at first but I could tell that she thought the idea was inviting. I told her that I felt our love was so strong that she should be able to enjoy sexual pleasure without damaging our marriage. She said that she would only meet the buddy if I came along. At the hotel for the first time with buddy I could tell that she was a little reluctant, but once his black cock slid inside her I think she forgot that I was even there. After that first encounter she and buddy shared several more passionate hookups with me in tow. Within a month the wife asked me if it was alright if she went out with buddy without me. She assured me that it was only sex and that I was her only true love. From then on it was just her and buddy. She was buying sexy clothes and underwear that she never bothered to get with me. After 4 months she confessed to me that she was pregnant and was pretty sure that it was buddy's baby. I asked her about her birth control and she told me that buddy insisted that if they were going to be lovers that she should stop taking birth control pills. Then she confessed that she was in love with him and wanted a divorce. I was shocked and humiliated that I had let this go on. I was wrong to believe that our love was so strong that nothing could separate us. Black lovers, if they are nice guys, can be addictive to many women.
 
I just noticed a video that reminded me very much of what happened with my first wife. I tried to put the link up but it didn't work. You can find it at PornXS under the title of "Gorgeous hotwife tries hotwifing and becomes addicted" It is a visual story of a good-looking white couple where the husband wants to see his wife as a sex figure. He has her pose for suggestive and then nude pictures and then asks her to make love with another woman. His fantasies and requests continue to expand and she submits to a 3 way with another guy included. Then the wife tells her husband that she would really like to be filled which, after awhile, leads to her experiencing a black lover with her husband present. She then requests alone time with her dark lover which leads to great passion and her falling in love and declaring that she is "all his". You can't tell how long of a period of time was covered with the different situations in this video but it sure hit home for me. About a year after our marriage I encouraged my wife to go out on Saturday nights when I had to work the overnight shift. My wife had a single girlfriend who had a black boyfriend and used to tell my wife stories. My wife would tell me before I went to work that she was going over to her friends house that night and that they may see a movie. It turns out that she and her friend didn't watch alone. The boyfriend was there along with one of his black buddies and the movie turned out to be a juicy interracial porn video. My wife told me about it and how turned on she was and how she let the buddy feel her up a little as she did the same with him. I asked her since she was so turned on if she wanted to have sex with the buddy. She denied it at first but I could tell that she thought the idea was inviting. I told her that I felt our love was so strong that she should be able to enjoy sexual pleasure without damaging our marriage. She said that she would only meet the buddy if I came along. At the hotel for the first time with buddy I could tell that she was a little reluctant, but once his black cock slid inside her I think she forgot that I was even there. After that first encounter she and buddy shared several more passionate hookups with me in tow. Within a month the wife asked me if it was alright if she went out with buddy without me. She assured me that it was only sex and that I was her only true love. From then on it was just her and buddy. She was buying sexy clothes and underwear that she never bothered to get with me. After 4 months she confessed to me that she was pregnant and was pretty sure that it was buddy's baby. I asked her about her birth control and she told me that buddy insisted that if they were going to be lovers that she should stop taking birth control pills. Then she confessed that she was in love with him and wanted a divorce. I was shocked and humiliated that I had let this go on. I was wrong to believe that our love was so strong that nothing could separate us. Black lovers, if they are nice guys, can be addictive to many women.
Totally agree.
 
I just noticed a video that reminded me very much of what happened with my first wife. I tried to put the link up but it didn't work. You can find it at PornXS under the title of "Gorgeous hotwife tries hotwifing and becomes addicted" It is a visual story of a good-looking white couple where the husband wants to see his wife as a sex figure. He has her pose for suggestive and then nude pictures and then asks her to make love with another woman. His fantasies and requests continue to expand and she submits to a 3 way with another guy included. Then the wife tells her husband that she would really like to be filled which, after awhile, leads to her experiencing a black lover with her husband present. She then requests alone time with her dark lover which leads to great passion and her falling in love and declaring that she is "all his". You can't tell how long of a period of time was covered with the different situations in this video but it sure hit home for me. About a year after our marriage I encouraged my wife to go out on Saturday nights when I had to work the overnight shift. My wife had a single girlfriend who had a black boyfriend and used to tell my wife stories. My wife would tell me before I went to work that she was going over to her friends house that night and that they may see a movie. It turns out that she and her friend didn't watch alone. The boyfriend was there along with one of his black buddies and the movie turned out to be a juicy interracial porn video. My wife told me about it and how turned on she was and how she let the buddy feel her up a little as she did the same with him. I asked her since she was so turned on if she wanted to have sex with the buddy. She denied it at first but I could tell that she thought the idea was inviting. I told her that I felt our love was so strong that she should be able to enjoy sexual pleasure without damaging our marriage. She said that she would only meet the buddy if I came along. At the hotel for the first time with buddy I could tell that she was a little reluctant, but once his black cock slid inside her I think she forgot that I was even there. After that first encounter she and buddy shared several more passionate hookups with me in tow. Within a month the wife asked me if it was alright if she went out with buddy without me. She assured me that it was only sex and that I was her only true love. From then on it was just her and buddy. She was buying sexy clothes and underwear that she never bothered to get with me. After 4 months she confessed to me that she was pregnant and was pretty sure that it was buddy's baby. I asked her about her birth control and she told me that buddy insisted that if they were going to be lovers that she should stop taking birth control pills. Then she confessed that she was in love with him and wanted a divorce. I was shocked and humiliated that I had let this go on. I was wrong to believe that our love was so strong that nothing could separate us. Black lovers, if they are nice guys, can be addictive to many women.

dawg, the question you’ve got to answer is; do you want her ass back when she returns to your doorstep disappointed and disillusioned about her new boyfriend. Bulls don’t really care about doing the ******* you are doing to make your wife happy and giving her security. They just want to Fuck....not make love and they want to fuck other women and not have to deal with your ex wive’s bullshit

that’s why women are dumb as ******* when they choose to love their bull and leave the relationship because they were getting the best of both worlds.....security and a husband that treasures them and they had a plethora of hot big dick men to fuck who don’t care if you've gained weight since their college days - as long as you dress sexy as ******* and let me hit......we have a date.
 
This all depends on the character of who you let into your life. I have been with a married woman for sometime now and there is no way in hell that I intend to steal her away. I even have regular couple and a new one and it hasnt crossed my mind nor will it ever. The professional guys that are in this lifestyle respect it because I see myself only as an added excitement to the relationship. It is not my place to cause issues nor to fix any issues.
Some people get into this lifestyle and then want to seek to destroy. Keep this fun and everyone will be happy
 
dawg, the question you’ve got to answer is; do you want her ass back when she returns to your doorstep disappointed and disillusioned about her new boyfriend. Bulls don’t really care about doing the ******* you are doing to make your wife happy and giving her security. They just want to Fuck....not make love and they want to fuck other women and not have to deal with your ex wive’s bullshit

that’s why women are dumb as ******* when they choose to love their bull and leave the relationship because they were getting the best of both worlds.....security and a husband that treasures them and they had a plethora of hot big dick men to fuck who don’t care if you've gained weight since their college days - as long as you dress sexy as ******* and let me hit......we have a date.
she is long gone from my life. I made a mistake by condoning her behavior in an effort to make her happy. She went on to have two more black children by her lover but has now moved on to another boyfriend. I learned my lesson and only posted my story in hope of helping someone else make the same mistake that I did.
 
A good wife is like a good medicine ?, to your body n soul, to love ❤️ you n make you feel better than a king ?. She is a blessing and a keeper.

A bad wife is like a sharp thorn in your body, every time you dig, scratch or attempt to get rid of her, the painful and miserable ? you will feel. She is a curse, a nightmare that you never wish it upon your worst enemy.

One evening, I went out to dinner with my family. I saw a pretty young lady with a black gentleman, who was not her husband. They sat at the bar across the table from me. She seemed to be nervous ?, uncomfortable and kind of looking around to see if someone knows her. I knew right away she was in this lifestyle by her husband, and a beginner.

I decided to walk up to her; when her date went away to the bathroom, I dropped her a small note on the table (Run away from sexual immorality, Jesus loves you). I was about to walk away, she said: who are you, I turned around n she started to sob crying ?. I said go home, pray and cry ? out to God, She got up n left the restaurant in a hurry n she didn’t look back, n I walked back to my family’s table.

If you truly love ❤️ yourself, your family and your wife, DON’T share, expose or push your wife into this lifestyle.
 
she is long gone from my life. I made a mistake by condoning her behavior in an effort to make her happy. She went on to have two more black children by her lover but has now moved on to another boyfriend. I learned my lesson and only posted my story in hope of helping someone else make the same mistake that I did.

Seems like you came out better. I know you loved your wife but what a life of instability chasing Big dick, having ******* and just moving on to other guys.....NO BUENO
 
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