My wife did not want to be shared.
She did not understand why men might want their friends to try her out.
It took six months for her to agree to be shared...but then described it as the most sexually exciting night she had had!!!
Once shared she did not want 'not to be shared' and had no qualms about being propositioned by groups of men...after all no one back home was ever likely to find out...
I did find it stomach clenching whenever I realized she was contemplating letting a group of African men have her, but mostly she was shared when out on dates, or at a party, or at he Harare Women's Club, when I was not present. Of course the response of the Africans when they realized my wife was actually contemplating letting them have her was electric as well