Are There Any Husbands Here Who Regret Letting Their wife Play?
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I have promised Chris NEVER to send ANY pictures of our family. She's a teacher.
I think that it is possible to have a very healthy relationship as a cuckold couple.
There is a lot of love and mutual respect in our marriage. And Julia is growing up in an atmosphere of love.
I consider us to be a normal family, except for the cuckolding lifestyle. We're by the way both teachers.
Not sure if understand you correctly. I believe that she can always enjoy the intimacy of sex. You do not have to be a cuckold to achieve that. But cuckolding has given our sex-life an extra dimension.
Many women are extra horny when they are pregnant. So was Chris, and we both enjoyed her pregnancy. So did Michael because he had a lot of sex with Chris.
It is certainly a slippery slope and not for everyone.
We learned that early too. I am not allowed to cum until after he leaves
This is why I am attempting to pursue this with a FWB, and not a wife, or a girlfriend. The idea is, if she gets into this, I would know where we stand long before (and if) we took the relationship to another level. Managed expectations, I would say.
You would hope that your relationship is strong enough, that she is really wanting to do this for the sex, but still loves you, and you're her soulmate (or something like that). Otherwise, she may not see a need for you (as the white guy) and run away from home. Although, there is something erotic about a formerly prim-and-proper white wife just totally losing herself in it, and going to be with a black bull, and getting gangbanged by him and his buddies.
You would hope that your relationship is strong enough, that she is really wanting to do this for the sex, but still loves you, and you're her soulmate (or something like that). Otherwise, she may not see a need for you (as the white guy) and run away from home. Although, there is something erotic about a formerly prim-and-proper white wife just totally losing herself in it, and going to be with a black bull, and getting gangbanged by him and his buddies.
Being betrayed puts me into an uncontrolled rage. I don’t like games, lies or cheating. For some guys here it’s a turn on. That’s fine. But I refuse to believe that because my wife and I are good swingers, that if I let her play with a black man, I am suddenly inferior. Total horse *******.
To me, it's all about agreed-upon terms before doing this. If it's not agreed on, yes, that can leave you feeling betrayed, and long-term, that is a recipe for failure.
I/we are exactly the same, a couple of times i've cum unintentionally before they are done, and then watching them fuck for another hour is still exciting, but there is this knot in my stomach that I can't dismiss.
Unless you have a few masochistic elements in your personality, cuckolding can be quite hard to deal with. I lost my fiancé to another man she was fucking for about 12 months. I couldn't get enough of her when I would smell his stale cum on her, but sure enough, she loved the sex, but as soon as he offered her a life better than I could... she left me for him, and fell pregnant to him 6 months later. Took me years to get over it
That is something that I will not stand for. The idea of being in the wonderful trusting relationship, then allowing her to have sex with another man, and wrap it all up by her leaving? Where is the honor or love in that? That is how these women treat their men that give them a great sexual opportunity? Thanks for the advice. The more guys I talk to, the less likely this will happen.Unless you have a few masochistic elements in your personality, cuckolding can be quite hard to deal with. I lost my fiancé to another man she was fucking for about 12 months. I couldn't get enough of her when I would smell his stale cum on her, but sure enough, she loved the sex, but as soon as he offered her a life better than I could... she left me for him, and fell pregnant to him 6 months later. Took me years to get over it
I think you're either born a cuckold or not. Its the only way I know how to live my life and have for over 25 years. For me there is something very primal about it, it just feel right for me. I am guessing thats why i am a beta male and also a bi-submissive one at that.
When my wife has been with an alpha male and he's marked his territory, when I then get to have a turn with her, there is something that just feels very right and who I am meant to be. Its a very personal emotion only true or born cuckolds feel or understand. The alpha bulls feel and understand it as well and usually have a similar need to spread their seed and impregnate as many wives as they can, it seems to be in their DNA as well.
I think its natural to be worried, its not an easy thing to accept at times. It looks fun but when it happens it can be different from reading about it.
I agree. Why not just enjoy the sex?
This is something that worries me. You think you know someone and then a change happens in their life, a change you help make happen, and it completely backfires. This is only supposed to be for some new excitement and a different style of sex, not ending a life long commitment. Not to mention those children are now going to see a black man that took mommy away from us and instill resentment.
