Are some men born as natural cuckolds?

[WillandSusn]

I have spoken to quite a few gents in their 70's who are just discovering cuckolding or acting on it. We know of a couple in their 70's where they live in a retirement village and the wife 'entertains' a lot of the single men during the day. A lot of the men live there, are friends with them and he plays golf with a lot of them. So its never too late I guess

men in 70s often have wives in 60s and 50s and some have girlfriends in 40s and 30s. These women are often more sexually interested , motivated, and active while the men often watch and wait

 

[Chetansha]

men in 70s often have wives in 60s and 50s and some have girlfriends in 40s and 30s. These women are often more sexually interested , motivated, and active while the men often watch and wait

Conversely, men in their 70's...80's...even 90's have fathered offspring
with bizarre behaviour bedding much younger women.

 

[WillandSusn]

What about the twentieth century ? My *******'s family produced 7 *******...and, Incredibly, he's still alive out of all 7...planning to be 100 years old

. Times were tough before 1900s. Many children never survived too adulthood. Today most babies survive where there is better medical care. Still tough in some places like somalia and Syria. Grandmother had 13 brothers and sisters. Five died before 25. Other Grandmother had 2 *******. One died @ 12. 1930s were tough times.

 

[WillandSusn]

Conversely, men in their 70's...80's...even 90's have fathered offspring
with bizarre behaviour bedding much younger women.

. Some people living into 90s. Others don't survive into 60s. Some heathier men still active in 70s and 80s with younger women but most have lost it by then. They play golf instead

 

[Chetansha]

. Times were tough before 1900s. Many children never survived too adulthood. Today most babies survive where there is better medical care. Still tough in some places like somalia and Syria. Grandmother had 13 brothers and sisters. Five died before 25. Other Grandmother had 2 *******. One died @ 12. 1930s were tough times.

City slickers...urbanites have no friggin' clue. Rural Americans have, and still
face the crises that most other Americans easily overlook. AND, we're talking
about white folks. Shamefully still indigenous peoples...American Indians,
Native peoples, first Nations are still without sanitation, clean drinking water
and safe housing adequate to sustain any economic growth. Most of this
racial discrimination invariably omits. " our people "

I have spoken . Chetansha/ Red Hawk ??☄⛈

 

[Goliathc]

I don't believe there's something like a natural born cuckold. In my case, if I only think of the occasion that triggered in me these feelings and instincts and following times, of course, I should say I'm a cuck and was born for this. But that is only one side of the story. Besides being normally endowed, I had a series of relationships that I can be sure were freely monogamic and both sides were happy with each other - for the time they lasted. Sometimes, situations that are surreal - even the one I'm now in, luckily married and all - can model your mindset with contradictions. Like being full aware you have been cuckolded and wishing it were more than that. You gradually accept you're a cuckold by imposing those situations on yourself, furthering your status quo.

 

[WillandSusn]

City slickers...urbanites have no friggin' clue. Rural Americans have, and still
face the crises that most other Americans easily overlook. AND, we're talking
about white folks. Shamefully still indigenous peoples...American Indians,
Native peoples, first Nations are still without sanitation, clean drinking water
and safe housing adequate to sustain any economic growth. Most of this
racial discrimination invariably omits. " our people "

I have spoken . Chetansha/ Red Hawk ??☄⛈

. Yes. We have many in need without millions more escaping from the crime in central america and mexico.

 

[WillandSusn]

I don't believe there's something like a natural born cuckold. In my case, if I only think of the occasion that triggered in me these feelings and instincts and following times, of course, I should say I'm a cuck and was born for this. But that is only one side of the story. Besides being normally endowed, I had a series of relationships that I can be sure were freely monogamic and both sides were happy with each other - for the time they lasted. Sometimes, situations that are surreal - even the one I'm now in, luckily married and all - can model your mindset with contradictions. Like being full aware you have been cuckolded and wishing it were more than that. You gradually accept you're a cuckold by imposing those situations on yourself, furthering your status quo.

. Clearly there is a transistion at some point. And an awareness that she has good and perhaps better sex with another. Then there is the realization that her sex with others is a huge turn on. Then there is seeing her in new and different ways that she has never displayed before.

 

[stephannick85]

I think so

 

[dudesimon78]

I don't know all I do know is I'm a guy that girls will chat/flirt with but, when it comes down to dating it doesn't usually work out, deff worse since I started watching IR porn, so I don't know if I'm in advertantly giving out some kinda vibe, or if I'm just unconsciously checking out other girls when I am out with potential gfs.

 

[wannabe cuck]

Even erected, I barely hit the 3 inches, but you still probably smaller than me.
I totally relate to what you described, I am a great dad but my sex skills suck I am not only small, I ejaculate prematurely and I have never been able to pleasure my wife during intercourse (want to clarify she is the only woman I had have sex with, I was a virgin when we married), the only very few orgasm I have been able to give to my wive had been w my fingers and while licking her, and not always could make it happen.Trying to satisfy my wife sexually was too stressful for me and never really enjoyed it, since I accepted my condition, and let others to perform my sexual duties for me, I found out that I enjoy more just masturbating while watching my wife with others than having intercourse w her, and we decided to base our marriage on thet type of relationship, of course when we toke that decision we did not know anything about cuckolding, not even that is was such a common situation, but had
been our life style since our second year of marriage

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This sounds so familiar to me, now I have accepted my place it feels so natural.

 

[WillandSusn]

This sounds so familiar to me, now I have accepted my place it feels so natural.

. I wonder if this has anything to do with why we are now seeing more transgender people. Where men find thenselves as totally inadequate males. ?

 

[wannabe cuck]

. I wonder if this has anything to do with why we are now seeing more transgender people. Where men find thenselves as totally inadequate males. ?

This could be very true.
We only got into the lifestyle early last year, but we both wish we had discovered it earlier.

 

[Goliathc]

. Clearly there is a transistion at some point. And an awareness that she has good and perhaps better sex with another. Then there is the realization that her sex with others is a huge turn on. Then there is seeing her in new and different ways that she has never displayed before.

I haven't got to that point, I think. I've been cheated on and cucked by different women, but there hasn't been too much progress with each of them. E.g. I let my current wife have sex rels with a countryman of her's, but that was due to my own circumstances. Now that she's pregnant she is unwilling to do more and we have a canonical marriage.

 

[Easygliderpro]

As you can tell from my username I consider myself to have been born a cuckold. Let me explain why and what this means. First, nature clearly has multiple examples of cuckolding. Situations where the female seeks the dominate male for impregnation and a beta male for maternal care or groups in which there is a single dominate male who has full sexual rights over the females of the group. In the situations the beta males naturally take their place as providers, caregivers and companions to the females. (Sex for them is often rare if ever and they accept this.) The wide spread interest and practice of cuckolding among humans combined with research that shows this practice was present among ancient tribal groups, suggest that humans are also designed for cuckolding relationships. If this is the case and clearly there is more evidence for than against! Than there are males who are born to be alpha bulls and males that are born to be beta cuckolds.
I consider myself to obviously be a beta cuckold for the following reasons. The most obvious indication is the fact that I have very small testicles and a small penis. So, naturally I am not physically designed to be a bull. Also, a very real scientific paper recently stated that men with small testicles make better dads. (For the record, yes I am a great highly involved dad!) This points once again to cuckolds being born and not "made." The research shows all the reasons that there is a direct link between small testicles and faithful men who are naturally great caregivers. This is what cuckolds; not the men who have the sex but rather the men who care for the females and their young after the alphas provided for them sexually.
Personally, I have always been the a beta to any female I have been with. And certainly willing to stay loyal and forgive any infidelity on her part. (Before I was married I had two girlfriends cheat on me and I "forgave" them both and tired to "make it work." One stayed with me for several more months and yes she cheated several more times. The other was ready to end the relationship when I found out about her cheating on me.) My wife cuckold me after four years of marriage and I was not only fine with it, I encouraged her to do so. I was not "into" interracial cuckolding before marriage, that was something my wife basically introduced to me.
After we had been married a few years I got her to open up about her fantasies and past experiences. She told me that when she was in high school she had a black friend whom she danced with one night at a school dance. He got close and started grinding his cock up against her and became erect. She said it was by far the biggest cock she had ever felt and bigger than she dreamed of or thought possible. (This was the early 80's before internet porn. For the most part small town southern white girls did not know about big black cock. And when they did hear about them white guys assured them it was a "myth.") She said that after that she would masturbate over and over thinking about his big cock.
This lead to us watching interracial porn together and of course our mutual interest in big black cock. Now I do not even like the idea of cuckolding that involves white men it and neither does she! Over our 24 years of marriage my wife has cuckold me with four black men. Two of which were long term relationships! I have never been jealous or upset about this at all instead I accepted it and loved every minute of it. In fact, at the time she does not have a bull in her life and I honestly wish she would! Anyway, back to the my understanding of means to be a naturally born cuckold and why I say that I am one. Hopefully, you have enjoyed this and maybe you relate to it. I would love the hear other peoples thoughts and experiences on the subject!

For crying out loud, no one is born this way, it’s a choice determined by your actions.

Can anyone stand in front of a community, or a judge and say, I am born as a thief, so I am not guilty, or as a teacher without proper education and licensing? A thief cannot be one, unless he/she chooses to steal.....and so on...... lol ?.

Every person has experienced a decision or a time in their lives when they’ve just been torn.

Both choices have their benefits and their drawbacks, but deep down you always feel there is one that is better than the other.

life is full of choices, choose wisely.

 

[Easygliderpro]

I think so..??..

This is a funny picture ?..... no such things lol ?....again, it’s a funny one ?

 

[Goliathc]

For crying out loud, no one is born this way, it’s a choice determined by your actions.

Can anyone stand in front of a community, or a judge and say, I am born as a thief, so I am not guilty, or as a teacher without proper education and licensing? A thief cannot be one, unless he/she chooses to steal.....and so on...... lol ?.

Every person has experienced a decision or a time in their lives when they’ve just been torn.

Both choices have their benefits and their drawbacks, but deep down you always feel there is one that is better than the other.

life is full of choices, choose wisely.

That's your take on the matter. Some of us react completely negatively to the situation and others discover a kick and feel excited. Of course, you can always "choose". Obviously, you're not among those of us who feel that way, and that's ok.

 

[tobecucked]

I think I was born a cuckold as always been small and It did not ever grow so it the same size now as I had when little .and for some reason always wanted my wife to meet bigger guys like my mate jim and tony that I believed both had my wife as she called there names in bed mmmm nice made my small little one swell ,but not as much as when wife called paul who was a young black lad my wife fell for big time and shes not ever thinking of white guy since that day . this is what she had to play with can you blame her going with other guys I dont

 

[wifepleaserBob]

I don't believe there's something like a natural born cuckold. In my case, if I only think of the occasion that triggered in me these feelings and instincts and following times, of course, I should say I'm a cuck and was born for this. But that is only one side of the story. Besides being normally endowed, I had a series of relationships that I can be sure were freely monogamic and both sides were happy with each other - for the time they lasted. Sometimes, situations that are surreal - even the one I'm now in, luckily married and all - can model your mindset with contradictions. Like being full aware you have been cuckolded and wishing it were more than that. You gradually accept you're a cuckold by imposing those situations on yourself, furthering your status quo.

I agree,I also wondered why it is that so many white husbands want to see our wives taken by dominant black men and turn them into sluts. That is how I changed. I realized how much my wife desired these black guys to take and use her and as I stood and watched these Dom lovers and they would tell me to clean and prep for them and my wife was okay with it. I knew I was forever a cuck to my wife and her Black lovers.

 

[Goliathc]

I agree,I also wondered why it is that so many white husbands want to see our wives taken by dominant black men and turn them into sluts. That is how I changed. I realized how much my wife desired these black guys to take and use her and as I stood and watched these Dom lovers and they would tell me to clean and prep for them and my wife was okay with it. I knew I was forever a cuck to my wife and her Black lovers.

If back then, on the first time, my cheating gf would have come clear with me, I still don't know if I had down this way. I haven't even tried to talk later girls into this. Although I felt aroused by what happened to me with that gf, it was IR porn that has led me onto this path, I think. Then my lady neighbour. Only now I want my wife to be blacked.