My husband was so into it at first until I started to do things then got turned off
Any guys wish this fetish didn’t excite them?
My husband was so into it at first until I started to do things then got turned off
I have seen and heard of hubby's getting turned off by it once the wife starts to enjoy it more than they both thought. What sort of things do you do that puts him off?
I started to dance and dress up to go out and just started to flirt with other men, exactly what he wanted me to do for a long time.
EnglishWife4BBC
Couple
Oh ok. I was like that early on, my ex-wife used to openly flirt with other men, married or single and I always used get stressed she wasn't discreet enough or others may figure out I was a cuckold or that I had a tiny cock. If she got ******* she was capable of anything or telling anyone too much. I took me years to get over the jealousy, envy, frustration aside from worrying about all the other bits. One day I caught her passionately kissing a gent in a toilet cubicle at my cousins wedding with friends and family only metres away. That stressed me more than seeing her being fucked by guys at the swingers parties we used to attend. She had Histrionic Personality Disorder and just couldn't understand there were boundaries and she used sex for constant male attention or to get a reaction from others including angry wives.
I felt ashamed for a while. I've since then accepted that it's just what turns me on. If I was to wish that it didn't turn me on, it's probably because I don't believe that it will ever be a reality.
I've heard of husband's flaking out at different times such as the first meet and calling it off. I've gone down the emotional "what if" path numerous times asking myself "what if" questions about my reactions to what I might see.
I've attempted to address the fact I might be unprepared, in fact I know I am not fully equipped for my wife's response to a black man making love to her and how much she gets into it and have established a mental contingency plan to sort out my emotions of angst.
That happened to me the very first threesome we did. After that it was much easier. All it took for me was to talk to my wife and to get reassurance that she still loved me.
Only when we have a dry spell due to lack of steady Lover or lack of extracurricular play in general.
Where are all the erotic-minded, horny, hygenic, sensible black men who would like to have open, welcoming, risk-free, white pussy wrapped around them twice a month or more?
hello cuckold anonymous group 
Yes I do feel ashamed because it is an uncommon fetish and I know personally no one else who has it. I already love feet
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Yes I do feel ashamed because it is an uncommon fetish and I know personally no one else who has it. I already love feethttps://openload.co/f/XEUmPRZIJkA/Riley_Reid_hija_fenomenali_u_taqla'_żewġ_żbub_suwed_ġo_sormha
WolfgangVZ
Male
Might be a little embarassing if people found it but as long as that doesnt happen then fuck it. I like what I like
When in my early 30's, married, I realized that fetish was exciting for me and the fantasy would make masturbation much more intense, I did not understand how that could be. I had always been very assertive sexually, very possessive. 10 years later, in therapy I discovered it was triggered by very strong abandomnent issues that I have. The fear of losing (being abandonned) my gf/wife to another man and watching them have sex intensified my emotions, my fears. But after my orgasm, if it had been real and happening in front of me, I would have stopped it most likely using violence. For me it's only a fantasy. I love sex with women too much. If ever a woman comes into my life and at one point tells me she needs to have sex with other men, I'll either leave her or tell her to go ahead, but that I won't be at home when she comes back, I'll be somwhere with another woman having great sex!
bound2bmine
Male
Yes I feel this way sometimes. I lost my wife and marriage to this lifestyle and like a moth to a flame I encouraged her the entire time. But there was nothing hotter then watching her lover take her. So I'm not sure I would change anything on a redo.
My husband doesn't like it.
Mehoffj144
Male
I'm the same way for black women. No sexual interest in white women. I like meeting and befriending women like us.
Well said!
Mehoffj144
Male
Would u still be friends with a white guy as a companion? That be fun if you hold the keys to my chastity!
Are you going to stop because of this ?
No I didnt. He is the one that wanted me to do this and then when I started to do things he told me to stop. Well too late.
