Honestly, as hubby in this due of 25+ yrs and still only in early 40's yes. Both a blessing and curse at times. Love the sight, sounds, turned on to extreme, think about her getting it again or watching the videos we have of her getting slammed. Then other times it is a curse as a lot of work, sometimes she changes mind, etc, etc.. I had therapist explain this is very common fantasy and or issue and that think of it like peaks and valleys. When working up till climax on top of world. Once you cum, same for wife sometimes, the endorphins are released and you come down like a ******* high and build back up again. So you just got to remember the doctors advice, it is a hill and valley condition and cumming releases the endorphins and makes you come down like depressant until you start to build again. I should start a thread where I explain tons of things that have helped and assisted, etc. as have had a lot of experience in this or reach out to me as I or wife will get the message.