Any assertive white hubbys here, not just passive cucks types?

[firedogg81]

I’ve always preferred couples with mature, non-wimpy Husbands. I think the whole sub-Husband is just some non-sense that is perpetuated in porn. From my experience most Hubs want to sit back, jack off and watch the action or if they want to guide my BBC in.....hey! I’m cool with that too!

that sounds about right

 

[WANylonHWCPL]

This is what we are interested in also, I have no intention or interest in being someone elses doormat, I am the dom in our sexual relationship and I share her on our terms. The black thing is an added bonus for us though, its not our sole focus.

My penis is average though so I dont live up to your requirements there.

Perfectly stated

 

[atmamitra]

The arrangement where the husband is still the husband but just happens to let his wife have an extra partner is ideal to me. That way I can talk man to man with him and make sure we're on the same page and making sure his wife is happy. I dont want to deal with some panty wearing, caged up bitch that isnt worthy of looking me in the eye. I dont care for the bull title or honestly any of these titles. I just see myself as an extra guy to help spice things up. The cuck and "bbc whore" thing does nothing for me.

I am 100 % with you man! Well said! Glad to hear there is some sanity out there! Not judging what other like just nice to bring another perspective for some balance!

 

[OnTheTown2]

I’m assertive for sure... I set the whole thing up! Fun to find 2 or 3 like minded guys and make it a team effort (where I’m a full member of the team) We can take turns holding the camera too

 

[MrsAndMrT]

My husband has a very large cock,is very alpha and usually takes charge whenever extra men or women join us for sex.He is only cuckold in the sense that I have sex with other people,but then I'm also a cuckquean as he also has sex with other people.We do dabble with the humiliation aspect sometimes,but overall we just like fucking other people with the full knowledge,support,encouragement and participation of each other

 

[Gr8ego]

There is a plethora of passive cucks types here, meaning those who take a back seat to letting their wives be taken by a black man while they video or avoid being in their company altogether. I'm curious whether there are any assertive white hubbys here also, those with decent sized manhood who likes to invite a black into a private situation where both you and him enjoy your wife. That is a mighty hot fuck too, you know? Just in case you don't know. See video link below for what I mean.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/media/mfm-bbc-hotwife-stag.112856/

Would love to hook up with a hubby like this provided I could find one in the New York area. PMs welcomed.

I am definitely an alpha male that enjoys sharing his wife

 

[skoocum]

I’m dominant. My wife submitted to me sexually 4 years ago willingly! There are more dynamics to the lifestyle than couples to practice them all . Our dynamic is simply I set up all encounters with both women and men! We use ladies together ! She gets wet to dogging, theatre slut stuff, gangbangs, and we both love interracial sex (women too). She wants to see me fuck black ladies (her too) and I her with black men. We’re out here.

wow. do i read that right; you take her out dogging, and to adult theaters and she gets gangbanged, too? she's beautiful

 

[Funcouple_99]

We’re definitely not into the cuckold, degradation type of scenario. To each their own but we don’t want anyone disrespectful to either of us. We choose to have extracurricular fun to add some extra fun and spice to our relationship. I find the caged no sex stuff weird. I like to watch then participate live action porn that you get to join in with, what’s better than that?

 

[lexi<3BBC]

I wonder if some alpha husbands can turn move passive overtime after getting the lifestyle...

 

[Bjackson23]

I’m dominant. My wife submitted to me sexually 4 years ago willingly! There are more dynamics to the lifestyle than couples to practice them all . Our dynamic is simply I set up all encounters with both women and men! We use ladies together ! She gets wet to dogging, theatre slut stuff, gangbangs, and we both love interracial sex (women too). She wants to see me fuck black ladies (her too) and I her with black men. We’re out here.

You guys sound awesome

 

[WANylonHWCPL]

wow. do i read that right; you take her out dogging, and to adult theaters and she gets gangbanged, too? she's beautiful

We have not done that yet. It’s what turns her on. These are things we both want to do together. We move slowly but eventually the dogging will happen. It drives her nuts!

 

[skoocum]

We have not done that yet. It’s what turns her on. These are things we both want to do together. We move slowly but eventually the dogging will happen. It drives her nuts!

ahhhh. fantasy now, but eventually you both want to make it happen. sounds like a great marriage! do you share her with your friends?

 

[Gfwatcher]

We’re definitely not into the cuckold, degradation type of scenario. To each their own but we don’t want anyone disrespectful to either of us. We choose to have extracurricular fun to add some extra fun and spice to our relationship. I find the caged no sex stuff weird. I like to watch then participate live action porn that you get to join in with, what’s better than that?

Agree!

 

[Jo Roman]

This hubby can adjust to the desires of others, although he enjoys being assertive, even dominant, for the pleasure of all involved.
My gorgeous wife loves that I can be both sensitive to her needs and able to take charge to heighten our experiences.

She has a body that loves to be taken after extended foreplay and hot talk. And this is what I have to complete the task.



Hoping to share our tools and talents, our energy and passion, with the right couples or individuals.

 

[jdflacpl]

I'm not sure i'm assertive but when we first started swinging it was always a mfm and i was always 1 of the m's. this is when I discovered I was a blessed man in the size department. My whole reason for the mfm was for her to experience a larger cock than mine and we really didn't have any luck with the other white guys. With that said there is special excitement when she is alone with someone

 

[cuckboi206]

I’ve always preferred couples with mature, non-wimpy Husbands. I think the whole sub-Husband is just some non-sense that is perpetuated in porn. From my experience most Hubs want to sit back, jack off and watch the action or if they want to guide my BBC in.....hey! I’m cool with that too!

Cuckold may not be a wimp but he should still be respectful to her Bull.

 

[stacyjaxx]

Stag here not a cuck, not interested in being owned/humiliated. Interested in insainly hot sex for my wife while I watch and join in. We are still only fantaizing but actively looking. Finding just the right guy is not so easy.

 

[design82]

...white hubby here, longtime married to lady in avatar...
...we are both 'turned on' by the idea of her partaking in interracial sex with a black guy.
NO humiliation. NO caging. NO sexual contact between the 2 guys.

SHE is the centre of the action. Our black friend would be the main provider of pleasure for her, during his 'visit'.
I would assist him in giving HER as many orgasms as possible. I would be the 'second cock', and the 'hands' and 'mouth'...whatever / wherever she required it.

I would also provide moral support, and verbal stimuli (both very important, and often overlooked in these situations)

 

[Missouricuck]

I think we would be in this dynamic. I'm not into the cuckold thing, but love the idea of a hotwife or being part of a 3some or more with her. I want to see, and hear, and experience everything else as she gets fucked by a black guy (or anyone that interests her). Participation would be the high point.

I never got to see my wife with her first black lover -- he was scared I might get jealous, and being bigger than him it could end badly for him. He could not be convinced it was not a problem. She had a great time with him. We had the most incredible sex all weekend after her first date. It supercharged us and we had great conversations as their relationship progressed. The second black lover was a 1 night stand at a conference -- very hot, but not participatory. She was really turned on because the 2nd guy hit on her quickly and really wanted her that night. It was the sort of thing she never had happen in her younger days. In contrast, the first guy had been a slow chase and seduction, building up until she just had to find out what he was like.

This is our arrangement as well. I have been present for most of her fun, but she has played alone in a few occasions, though a couple of times she called me to let me listen in. I am fairly well hung (8" ), and I like to use it!

If I'm there, I'm participating, though the guest always gets first honors. I'm not interested in the other guy, incidental contract with the guy to increase her enjoyment is ok. I am a cuckold, not a cuck. Probably because we also are into the swinging lifestyle as well. We've been with the other couple in the same room and in separate rooms in occasion, all just part of the fun and stimulation.

 

[24play]

That is how we are as she just likes more than one cock. Prefers black cock but any cock works if she clicks with them. I always get my share of her pussy during all this. If another male thinks they will be in charge of our sessions they never make the cut.