Any assertive white hubbys here, not just passive cucks types?

[freestatecurious]

Can you be aggressively passive? Aggressively submissive?

Everyone is pursuing their own turn-ons here. I think those guys into the full cuckold thing and humiliation have a tougher time finding the right situation so they pursue it aggressively. And of course they have an audience of others who get off on their humiliation.

For those of us who just want to share wives/girlfriends it is a little easier. It can still be hard to find guys who are willing to have the husband/boyfriend around. I'm also sure that wives are more comfortable on a 1-on-1 date. I know in hindsight that being alone helped my wife relax and enjoy her black lovers. Since she told me all about it, I doubt she would have been so sexual had I been there watching or participating.

 

[B Brown]

Can you be aggressively passive? Aggressively submissive?

Everyone is pursuing their own turn-ons here. I think those guys into the full cuckold thing and humiliation have a tougher time finding the right situation so they pursue it aggressively. And of course they have an audience of others who get off on their humiliation.

For those of us who just want to share wives/girlfriends it is a little easier. It can still be hard to find guys who are willing to have the husband/boyfriend around. I'm also sure that wives are more comfortable on a 1-on-1 date. I know in hindsight that being alone helped my wife relax and enjoy her black lovers. Since she told me all about it, I doubt she would have been so sexual had I been there watching or participating.

There is such as thing called passive aggressive. Never heard of the term aggressive submissive, but I get what you mean.

There are a number of ideas of what cuckold means apparently. If you look up the definition of it though, it simply means a man who's wife has committed adultery.

I don't get too much into definitions or semantics. In a nutshell, my post stemmed from curiosity about whether there are hubbys here who like, enjoy, or are into threesomes, which is a hot alternative to merely watching or taking pics or videoing, or not being around period, so wifey can have a 1 on 1.

What I highlighted in bold. This is true for some wives. I have had one told me she will only go for a 1 on 1 situation with hubby not there because she'd feel embarrassed to have him around when she is with her stud.

 

[freestatecurious]

That was the case with my wife and her first black guy. She really got into it, making out with him, kissing him and everything you would normally do as a date turns to sex. She loved all that and the new sensations of being with a different guy. She never said it, but I'm sure if I had been there she would have held back. There would also have been some "playing to the camera" (me) stuff going on that would have spoiled to passion for them.

I would love to have a video of them together, to look back on now -- it would be so fun to watch.

 

[Khrises4u]

There is a plethora of passive cucks types here, meaning those who take a back seat to letting their wives be taken by a black man while they video or avoid being in their company altogether. I'm curious whether there are any assertive white hubbys here also, those with decent sized manhood who likes to invite a black into a private situation where both you and him enjoy your wife. That is a mighty hot fuck too, you know? Just in case you don't know. See video link below for what I mean.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/media/mfm-bbc-hotwife-stag.112856/

Would love to hook up with a hubby like this provided I could find one in the New York area. PMs welcomed.

I know well what you mean! I'm switch, and so is she. We have run the Gambit from me treating her like a whore for sale and fucking her with the bull to her treating me like her bitch and making me watch. Both are very hot, and we thoroughly enjoyed exploring and pressing on limits we thought we had... Exploring sexually with eachbother and with close friends is just outstanding fun!

 

[Alax77]

Dominant white husband here that loves watching my wife put on a show for me. We are not into the cuck scene at all. We view the men/women we invite into our bed as nothing more than toys.

 

[B Brown]

Dominant white husband here that loves watching my wife put on a show for me. We are not into the cuck scene at all. We view the men/women we invite into our bed as nothing more than toys.

You view men and women you invite into your bed and nothing more than toys? Toys? Swell.

 

[mogs and pete]

This was the situation we had with our black male friend for several years. None of this cuck and bull thing. To be blunt it was more threesome all together (nothin gay!), then some of his turn alone , then mine. As our guest, of course, he had first call. I don’t think I’d want it any other way really. Hope you find what you’re looking for

At last. Soe other couple that runs their sex life like us.
This way, ALL 3 of us get satisfied.

 

[SarasotaBBCLuvr]

If you try and play my hubby for a simple cuck ... You better run because, he is grabbing his guns... he doesn't play that bitch ******* especially in his own home ... And he has a 8" dick soo it's not like all white guys are little...
"To me when we play"
BBCs are live sex toys ... taboo, naughty, a contrast being used in front of hubby and they have to have size. Its an experience and it helps keep sex fun ... an extension...
We play with females too!!!
That's all good for those that play that way that they are disrespected and enjoy it and
those that pretend its because of some sort of superiority but, "Not all of us do" ;o)
What they say Don't always believe the hype ;o)~

 

[B Brown]

You try and play my hubby for a cuck ... You better run because, he is grabbing his guns... he doesn't play that bitch ******* especially in his own home ... And he has a 8" dick soo...
BBCs are live sex toys to keep sex fun ... we play with females too...

He he. Ok.

 

[MrNick]

I’ve always preferred couples with mature, non-wimpy Husbands. I think the whole sub-Husband is just some non-sense that is perpetuated in porn. From my experience most Hubs want to sit back, jack off and watch the action or if they want to guide my BBC in.....hey! I’m cool with that too!

 

[MonsterRain]

My husband is NOT passive and we do not do humiliation or anything of that sort. Now there will be no lunches or dinners like private dates and there will never be anything where he isn’t involved in at least all aspects of the planning and knowing.

He’s my husband so that’s that and at the same time it isn’t about using a bull or denigrating them as men and human beings.

It’s fun between consenting adults with respect for each of us. So it can blur the line during the fun a little bit if that’s where it is going but the line isn’t crossed so I mean it makes sense to me at least.

My hubby doesn’t want to touch a bull or whatever and I’d probably wonder if he did so like well, if he watches it’s to watch my eyes and energy along with keeping me safe and all that stuff.

 

[lexi<3BBC]

This very much describes my husband. He is almost 8 inches and joins in unless he is dominanting by sharing me and making me submit to another man

 

[Rjb1957]

My wife has discovered bbc. No cuck or bulls here. I video but am involved with wife before and always after

 

[britt]

my guy is not passive

 

[xbbc561]

Dominant white husband here that loves watching my wife put on a show for me. We are not into the cuck scene at all. We view the men/women we invite into our bed as nothing more than toys.

That happens to be my issue with some of the couples I play with. Being viewed as a toy. Yeah, I have a bbc, but its attached to someone. I find it funny because some of these couples ask respect to be treated like a person, but don't do the same back and think its ok to do so because they have the pussy.

If both side agree to terms, no problem.

But I just hate how some couples approach men like that.

 

[WelshIRcuck]

I can be assertive by I prefer the submissive cuckold role - only to big black men though!

 

[B Brown]

That happens to be my issue with some of the couples I play with. Being viewed as a toy. Yeah, I have a bbc, but its attached to someone. I find it funny because some of these couples ask respect to be treated like a person, but don't do the same back and think its ok to do so because they have the pussy.

If both side agree to terms, no problem.

But I just hate how some couples approach men like that.

I hear you. The minute anybody gives an inkling or suggestion of being disrespectful I am out. Just don't have time for any of that bullshit.

 

[xbbc561]

I hear you. The minute anybody gives an inkling or suggestion of being disrespectful I am out. Just don't have time for any of that bullshit.

Yeah, on my profiles I don't call myself BBC or anything like that. I just made that name here.

I don't email couples "hey, you free right now? how big are your wife's boobs? Is she tight?"

So I don't like when I get those questions about my penis without any introduction so, I binned those.

Respect for respect. My profile indicates what I'm looking for and I talk in the manner how I would like couples or people to talk to me.

 

[B Brown]

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Yeah, on my profiles I don't call myself BBC or anything like that. I just made that name here.

I don't email couples "hey, you free right now? how big are your wife's boobs? Is she tight?"

So I don't like when I get those questions about my penis without any introduction so, I binned those.

Respect for respect. My profile indicates what I'm looking for and I talk in the manner how I would like couples or people to talk to me.

I hear you loud and clear. One of the most common complaints I have heard from people I speak to privately is a lack of basic common sense about how to address potential mates on here. Unrealistic expectations and a basic lack of respect is always high up on the list of unwanted behavior.

 

[Alax77]

That happens to be my issue with some of the couples I play with. Being viewed as a toy. Yeah, I have a bbc, but its attached to someone. I find it funny because some of these couples ask respect to be treated like a person, but don't do the same back and think its ok to do so because they have the pussy.

If both side agree to terms, no problem.

But I just hate how some couples approach men like that.

We Def do not disrespect the people we play with and we approach both men and women this way. For my wife and I our playing is all about each other not our "toy". We are very clear about what we are looking for and what we expect.