An open letter to all members - a real member / admin commentary.

First off... I do agree with your comment about the "Einsteins" on this site, as well as the obvious hubbies getting off on posting pics of their wives who have no interest in this lifestyle...
But, Obviously you are not on this site to actually MEET anyone, anyone SERIOUS about meeting others in person will "bother" to get verified. This is something that only makes this site better, when "Real" people are communicating. And not EVERYONE has to "want to hookup" as a "real" person, that is always the choice of those involved...
That said, a Verified person can still be "played" by someone who is also verified as well as those who are not... and by the same token, someone NOT verified may be "more Real" (follow through with a meet) than a Real/verified member...

There isnt any perfect way of approaching this, on this site or any others... but I believe the process of verifying by photo, is a positive step that people who really want to meet others in Person, or who care about what this site CAN be and offer, can do for themselves and others, and should have no issue with doing. If they are real...
Just mho.
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"Einstein" priceless, somewhat fitting for the pseudo-psychologists that pander their opinions on this site... based on what? First hand experience? Verification of a person on the site is helpful but realistically the majority of the persons on here are fakes or posers living out a fantasy for their wives, if they have one or an imaginary girlfriend as is so often stated here.... Having engaged with at least two cross town contacts and found nothing but excuses for real meets it shows that pictures mean nothing... as you all know most any warm blooded female with boobs can find a guy.. and waste less time on fantasy... Done here.
 
"Einstein" priceless, somewhat fitting for the pseudo-psychologists that pander their opinions on this site... based on what? First hand experience? Verification of a person on the site is helpful but realistically the majority of the persons on here are fakes or posers living out a fantasy for their wives, if they have one or an imaginary girlfriend as is so often stated here.... Having engaged with at least two cross town contacts and found nothing but excuses for real meets it shows that pictures mean nothing... as you all know most any warm blooded female with boobs can find a guy.. and waste less time on fantasy... Done here.
I agree to a certain extent but then again if you cannot see through the fakes don't use the site the white sissy boys are insecure and everywhere you don't see black boys being sissies.There's many nice real people here.
 
I've been reading this interesting thread. It's got me thinking!
We've just joined this site & this being the first site other than Craig's we've posted up a profile with pics. Mrs wants a spray tan before we take & post the verification pics. We are just getting back to normal from the holidays so rushed at moment. We are no fools! & have had lots of fakers pestering, constantly liking, and just sending "hey" ...... wtf!! We had loads on Craig's to. Please tell us as newbies are the "real person " defo real people! The ones so far seem to be.

And what's "gold member" ?

Was good to read some of this stuff obviously posted by propper real people. Our kinda people.

Kind regards Prisim & uk Hotwife

I believe that 'Gold Member' is a status achieved based on your level of involvement and feedback/performance. Example, I had both 'Well-Known member' and 'Gold Member' tags for about a year before I got Verified. I post up-to-date content and engage with other members on a regular basis. Compiled a TON of likes and messages.
Not that I live and breathe by these statistics, but a person's 'social cache' online works similar to social status in the real world.
I imagine that a people person is usually the same both online and offline. ;)
 
I have recently joined yes!!! but I am a cuckold who has enjoyed the lifestyle for 29 years, I don't often particicpate with her and lovers and much prefer locally tat she is seen as a cheating wife!
I spend loads of evenings/nights alone while she is out
the lifestyle is something I find I am hooked on especially interacial content and that's down to fact she loves black cock
I dropped in her looking for real cuckolding subjects but as I am finding out most content is from porn sies and pics from the web
I'm hardly a long term resident on this site but would love to suggest a section purely for amateur posts and pics
and admin regulate and remove any other material
but as I said that's just my SUGGESTION
 
no just hoping I would find more genuine amateur type images posted and real people not rehashed net pics
 
RE:
....Once a pic is posted on any open website, it instantaneously becomes a "net pic" ... there are plenty of amateur pics on the internet now that can challenge any paid professional pics. If you've noticed, porn shops are going out of business daily ... they can't compete with internet competition anymore. There is no pic, of any topic, to my knowledge, that can not immediately be accessed on the internet in amateur context ... the professionals simply can't compete with that legality. I really expect major restrictions to be placed on internet porn & access during the Trump administration. Enjoy the "freebies" while they last.
....If one is strictly looking for specific, amateur porn pics, the best "free" place to find them are the tumblr blogs to my knowledge.
 
RE:

....Once a pic is posted on any open website, it instantaneously becomes a "net pic" ... there are plenty of amateur pics on the internet now that can challenge any paid professional pics. If you've noticed, porn shops are going out of business daily ... they can't compete with internet competition anymore. There is no pic, of any topic, to my knowledge, that can not immediately be accessed on the internet in amateur context ... the professionals simply can't compete with that legality. I really expect major restrictions to be placed on internet porn & access during the Trump administration. Enjoy the "freebies" while they last.
....If one is strictly looking for specific, amateur porn pics, the best "free" place to find them are the tumblr blogs to my knowledge.
Good tips bro........Thanks....!:qos:
 
do any of you have any advice for my wife and myself in terms of what to look for with someone who might be a fake? It's hard to know sometimes, and we get lots of messages from people who are unverified and seem nice, but it's hard to trust. Any tips would be appreciated.
 
I have been on this site for a while now and appreciate this discussion . I am "real" but it doesn't seem to matter. I am developing a sense of who is real and who isn't , although either way I'm not getting what I want. Fortunately ,though disappointed , I don't rely on this site for anything except the occasional thrill from those who are not fake.
 
RE:

....Once a pic is posted on any open website, it instantaneously becomes a "net pic" ... there are plenty of amateur pics on the internet now that can challenge any paid professional pics. If you've noticed, porn shops are going out of business daily ... they can't compete with internet competition anymore. There is no pic, of any topic, to my knowledge, that can not immediately be accessed on the internet in amateur context ... the professionals simply can't compete with that legality. I really expect major restrictions to be placed on internet porn & access during the Trump administration. Enjoy the "freebies" while they last.
....If one is strictly looking for specific, amateur porn pics, the best "free" place to find them are the tumblr blogs to my knowledge.
Trump?' Really? N F W... Wow
 
Trump?' Really? N F W... Wow
Have you not noticed a lot of websites are not accessable anymore? Being blocked by your internet provider because they're getting fined and closed down by government. The religious right wants porn removed from the internet ... period. Even sites like this will eventually be affected ... what you can expect from a conservative government congress & supreme court.
 
In our view, "fake" has many possibilities:
* Fake photo - often caught, particularly if using something easily found on the Internet (verification does prevent this)
* Real photo but fake intentions - this can be both "bulls" and couples who post a photo, but:
- Don't really play, but fantasize about it (both)
- Partner has no idea (couples)
* Incomplete profile meant to mislead (have seen this twice with South Asian members who want sexy chat, which we don't want, but pretend to be local to engage in a conversation)
* Profile that says one thing about interests but is not true (e.g., says into 3-ways but really just wants one-on-one with female)

Great nuanced view of fake. Fake leads to flake. Flake makes Frustration.
 
I bet some are 100% real like i.e @Harmoni California for example.

Yes, there are some great swingers, hot wives, Queen of Spades, Size Queen loving wives, girlfriends and single females (we know many). but they are most likely NOT posting their face / bikini pictures on their avatars. (or any other posting for that matter)... OK maybe @LebanonBBCLover is the exception to the rule) ~we're a fan.

Hey, I kinda feel left out here

(lol. jk) :)
 
Most sites are filled with fakes, online dating has become such a minefield that you are better off just going out in public and trying to score some luck, and if you have any shred of respect for the ladies in your lives (wife, gf, sister, friend, etc) then you wouldn't post their pics here or on any adult site unless they gave their consent (or better yet have them open their own account). I wonder how many lives and reputations have been ruined or muddied by some guy who gets off from other guys jerking and tributing their unsuspecting SO's photos and then the photos spread throughout the interwebs.
 
I know for one - that Nancy knows about the pics that I've got of her here, there, and everywhere. She is always awed when I remind her that there are certainly lots of guys out there looking at her pics while they do their fantasy stuff. Once or twice we've had someone we know - family or friend, not swinger - find a pic and ask about it, but it's never been anything upsetting, and there's not much that we expect will happen if the pics go mainstream. WTF, we're here for the fun anyway. Go for it!
 
"Einstein" priceless, somewhat fitting for the pseudo-psychologists that pander their opinions on this site... based on what? First hand experience? Verification of a person on the site is helpful but realistically the majority of the persons on here are fakes or posers living out a fantasy for their wives, if they have one or an imaginary girlfriend as is so often stated here.... Having engaged with at least two cross town contacts and found nothing but excuses for real meets it shows that pictures mean nothing... as you all know most any warm blooded female with boobs can find a guy.. and waste less time on fantasy... Done here.
TRUTH.
 
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