An open letter to all members - a real member / admin commentary.

[SizeTrulyMatter]

Let's enjoy the site for what it is.. a lifestyle fantasy, free IR porn, potential (highly unlikely) hook-up, IR outlet, wet dream, wanna-be-cuckold, dumping ground for everything black and white / IR related we find exciting, and that is great..

We like this particular section of the original post. This site is a lifestyle fantasy for most. It's HIGHLY UNLIKELY you'll experience a hookup from here. There are other outlets for that. My wife and I haven't hooked up yet -- taken the plunge -- crossed the line. Would we WANT to hookup? Sure we WANT to. Will we? Not sure.

We absolutely LOVE chatting with people on this site. Are they real? Doesn't matter. If the words are right and they aren't hounding us for pics (happens a lot), we're good. Maybe we're in the minority, but authenticity isn't a huge prerequisite for us.

In case you need an example of a fake picture, this is not the wife, LOL...

 

[maccachew]

Posts like this are always welcome. Sadly, the audience that is directed at is probably too busy pretending to be something they aren't or typing out some kind of troglodyte response to a post, but it is still a very welcome post.

troglodyte .. Great word! Honestly one to build ones vocabulary with .. Not that is want to be so lacking as that intellectually .. Lol! Very good point though

 

[Funcouple_99]

The fakes get really old, We have tried to meet up numerous times here and have continued to strike out. People say they are up to meet, then fail to show up. Its always car trouble, fell asleep, had something come up when they text or call/email the next day. Why waste someones time if you know you are not going to be there?

 

[BusterW]

good point you make

 

[BBC Los Angeles]

do any of you have any advice for my wife and myself in terms of what to look for with someone who might be a fake? It's hard to know sometimes, and we get lots of messages from people who are unverified and seem nice, but it's hard to trust. Any tips would be appreciated.

I would suggest verifying someone is real by testing them in your first few communications. This can be done either by a web cam and just having a short conversation with person doesn't have to be a risque encounter but small talk. Or you can have them take a photo or two for you doing some gesture you make up or holding a paper with something you told them to write on it.

 

[bigblackcocklover]

I would suggest verifying someone is real by testing them in your first few communications. This can be done either by a web cam and just having a short conversation with person doesn't have to be a risque encounter but small talk. Or you can have them take a photo or two for you doing some gesture you make up or holding a paper with something you told them to write on it.

Sorry I don't agree with that I had someone who wanted me to put a piece of paper with numbers on it against my cunt and post it it's not like I was going to fuck him he was a small dick cucky that made me feel like a Jewish war prisoner no thank you You sort it out.

 

[BBC Los Angeles]

Sorry I don't agree with that I had someone who wanted me to put a piece of paper with numbers on it against my cunt and post it it's not like I was going to fuck him he was a small dick cucky that made me feel like a Jewish war prisoner no thank you You sort it out.

I disagree with you. I would just presume you weren't real if I am willing to verify and the other isn't. This is not complicated and at least you know early on if the person is just wasting your time or not.

I asked someone to take a photo doing a simple popular gesture to verify on another platform. They came back with a photo semi similar but not what I asked and I knew this is the only photo they could find online of the person they were pretending to be. This saved me a whole lot of wasted time.

Of course everyone is going to claim they do not have a cam or they aren't comfortable with this. If so then do not claim you want to meet or you are real or serious. Most if not all can get their hands on a camera also that is if they do not have one which I am sure most have on here.

 

[BusterW]

understand there are many fakes on this sites as well as others I have been too. Found a site that checks out ones photo if fake, site is called TinEye. There you can search a photo an gather information on it if rea or were it came from. May help but if people just be straight up this would be no problem on a adult site.

 

[BusterW]

After talking to numerous people you will start noticing certain RED FLAGS. They appear often and early! Personally, I'd be wary of any men who do NOT have photos of themselves with women. The 'solo guy' would be my first indication of a fake. I just think any man worht his weight in cock should have a least ONE 'action shot'???

As for authentication? Like Brotha Bobby Long said above - NOTHING beats a good Skype session!

That, plus the proliferation of photos and videos of the BBC in action.

pardon me but for myself am recently new to this site. Nor do I just start throwing out pix of me fucking on any sites neither. There is time for everthing, not one to rush headlong into something in hope of getting some ass that nite. Just cause a man has a pix of himself on some site does not mean he is a fake as well, guess women would also be a fake right? Why should everything be a hurry up an lets fuck routine??

 

[funcouple52661]

Fakes know that there are so many desperate guys out there that it is easy to be a fake. I have found that fakes are easy to spot and it makes the real ones very special. People looking for cyber are usually very fake but I won't let on all of my tricks for screening.

 

[HotRN]

Some of us are real but do to our professional career we can not just post a pic of our face on the web. We could lose our license to do our job we love so much.

 

[BusterW]

another thing that bothers me is people or some guy posting wanting his wife/gf whoever "bred. That itself is a term used for animals breeding not human beings. This wanting your woman to have some black guy baby as being the ultimate just not make sense to me. Children are to be loved not just;" look what my wife/gf had from her black lover an I am the beta male raising their baby". No, for the like of me i can not;will never understand this so call breeding a baby for this purpose. perhaps someone can explain this trend to me clearly.

 

[bigblackcocklover]

another thing that bothers me is people or some guy posting wanting his wife/gf whoever "bred. That itself is a term used for animals breeding not human beings. This wanting your woman to have some black guy baby as being the ultimate just not make sense to me. Children are to be loved not just;" look what my wife/gf had from her black lover an I am the beta male raising their baby". No, for the like of me i can not;will never understand this so call breeding a baby for this purpose. perhaps someone can explain this trend to me clearly.

These statements are from perverted white males pulling themselves off putting these comments on here is stupid

 

[Doublebbc]

Some of us are real but do to our professional career we can not just post a pic of our face on the web. We could lose our license to do our job we love so much.

Exactly

 

[Don Lowe]

YEAH hate to say it ,but you are right .Well said , a responsible view and article . Thanks your the best

 

[SeldomSeenSlim]

Ah, it's a hell of a note. Nancy and I have ourselves posted on lots of sites across the internet. We show faces, tattoos, and genitals. And now I read that some folks might well be looking at our stuff and thinking that we're not real.

Fuck it. I'll keep doing what I'm doing for us and enjoying the results. Nancy's getting laid, I'm getting off, and we're all happy. It's working for us. That's what counts, right?

 

[stefanbanner]

Hi Buster! I'm new here, also an American and also living in Germany! As much as I'd love for my wife to hook up with other men (race not important) I would never use the term breed or bred. It's disrespectful to everyone and certainly not appropriate. Thanks for speaking out and sharing your opinion.

 

[BusterW]

thank you Stefanbanner for your reply to my commen an too you BBClover as well.

 

[Torpedo]

Unless you live in a remote small town or a largely unpopulated rural area you should be able to find what you need where you are. If you are relying on this website to get laid you need to ask yourself why. I have no interest in hooking up with anyone I meet here. I am her to share thoughts and ideas with people that share the same lifestyle as I enjoy

 

[King_p3so]

pardon me but for myself am recently new to this site. Nor do I just start throwing out pix of me fucking on any sites neither. There is time for everthing, not one to rush headlong into something in hope of getting some ass that nite. Just cause a man has a pix of himself on some site does not mean he is a fake as well, guess women would also be a fake right? Why should everything be a hurry up an lets fuck routine??

Right