An open letter to all members - a real member / admin commentary.

Discussion in 'BtoW Interviews and Articles' started by BBC ONLY CPL, Dec 10, 2015.

  1. BBC ONLY CPL

    BBC ONLY CPL Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    This is a white pussy, with her legs spread wide... how many guys on here want to fuck it?

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    * I hate to be like this, but it pains me to see how stupid guys are on here to fawn over any web photo of some "white girl" or any "pussy" posted on here. (hence the stupid photo - see above if you missed it)

    www.images.google.com can save you a world of trouble... check it out, do some research.
    *If it seems too good to be be true, or fake, it probably is..

    I know I'm "Admin" and a huge contributor and 100% real BTW.. but it makes my head hurt to see how many members comment or like any obvious FAKE photo or member profiles and thread posts.

    Hint #1 - if a hot blond avatar (a white girl with 4 black dicks in her mouth) or member profile posts a face picture a white girl (with 4 black dicks in her mouth) and says she loves BBC.. she is FAKE.
    I hate to bust your bubble, but 99% of hot wives that like BBC aren't posting their face pictures for the entire web / world to see. (once again check images.google.com) - But I bet some are 100% real like i.e @Harmoni California for example.

    Hint #2 - see hint #1

    Guys - please get a grip, and not of your penis at 2am.. catch your breath and take a dose of reality before y0u post some grammatically incorrect, incoherent, drunken, one-handed comment. (Id fuk dat white grl cunt) is not acceptable and will NOT get you laid.. even if you somehow thought it would.
    Yes, there are some great swingers, hot wives, Queen of Spades, Size Queen loving wives, girlfriends and single females (we know many). but they are most likely NOT posting their face / bikini pictures on their avatars. (or any other posting for that matter)... OK maybe @LebanonBBCLover is the exception to the rule) ~we're a fan.

    I love this site, and we have been in the swinger / BBC lifestyle for many, many years.. but there are more fakes than real on here.. if it needs to be said louder for those in the back row or not paying attention - THERE ARE MORE FAKES ON HERE THAN REAL.

    Let's enjoy the site for what it is.. a lifestyle fantasy, free IR porn, potential (highly unlikely) hook-up, IR outlet, wet dream, wanna-be-cuckold, dumping ground for everything black and white / IR related we find exciting, and that is great..

    Stop posting a wife you do not have and a dick you wish you had and a let's keep it real!
    *Fuck, even 50% real would be better than what we have..

    PS - Please please please check posting dates.. if the member hasn't been on in 5 years or their most recent posting is from 2012, just move on... find something more recent to post your stupid / rude comment on... that will surely get you laid.

    @MacNfries ~ please chime in here.. your comments are priceless.
    @FunnyBunny ~ your hard work and attention to this site is second to none.. without you, well, this site would be crap. (that's english for shit!)
     
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  2. bm_from_southjersey

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    Posts like this are always welcome. Sadly, the audience that is directed at is probably too busy pretending to be something they aren't or typing out some kind of troglodyte response to a post, but it is still a very welcome post.
     
  3. Paulus50

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    Reasonable and sensible words.
     
  4. BBC ONLY CPL

    BBC ONLY CPL Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    My favorite web quote = On the internet you can be anyone you want.. too bad nobody wants to be themselves..
     
  5. LebanonBBCLover

    LebanonBBCLover Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I totally agree with you and I've noticed that here are more fakes than real in here and unfortunately many fake women and many fake men too.
    Those ladies who send pics of them and hide their faces or their tattoos are not forced to submit such pictures if they were afraid to be discovered by their family members or their work mates.
    I know the one I care for who knows what I am posting and who approves it so I don't care if someone saw me here cause I only care about my husband who is always besides me and who is always support me therefore I am not afraid from anyone else in this world and I show my face to all as well as my pussy in the same video or pic I submit.
    The fake guys here also are so funny, they submit fake pics of their cocks thinking we ladies won't be able to find that they are pics stolen from the internet or photoshopped but I feel sorry for them cause they are really very ignorant and they believe they are smart thinking they can cheat us ladies while in fact they are so stupid and arrogant.
    I hope this site will be clean of all that rubbish posts of fake men and women and I am sure the administration is working hard on this subject.
    Oh...........and thanks BBC ONLY COUPLE for mentioning me in your post, I will try to enlighten other ladies here to follow my steps and become more real than the fake they are now.
     
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  6. dunacouple

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    Hear hear.

    What also makes me frown is images of clothed women that someone wants to see 'blacked'.

    "Look my sister, mom, sister in law, daughter really needs to be blacked/bred/etc. "

    Either you are a terrible brother/son(in law)/father for posting that shit or you are simply posting random pics of people that do not want to have anything to do with this lifestyle/kink.

    Or beta husbands that want their wife to be blacked but are posting their pictures all over the forums without them knowing.

    How do I convince my wife. Here's picture of her face.
     
  7. bigblackbull76

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    @BBC ONLY CPL - Standing Ovation, BRAVO, ENCORE, AMEN PREACH ON - I've been meaning to write the same exact post and I'm glad that someone stepped up and finally did it and it couldn't have come from a better member who I know personally and can attest is also Real.

    I love the quote too and will echo it:
    " On the internet you can be anyone you want.. too bad nobody wants to be themselves."

    Your right on point with the statement that guys are way too gullible on here thinking everyone is who they present themselves to be and that everything you read and see on the Internet is true (like Martian landings at Area 51 and the Illuminati and all the BS). People pull the plug and re-join the real-world. More than 75% of the stuff in this cyber virtual world of the Internet is not real and my percentage may be too low.

    Your better off going to Walmart and getting rejected by 30 real women asking them out before that one will finally say yes than your odds of success on here.

     
  8. flsubboy4u

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    The funny thing is, you have an avatar with your face in it and you're in a bikini LOL So, if you're real, than the "face and bikini" test doesn't really work. I find you can usually tell a fake person by what they say and the wife they talk about that is not listed in their profile fi they're male. Not sure how you tell a fake woman although I know there are a lot of them on the site.
     
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  9. Elelator_Cpl

    Elelator_Cpl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    No doubt really do wish there were more real (intent, availability and identity) guys and couples here and in our area.... *sigh*

    But knowing "it is what it is" one can usually spot the fakes and flakes fortunately. Definitely poor signal:noise everywhere in the lifestyle, but with a little effort one can fine tune to lock onto the real folks, and they are out there :)

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  10. Chip

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    First off if you saw the women at my local Wal Mart you are not brave enough to ask one little lone 30 because she might say yes then your in trouble, secondly remember 90% of men say they masturbate the rest are lying.
     
  11. BBCnATX

    BBCnATX Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    There was a time not long ago (pre-1995) when people couldn't rely on the internet to live out their pathetic fantasies lol. Everyone HAD to be authentic in order to hook up. Ladies were LADIES (not men pretending) and Men had to be on their A-Game at all times - otherwise, it was a lonely night of masturbation lol.

    I come from that old school era, but in today's instant gratification society our minds are brainwashed with non-stop porn 24/7 and we are conditioned to act and react as such. The art of seduction is lost. Conversation is reduced to 140 words or less, and talking is now done through emojis and memes.

    All of that being said, FAKING has become an art form unto itself.
    It is truly a wasteland of deception....which is why I appreciate the very (VERY) few authentic people I have met!

    My fake:real ratio is somewhere around 15-1. My block/ignore list is three times as long as my 'friend list lol
     
  12. LebanonBBCLover

    LebanonBBCLover Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    But I wonder why people fake !!! The internet is full of free porn and for those fakers who just like to masturbate they can go through all those sites and masturbate but not to cheat others.........We are here for one purpose, we need a good fuck......personally I am not looking for love......I am married and I have kids but hubby can't satisfy me therefore I am looking for some black studs to satisfy me sexually either on one night stand system or on regular meeting system, no money involved and only body to body interaction .....no cyber sex but real sex that's why I am surprised to see such fakers here who are not serious to meet, why did they join the site?
     
  13. Dan Teal

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    Where are you located?
     
  14. LebanonBBCLover

    LebanonBBCLover Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    San Jose,CA
     
  15. Dan Teal

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    If i was there i would have come see you already. I am on the East Coast
     
  16. ews99

    ews99 Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I agree, as a newer member that made a big effort to post authentic photos for our verification (faces hidden of course) it's super frustrating to see how many messages we get from obvious fake profiles. It doesn't take much to go a little farther to prove you are real (crumple or fold your sign, whatever) but I get it, it's the internet. Just makes it hard to find a connection and trust that if you are authentic, they will be as well.
     
  17. PleaseFillMyWife

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    We've been trying to arrange a gloryhole BBC session since we joined in October. We have conversations going with about 30 different accounts, still took months to get just 3 to commit to a time and date (today) and then nobody showed up. Very disappointing conclusion to a hell of a lot of planning.

    1) Is that typical, or just bad luck?

    2) Any suggestions on how we can improve our odds of actually hooking up with a real person?

    3) Or is this maybe not the right site to try to arrange an actual, in-person fuck? Is there a better site anyone can recommend?

    Feeling pretty discouraged, and would greatly appreciate any advice before we think about making another attempt.
     
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  18. LebanonBBCLover

    LebanonBBCLover Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    It is not hard to find fake people.........experience teach you a lot and I can discover fake people from one or two chats.....most fake people tend to be white husbands posting on behalf of wives who don't know anything about it......those are sick people and day dreamers who can't face reality and tend to masturbate all day long and we better expose them and avoid them together
     
  19. SxxxyBstrd

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    So good to see someone, an admin no less, expressing thoughts about this type of situation. The thing is, trolls can actually ruin a site if they aren't discouraged. The best way to deal with them is to be savvy about the fakes and frauds and ignore them so that they will go away. I've been in the lifestyle for some time and I've seen the changes take place. Fortunately, my instincts are honed by experience and I'm not afraid to cut bait on a situation if my 'spidey sense' is tingling. And I concur with several of the other posters, this quote is golden:

    " On the internet you can be anyone you want.. too bad nobody wants to be themselves."

    May all of us find the pleasures and people that we're looking for.
     
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  20. ews99

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    do any of you have any advice for my wife and myself in terms of what to look for with someone who might be a fake? It's hard to know sometimes, and we get lots of messages from people who are unverified and seem nice, but it's hard to trust. Any tips would be appreciated.
     
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