Advise on how to get husband to say Yes!

[Yumacpl]

I find myself in a situation that has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I could use some guidance from this supportive community. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and always had a strong and open communication in our relationship, which is why I'm reaching out here to seek advice on a senstive issue.

Over the course of our marriage, my husband has shared some wild IR fantasies with me in bed that we both found exciting to discuss. He recently started asking me to consider sleeping with a well endowed black man! However, when I finally said yes for acting on these fantasies and trying it once, he seemed to have lost his nerve and backed away, stating that they were just fantasies. While I respect his boundaries and decisions, I can't help but find myself continually thinking about exploring these desires together.

I want to approach this in a way that respects my husband's feelings and boundaries. So, I am looking for advice on how to gently and effectively open a dialogue with my husband about the possibility of revisiting these shared fantasies and potentially taking a step forward.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice on how to broach this topic with sensitivity and understanding, I would greatly appreciate your insights. Our relationship means the world to me, and I want to ensure that we navigate this together in a way that strengthens our connection yet fulfil my desires ..

P.S I did include a photo as it seems customary on here for new members to do so

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HOT WIFE for sure

 

[ayamaharider]

I find myself in a situation that has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I could use some guidance from this supportive community. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and always had a strong and open communication in our relationship, which is why I'm reaching out here to seek advice on a senstive issue.

Over the course of our marriage, my husband has shared some wild IR fantasies with me in bed that we both found exciting to discuss. He recently started asking me to consider sleeping with a well endowed black man! However, when I finally said yes for acting on these fantasies and trying it once, he seemed to have lost his nerve and backed away, stating that they were just fantasies. While I respect his boundaries and decisions, I can't help but find myself continually thinking about exploring these desires together.

I want to approach this in a way that respects my husband's feelings and boundaries. So, I am looking for advice on how to gently and effectively open a dialogue with my husband about the possibility of revisiting these shared fantasies and potentially taking a step forward.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice on how to broach this topic with sensitivity and understanding, I would greatly appreciate your insights. Our relationship means the world to me, and I want to ensure that we navigate this together in a way that strengthens our connection yet fulfil my desires ..

P.S I did include a photo as it seems customary on here for new members to do so

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I am not sure if my answer will help but here is my take. He first introduced the fantasies to you from what I gather. You respected his wishes and you made him happy. I am not suggesting you cheat on him or anything like that, but I would strongly recommend to have those discussions again when you are away on some vacation, far from family and friends. Make sure he is overly excited with you and keep him there. You may need to do some planning like coordination with the right candidate or do it the way we prefer. Meet someone in a bar club restaurant bar and invite them over. Point being here is to re-examine the subject is a more relaxed environment and to make sure that he is in a good mood and relaxed. Simply my thoughts here.

 

[Black9]

I find myself in a situation that has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I could use some guidance from this supportive community. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and always had a strong and open communication in our relationship, which is why I'm reaching out here to seek advice on a senstive issue.

Over the course of our marriage, my husband has shared some wild IR fantasies with me in bed that we both found exciting to discuss. He recently started asking me to consider sleeping with a well endowed black man! However, when I finally said yes for acting on these fantasies and trying it once, he seemed to have lost his nerve and backed away, stating that they were just fantasies. While I respect his boundaries and decisions, I can't help but find myself continually thinking about exploring these desires together.

I want to approach this in a way that respects my husband's feelings and boundaries. So, I am looking for advice on how to gently and effectively open a dialogue with my husband about the possibility of revisiting these shared fantasies and potentially taking a step forward.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice on how to broach this topic with sensitivity and understanding, I would greatly appreciate your insights. Our relationship means the world to me, and I want to ensure that we navigate this together in a way that strengthens our connection yet fulfil my desires ..

P.S I did include a photo as it seems customary on here for new members to do so

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I would breed you . Watch porn together especially cuck porn and let you hands and mouth wander and then get your new toy out .the big black dildo and let hom use it on you . Discuss how he felt afterwards

 

[robbiewillsuck]

I can help you get hubby to say yes to you having sex with other cocks 1on1 or 3way or 4way.

 

[marco vittoro]

I find myself in a situation that has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I could use some guidance from this supportive community. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and always had a strong and open communication in our relationship, which is why I'm reaching out here to seek advice on a senstive issue.

Over the course of our marriage, my husband has shared some wild IR fantasies with me in bed that we both found exciting to discuss. He recently started asking me to consider sleeping with a well endowed black man! However, when I finally said yes for acting on these fantasies and trying it once, he seemed to have lost his nerve and backed away, stating that they were just fantasies. While I respect his boundaries and decisions, I can't help but find myself continually thinking about exploring these desires together.

I want to approach this in a way that respects my husband's feelings and boundaries. So, I am looking for advice on how to gently and effectively open a dialogue with my husband about the possibility of revisiting these shared fantasies and potentially taking a step forward.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice on how to broach this topic with sensitivity and understanding, I would greatly appreciate your insights. Our relationship means the world to me, and I want to ensure that we navigate this together in a way that strengthens our connection yet fulfil my desires ..

P.S I did include a photo as it seems customary on here for new members to do so

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love, you totally need to get him naked, tie him up in a chair& gag him.
then bring in your prime breeding bull T ease him.
let him know if he gets erect, he's giving you defacto permission for the bull to take you BARE!.
then you play with him as the bull takes you & tell him that you're fertile, & if he (hubby) cums, he's telling the bull to breed his black baby inside you. then insert your finger & push his button so he's guaranteed to blow instantly. the bull will follow suit, & hubby gets outed big time & there'll be no going back. that's what my wife suggested. she says your body was meant to make black babies.

 

[Alex garcia]

I find myself in a situation that has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I could use some guidance from this supportive community. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and always had a strong and open communication in our relationship, which is why I'm reaching out here to seek advice on a senstive issue.

Over the course of our marriage, my husband has shared some wild IR fantasies with me in bed that we both found exciting to discuss. He recently started asking me to consider sleeping with a well endowed black man! However, when I finally said yes for acting on these fantasies and trying it once, he seemed to have lost his nerve and backed away, stating that they were just fantasies. While I respect his boundaries and decisions, I can't help but find myself continually thinking about exploring these desires together.

I want to approach this in a way that respects my husband's feelings and boundaries. So, I am looking for advice on how to gently and effectively open a dialogue with my husband about the possibility of revisiting these shared fantasies and potentially taking a step forward.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice on how to broach this topic with sensitivity and understanding, I would greatly appreciate your insights. Our relationship means the world to me, and I want to ensure that we navigate this together in a way that strengthens our connection yet fulfil my desires ..

P.S I did include a photo as it seems customary on here for new members to do so

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You're an amazing Woman! You're very loving and a good wife... I am a beta Latino boy... I'm kinda small... For that reason every since one of my first GFs cheated on me with a Black guy. At first I felt really bad... She broke up with me... Looking back I definitely would of accepted and encourage her enjoying BBC since I know I wasn't satisfying her...
Years later I definitely want to meet a beautiful woman like you and encourage her to go Black.
I love that hotwiring is becoming more common...
It's great for us husbands cause we don't have to worry about our sexual performance. Black men definitely can handle that... You should definitely keep bringing it up. Your husband is super lucky to have found you!

 

[cenlacuck]

I find myself in a situation that has been on my mind for quite some time now, and I could use some guidance from this supportive community. My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and always had a strong and open communication in our relationship, which is why I'm reaching out here to seek advice on a senstive issue.

Over the course of our marriage, my husband has shared some wild IR fantasies with me in bed that we both found exciting to discuss. He recently started asking me to consider sleeping with a well endowed black man! However, when I finally said yes for acting on these fantasies and trying it once, he seemed to have lost his nerve and backed away, stating that they were just fantasies. While I respect his boundaries and decisions, I can't help but find myself continually thinking about exploring these desires together.

I want to approach this in a way that respects my husband's feelings and boundaries. So, I am looking for advice on how to gently and effectively open a dialogue with my husband about the possibility of revisiting these shared fantasies and potentially taking a step forward.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice on how to broach this topic with sensitivity and understanding, I would greatly appreciate your insights. Our relationship means the world to me, and I want to ensure that we navigate this together in a way that strengthens our connection yet fulfil my desires ..

P.S I did include a photo as it seems customary on here for new members to do so

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So there is a thing with men called “post nut clarity” letting him jerk off to these fantasies will make his desires waver drastically. You should consider chastity and denial. Keep him edged and at the height of his arrousal when discussing the subject. Controlling his orgasms will make him want it until the act is done and then you can show him that you’ll still be there with him afterward. It will help tame his fears that he gets after orgasming. Then allowing him to cum when you are satisfied as a reward will train him to want you to do it more so he can be rewarded for being a good cuck.

 

[erika9009]

A good place to start is to give hubby a threesome with another woman! (If that is a fantasy of his!)

So the question is have you guys had the fantasy conversation and if you did what was his biggest fantasy? Give him his then get yours!

Be sure and super careful on this 2 girl 3some. I was the 3rd in this situation some years back. It got rather crazy as he did say yes to her having sex with a black guy after the 3some with me.

He regretted it. It caused a number of issues that almost cost them their marriage.

As others have said..............most scenarios here are best kept a fantasy.